Even if you’re not on TikTok you’ve seen this trend: “unalive” for dead; “segs” for sex. It’s cutesy and a little clever, but research shows it might also be bad for free expression—and self-censorship around sex and the body can harm girls and young women the most.

I wrote a BDSM 101 guide for @rewirenewsgroup.com ❤️‍🔥⛓️‍💥💥Writing this was a doozy but I was surprised by how much evidence there is for the power of BDSM to heal—especially for survivors, neurodivergent folks, and marginalized people of all kinds rewirenewsgroup.com/2026/01/06/w...

The latest from our sex columnist @cuteflesh.bsky.social : Gen Z Wants To Ditch Tinder. But Can They Find Love IRL?

Before Thanksgiving comes for Blackout Wednesday, when singles mingle at their hometown bars. @cuteflesh.bsky.social's latest sex column for @rewirenewsgroup.com. includes describes life IRL as the "meaty fleshspace"& features some Carrie Bradshaw-esque anthropological dating observations. Enjoy!

Whats the difference between a chaser and someone who happens to be into trans women? www.howtofucklikeagirl.com/how-to-spot-...

I wrote about accidentally getting wifey disease last year for @rewirenewsgroup.com rewirenewsgroup.com/2025/10/24/q...

you’re allowed to be a cis man playing a trans woman in a movie if you look as good as Lee Pace did in A Soldier’s Girl (2003)

“Our stories are not all the same, but the destination is: to get some place where we have some peace and harmony, and we can be at ease with ourselves and the people around us.”

in the upcoming great anti-corporation revolution i hope to see a couple pennies in recompense when we forcibly liquidate all the billionaires' assets

idk if nicholas is on here yet but he wrote about his rosary and going to catholic school in las vegas and it's nicholas so of course its good yalereview.org/article/nich...

predictably eating this book up. well written gossip about artists i'm obsessed with — how could I resist buying it off the display table in W&CF? Sometimes gets so into the weeds of minutiae that it becomes boring but then it sucks me back in with a snappy sentence or juicy revelation

I forgot how to be a good tweeter so i'm just going to use this place to talk about what i'm reading and loving (and — if i'm feeling brave — reading and hating)

I wrote a new foreword for the 2024 SPX reprint of my zine "Napkin (Thank you for having sex with Carta Monir)" (2019).

where do i find all the porn on here?