Tam With The Yams
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Just Talkin’ ✨ BlueSky Conversation Facilitator (self-appointed)
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Hi! I’m Tam ✨ I dabble in a little bit of everything; anime and cosplay for funsies. I’m a spiritual gworly, a content creator, and occasionally I like to talk a lil 💩
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Know thyself lol
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Lacking accountability will always be a lose-lose situation. You’re avoidant because you fear the outcome, but your refusal to move in honesty and truth perpetuates the very aspects of your life that you hate (e.g., imbalanced or disingenuous connections, stagnation, etc.).
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News Flash: Even if you’re the person investing more into the connection, you’re JUST as responsible for the imbalance and co-dependent nature of the relationship. By not setting boundaries, you’re an active participant in the dynamic. Inability to set boundaries is indicative of a deeper issue.
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Everyday I realize that the bar for self-awareness is in the deepest pits of hell. Why are you not regularly assessing your reactions and responses to things? People can understand the concept of studying for a test to get a passing score, but not self-reflection to become a better person.
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Shame and guilt are not inherently “bad” emotions; they’re indicators of your capacity to feel and empathize. But responding with deflection and avoidance over accountability and truth indicates a lack of emotional and mental intelligence.
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Channeling the restraint of my ancestors because chile…..
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lawrence ⚡
5 days ago
No one should have to face that. It's a respect thing. Happy Birthday to you. Never forget what they show you...
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I don’t really get in my feelings about my birthday, but being in my life and not acknowledging my shit at all is crazy asf
5 days ago
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JAMIE FOOX
5 days ago
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Birthday Behavior 💙
5 days ago
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America already pissing me tf off
15 days ago
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You take all the pressure off my mind ❤️
19 days ago
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Jess, Jesse, Jessica
25 days ago
BTW I didn't miss your point, I just thought you needed to know.
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Jess, Jesse, Jessica
25 days ago
Well, you are gorgeous.
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Zelena Sage
26 days ago
I was in a tiny town in East Europe and they just could not understand how I got there😭 they will just stand and stare like deer on the side of the road😭 One even said [translation] "no issues at all with Black people, but understand I have never seen one of y'all outside of TV before"
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Buff Bae Da ButchQween
26 days ago
Same as a black man. Especially, in spaces we typically do not occupy😅😅
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As a black woman that travels a lot, you really just have to get used to people staring at you lol.
26 days ago
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I just feel like once your supporters consist of mostly men and pick mes, you’ve lost credibility.
28 days ago
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The hate and simultaneous mimicry of African American culture is insane lol.
30 days ago
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I wouldn’t even attempt to drive in Italy 😭😭😭
30 days ago
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Italy to me is Vegas for others. I might come back with husband idk
about 1 month ago
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Male-centered women will always fail 😒
about 1 month ago
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🌷Shea🌷
about 1 month ago
SALUTE!
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Glo is slowly making moves that undermines and opposes Miss Megan. And aside from the ridiculousness…that’s not smart. Because baby A LOT OF PEOPLE only f with you because of Megan Pete 🤨 Be forreal mfer
about 1 month ago
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Bo-dega BAD-DIE 🎶
about 1 month ago
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𝐛𝐨𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐚 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐛𝐮𝐦 💋💜
about 1 month ago
good morning and happy monday to the realest 🫡 ☀️
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𝟸 𝙷𝚞𝚜𝚋𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚜 𝙵𝚒𝚗𝚎
about 1 month ago
Good morning real bitches 🫡
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Good morning indeed!! 🫶🏾🫶🏾
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about 1 month ago
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Salute the real bxtches ✨
about 1 month ago
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The anger I have over Kyren Lacy’s case is inexplicable. I don’t even have the words.
about 1 month ago
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🥲
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about 1 month ago
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🇧🇧Mimi Monèt🇯🇲
about 1 month ago
Im not trying to block ya access my bad ! 😭😭
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AvaJ
about 1 month ago
Well...
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Jenifer Lewis’ Afro
about 1 month ago
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Jonathan Bailey 8/20 ♌️
about 1 month ago
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ebony💕|baby, where's my oversized hoodie?! 🍂
about 1 month ago
y'all do too mu.....
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Last Of The Elder Gods
about 1 month ago
I quit. Y’all too funny.
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Michael Brown II
about 1 month ago
They were block listed on day 1 of the great migration lol
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Elli Ellz✨
about 1 month ago
I —
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𝒢𝑒𝓃𝓉𝓁𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃...𝒜𝒸𝓉 𝒜𝒸𝒸𝑜𝓇𝒹𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓁𝓎
about 1 month ago
😂😂😂
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Last Of The Elder Gods
about 1 month ago
Aight. Y’all win. This is crazy.
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NEIGHBORHOOD VOODOO PRIEST🔮🧿📿🪬
about 1 month ago
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Haystack West 🤠
about 1 month ago
This would explain everything…
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Matthew
about 1 month ago
My trauma response thanks to Brabz on Twitter got me checking the quotes. Thank god their not on Bluesky yet.. 😭
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I don’t think they’ll migrate over here. There’s not enough group think and delusional vitriol being spilled.
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about 1 month ago
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🌈Warm&Cozy_Titty_ass_Tricey👻
about 1 month ago
Someone come get me off the floor.
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about 1 month ago
WHERE IS THE LIE?!!!!!
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Don Dada
about 1 month ago
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I’m just tryna make it to the pearly gates
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