Watching Wicked: For Good- a movie about revealing the dirty under-dealings of the government and people in power right after seeing an ad from the Ford gov telling us they’re going to unethically extract minerals from the Ring of Fire is peak 2025 in #Onterrible.

My son held up the one pair of heels I have, looked at me with an accusatory scorn and said MOM Are you trying to be a KAREN? Then proceeded to clomp around the house telling people hes going to call the cops 😅😭

On Monday we find out if our play about an an adoptee and her sister gets a lotto spot in the 2026 Toronto Fringe - I’ve gotten in 2ce- 1 was The Church of Dad where I breast fed from a cross lol - I did get a special mention in NOW magazine entitled : Good work, too bad about the show 🥲

Here is the before of this gamer room basement makeover- unfortunately this room is multipurpose for a home gym and my self tapes for auditions so I’ll see how it can work - biggest problem is my tv doesn’t even work 🥲

All I want for Christmas is for the worst people in the world to experience some consequences

Guh Its Migraine day - only good thing is how good you feel when the pain subsides amd melts away

LOVE Calvin and Hobbes

Hello again. We didn't make November's goal, so I'm afraid I still need the same goal in December. Heating fuel, bills, feed, and groceries, still. I'm sorry I have to ask. Still an immediate $500 goal, and $2000 for the month. Apologies. Venmo, cashapp, Paypal: BurdockAndBramble

For Christmas Im redoing my basement for the kids like a gaming / lego room / so far I have furniture covers for colour , a cool rug and some wall decals - hoping to hit the thrift stores for other stuff but if anyone here is a gamer and has cheap ideas pls share!!

Democratic Leader Hakeem Jeffries: “Strong floor, no ceiling” Colombian President Gustavo Petro: “A clan of pedophiles wants to destroy our democracy.”

Me on a date full well knowing there’s someone else out there who Im telepathically connected and soul tied to who has already spoken for me

🌹 random rose 🌹 December 5th 2023

I’ve had a death in the family 🥺 Damn I hate losing a good pen. I would show you a picture but I want to keep this respectful.

Terrible day to have a contact issue at the gym- there’s about 5 old guys that think Im trying to flirt

Holy shit I did it . Proud to announce I now have full control over my go daddy account ! My ex looked after it and it was the last remaining item on my list to fully have my autonomy back. DAMN did I clean house this year

It just hit me: my adoptive father is upset with me and my life bc he expected a ROI . I expect you to be astounding but I also don’t think you’ll amount to much. Now that I am living for myself and what I want, I can more easily separate the impossible but very felt expectations others had on me.

At a gig and this goodlife fitness attached to a superstore is completely empty - apparently there is a BUNCH like this in the GTA - seems to me these spaces could house people or be of some use to the community - theres showers and everything .

I like this clip bc I didn’t have an ending for my set so I came up with this like 2 hours before . I love when my poor brain actually locks in for 5 min.

Tonight was SO fun

Got my first 10 min set tonight for a room full of queers 🤝 easiest way to meet people #mesmart

Love this

I’ve purchased my first piece of spicy queer fiction - 16 year old me under the covers with a flashlight in my (very cold, very haunted), upstairs farmhouse bedroom is VERY excited 😊

Lez be honest

Ahh the golden rule - classic

If I’m understanding this correctly, X is owned by a white nationalist who pays poor people of color in developing countries to pretend to be working class white Americans to scare other white Americans into being afraid poor people of color from developing countries are going to ruin America?

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Painting for the sake of enjoying painting again. Lovely 😊 Im gonna start calling this place the rose cottage 🌹💕🌹

The most enjoyable performers / speakers/ comics/ actors in whatever creative medium have Stage presence. You can be up there and do all the right things and make all the right moves but without that je ne sais quoi bit it’s…. Dull. Sorry influencers. #bigthoughtoftheday

Ok I said I’d start writing and it’s kind if exploded lol- so many words that require different mediums! Is it stand up comedy? Is it a musical? Is it a Fringe Play ? Is it motivational speaking? Is it all of the above ?

Be a good samaritan this holiday season and invite your self employed friend to your corporate holiday party- we dont get out much and we tell the best stories.

Hey fellow #adoptees , my birth mother gave the name she gave me to her next daughter who she kept. Like middle name and everything. What kind of trauma reaction is that? Why do you think she would do that? Thanks for any input !

My daughter just ruined the cookies she made by telling me oh btw I put two uni- cellular organisms in there. I didnt know eggs could get more gross. Lol

One of the peak experiences of being a Late in Life Lesbian is getting clocked by a butch across a crowded room. The eye contact is 🔥🥵

You don’t know what you don’t know. But you can feel that. And that’s where you begin.

NEW: Epstein survivors release the most powerful PSA I have ever seen. Make this go viral so every member of the House of Representatives sees it.

#MutualAid #Disability Freaking out. My dad's still in hospital after a stroke, not doing well. I feel helpless. Stress off the chart... And I STILL need to care for my cats. Currently $20/240 for the vet for my boys. Any help is pure love. Links next post.

Trimming your pubes over the toilet while belting Whitney Houstons I have Nothing on a Saturday night in a kid free house before hitting up a gay cowgirl event is peak adulting.

No one will throw you under the bus harder than someone who knows they don’t have a chance of getting you in bed. Its why I quit comedy after 5 years -angry men who had no chance tried to ruin my reputation other ways . Lol.

One thing we don’t talk about enough in adoption circles is how many of us will not go for dental work, minor surgeries or gender affirming surgeries bc who wants more trauma ? As much as I want certain things I def dont want to be unconcious / under the knife voluntarily. #adopteevoices #cptsd

With a new therapist temprly and she was talking about working with nrvs systems that are functioning as if they are at say a 10 yo olds perspective bc of trauma or whatever and I was happy to give her the perspective of an adoptee- our nervous systems functioning at a new born or in utero level.

Being a comedian has always been in my wheelhouse and it has taken me a very long time to let myself believe there is space for me , a late in life non binary lesbian parent and adoptee on a stage behind a mic. But now it’s time! Onward !

Maybe Im crashing out a bit here but I am SO tired of people casually fucking with me and then when they don’t get the reaction they expect I get turned into a horrible person by default. Its happened my entire life and I dont know why its still happening. You can’t know me w/o meeting me.

As an Adoptee I’ve never handled pranks, surprises, hints, secrecy, etc well… even if they were ‘good’ . My nervous system will arm it self against any perceived attack. It does not like not knowing what is coming. It’s definitely enlightening to know about myself. #adoptee #adultadoptees

One thing I learned about being a people pleaser and yes man my whole life was that neither of those things ever garnered respect.

It doesn’t surprise me that personal big wins these days don’t feel as fulfilling as we expected they would. Its because as empathetic souls we know deep down that individual success in a deeply inequitable society will always ring hollow. No one is free until we are all free.