Dykes, sapphics, etc: I'm writing a piece about how "divine feminine"/"high-value dating" language & ideology is creeping into our communities. I wanna hear your experiences, have you been seeing more of this on your feeds, on the apps, irl? How does it make you feel? Drop me a DM :)

Nationalise lime bike

I wrote about that BBC investigation open.substack.com/pub/lofaith/...

I'm giving blood & I asked the technician "if I wanted to donate placenta next time, how do I do that?" 💀💀

He was deathmogged but now He is risen-maxxing

Noticing a significant uptick in being ghosted by editors, even after filing with them

looking to speak to LGBT+ people who've worked with a queer life coach for a sensitivity handled article

For @gaytimes.bsky.social, I explored why it might take LGBTQIA+ people five times longer to get an endometriosis diagnosis, the as wait time in the UK creeps up to almost a decade. #EndometriosisAwarenessMonth www.gaytimes.com/endometriosi...

I tracked every time I cried for 6 months & all I got was this deeper understanding of how wearables & algorithmic social media is shifting the metaphors we use to conceive of our bodies (& perhaps even ourselves) open.substack.com/pub/lofaith/...

I found the world's most unfortunate name for a wrist doctor

Looking to speak to queer people who've been diagnosed with endometriosis for an article about our experiences - UK only please. 💛

Final balcony harvest of the year 🍅

The only AI I care about is the IRL voice changer in scream 2 & 3

I wrote something silly about Gaylors and the sapphic summer of discontent open.substack.com/pub/lofaith/...

I'm loading dishwashers in ways you can't even fathom

For Glamour, I explored the rise of the womanosphere and the women using their platforms to fight back: www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/woma...

Sex Matters are trying to force the ponds to operate on a trans-exclusive basis, despite users of the ponds having voted against such an approach.

For Metro, I investigated TikTok’s theory that your first wlw breakup is the absolute worst type you’ll ever go through: metro.co.uk/2025/09/20/f...

Big daylight doesn't want us talking about this, but the nights are really drawing in

One of the unexpected things I've learned from my advocacy for trans people is how malignant parts of the State can be, how it can misuse data for positively evil purposes. It's taught me people can't be safe with a digital ID card and so I've signed this. petition.parliament.uk/petitions/73...

When bisexuals were erased from the Stonewall monument narrative, many, even within some queer and queer-friendly circles that I saw, treated it as a hostile yet somewhat random if not ridiculous move. It was anything but random 👇

For Xtra, I explored how the far right conceives of and discusses bisexuality, and why we need to understand that in order to fight for all queer rights: xtramagazine.com/power/politi...

I wrote about why I dislike the arguement that tradwives are just fetishists open.substack.com/pub/lofaith/...

Man, this is the first time I've wished I was still on twitter

Bought some boujie crisps at a corner shop & the uncle behind the counter said "ohh, you've got fancy taste. Pricey". BRO they're your prices 😭

We didn't have the opportunity to do anything big for Bi+ Vis Day this year, but there will be a pub meet up on the Saturday before, likely in Islington. Details tbc.

Huh. I guess all those patriots didn't just have a load of British flags already laying around.

It's pretty obvious that incitement to violence (ostensibly a police matter) is OK with this government as long as the targets are trans. Unless the message is that you can say whatever you like online with no consequences

They’re happy with racist intimidation via racist displays outside the homes of people who happen to be asylum seekers too and have nothing to say about recent racist attacks other than “I love flags!!”

Obviously the answer to this is ‘they’re saying this to court transphobes’, but this shows just how reactionary and morally inconsistent this Labour party is. How can you be the party of the Online Safety Act and then imply that online hate speech is a lesser issue than street crime?

Saw three teens on one (stolen) lime bike. London is the future.

There's a week and a half to go and our programme is almost full! I want to hear from bi+ spoken word artists and poets in London to come join our line up! Tell your writer mates to get in touch!

not only are labour actively courting reform voters by being as bigoted as possible but they then have the nerve to say to the rest of us 'if you dont vote labour reform will win!'.

Only john darnielle understands my PMDD

The 12th annual international Gender Census 2025 is now open until at least 30th August 2025! survey.gendercensus.com It's for anyone whose gender (or lack thereof) isn't described by the M/F binary. It's short and easy, and results are useful in academia, business and self-advocacy.

Bi+ Community Fair. London. 31 August 2025. Authors. Activists. Panels. Talks. Zine Making. Speed-Friending. DJ. Pizza. More to be confirmed! Free tickets available soon.

Gotta regularly remind myself that there are people out there who believe stuff like "1 in 12 people in London are illegal immigrants" www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025...

For this month's substack, I wrote about subscription model capitalism and the rise of body fascism - and what that means for body modification lofaith.substack.com/p/tattoo-reg...

the clockwork orange scene where your eyes are being held open as youre forced to watch mrs browns boys

Don't want to see trans kids? Pluck out your eyes!

Watching the Minority Report for the first time and within the first 5 minutes they use "twink" as a slur. Y2K, baby.

I think one of the reasons there’s so much cognitive dissonance on the right about Epstein, child sex trafficking, and their own heroes is that they don’t think of the victims as real people. They view the abuse as an intangible evil but when real victims come forward they ignore and deny them

With the new school guidance its becoming ever more clear that the official position of the Labour gov is that being trans is an illegitimate way of being

For Gay Times, I investigated the role that fundraising events for gender-affirming care have played in revitalising queer nightlife. magazine.gaytimes.com/how-gender-a...

Barber forgot to put the guard on

Queer women in seaside towns love being in butch for butch relationships. Has anyone studied this?

Next Bi+ Brixton is this Saturday!

I know we're like not supposed to admit this, sometimes when I'm out with my girlfriend, service workers do treat us better than they treat the straight couples they're attending

I spoke to couples who do regular relationship reviews & asked experts whether we should all be doing 'em graziadaily.co.uk/life/real-li...