(Dude suddenly stops pushing his broom across the floor of the Death Star) Does this look like a big laser to anyone else

youtu.be/5iBXwSFEFwc?... I wrote this back in 2020. I wasn't planning to release it as a single. But normalization and grief have been on my mind a lot, so I guess I wanted to ask this now... as the days go by and this starts to feel normal, can we let ourselves even grieve what we lose?

I don't think the collar on my shirt fooled anybody today. I have a fuckin mullet 😂. I might wear a nice t shirt tomorrow. At least I'll be comfortable while I stick out 😅.

sick of feeling powerless? disrespected? pushed too far? I sincerely recommend silence. youtu.be/ABT7jSi6Muw?... #mothersay #nocontact

Genuinely confused as to why the people who design clothes think that ppl who wear men's dress clothes are larger than ppl who wear regular men's clothes.

What random facts should I integrate into my work persona before Monday? Aside from being cis, ofc.

aspiring t-shirt salesman rolls t's while having a minor existential crisis about needing to wear a collared shirt next week.

2 hours in but I'm already calling it. Dead Pope isn't gonna be topped as a birthday gift. Thanks, universe. (I know he was the best one of my lifetime but I don't care, the Catholic Church is evil).

I got my middle name from my friend Joel. 2 days ago would've been his 70th birthday. I miss our pew hangs the most. Here's me on the pew singing the song I wrote about him. youtu.be/L2ghP-r2B-0?...

no wonder I haven't been writing as many songs, these shits are depressing

For many years now I have personally done my best to replace the word "passing" with "blending" (in trans contexts). It's been very healthy for me. tbh I sort of expected others to come to the same conclusion and for our group vocabulary to shift. I don't think it has. thoughts?

It’s that time again; 3rd annual Mira Bellwether Buy A Trans Woman A Pizza Day is Monday, March 31st.

Weird AF questions on job applications recently: 1) "What is your assigned gender at birth" 2) "Do you identify by your legal gender". 🤦🏼‍♂️

Yes. blackberri.bandcamp.com/track/eat-th...

Online now

youtu.be/JRrBF17omf4?... I put out a new EP, and a lyric video for the last song on it. It's a song about rising fascism and it's called "Already Lost". And somehow, despite everything... I swear it's hopeful.

Infinite love to the trans people who are just finding themselves right now, who are just starting hrt right now, who are looking at the world and saying, despite it all, fuck you im me. You are stronger than any government could ever hope to be, and we are here to make sure that you survive

Preemptive compliance is so harmful.

Allegory alert!

I can but they're all trans people

Reminder that whenever someone says "gender ideology," they're referring to the mere existence of trans people, not an ideology. This is eliminationist garbage.

Preemptive compliance is not forgiveable.

ah yes the terrible red states full of *checks notes* the most impoverished americans on average and majority of the black population

feeling defiant. #trans #folkpunk

What are ppl using as a capcut replacement? Sync audio to video, & auto lyrics with a custom font, being the main features I need aside from the obvious..

hyping up your favorite bands and artists is free and easy and goes a long way :) I promise you aren't being annoying or cringe by gassing up the art that you love and anyone who says you are is a fucking loser anyways <3

Remember that one time in 2015 when North Carolina made it illegal for us to go to the bathroom and everyone cared? The NBA even moved the all star game! wtf was that about? I'm genuinely baffled bc I can't think of another time that cis ppl have cared.

I'm so fucking glad that I'm trans.

omg I was going mad, for months, trying to get design programs to cooperate with an open type font feature bc I hand make fonts. And MICROSOFT WORD is the solution... what on earth.

thought up a reel idea but I need capcut 🫠😅

if you like my music DM me your email addy so we don't have to rely on these stupid apps.

ready or not, here we are. definitely a moment to stay tf away from the news. Act up. Stay trans.

In 5 or less words, start a fight not about religion or politics: Feature length films are meh.

I’m fucking done with doomerism. I understand it. I’ve been in it. But it eats you from the inside and paralyzes you when you need to be active the most. To live. To plan for the future. To build the life that you DESERVE. That you CHOOSE

Genuinely, what am I supposed to do on here?

Friends in Real Life is here! Buckeye is a single from Friends in Real Life's debut album. Watch the whole video for Buckeye on Youtube. The whole album launches on Feb. 21st! Preorder the album now! Available on tape, cd, and Vinyl. Find it on Bandcamp at friendsinreallife.bandcamp.com

Idk if I even have Oakland friends on here yet!! But if so! I'm planning a really fun album release party and you should definitely come! Friday January 24th at the Queer Arts Center in Oakland!

oh yay I got 13 new tiktok followers today

Shout-out to May, an ICU nurse at SF General, for repeatedly misgendering an old trans lady on her deathbed, and shattering some little piece of hope I didn't know I had left.

It feels silly, but the combo of losing tiktok and meta going full bigot at the same time is hitting me kind of hard. I guess this is supposed to be the place to be, but these text ones have never worked for me.

Once again was reminded that the people doing the best in my community rn are in paperwork hell. This reminder wouldn't hit as hard if I had my paperwork in order 😬.

Do you think Luigi had to be the fall guy bc he has such a memeable name?

I walked through a Pokemon Go meetup today and it was like a tiny portal back to that weird couple of months during the before times. Surreal AF.

My album inspired my friend to sign up to volunteer as a server for a community Christmas meal - and dodge the homophobic part of his family gathering. Maybe you need to hear it too?

@CJLawrencemusic.bsky.social cuts to the bone on his diaristic new album Home, a memoir of cutting off whom you need to in order to survive as a trans person. rainbowrodeomag.com/... #QueerCountry #Americana #CountryMusic #RootsMusic #LGBTQMusic #QueerMusic #LGBTQMusician #TransMusic#TransMusician

This is a really honest reflection of how coming out as trans changed my relationship to home - and family. I hope you'll give it a listen. open.spotify.com/album/7uO84N...

using a niche website kinda intensively at 2am and it goes down with 404 not found nginx and I'm like... 👀... was it me!?

I was pretty stressed about not having a copy of my name change order, but after I finally found the right form, the clerk sent over a certified copy in literally 13 minutes 🤯.