I bet everyone who follows me will have seen this already, but here's a very practical and well thought through guide to meeting people for kink

I've just noticed that @kinky-tom84.bsky.social has made the move over to Bluesky! Here's my favourite video from an excellent session I had with him back in March - he certainly put me through my paces!

I got a lovely compliment on my gainz™ from one of the really nice straight guys at gym. He hadn't seen me for a few weeks and thought I was looking good. The gainz™ weren't a major main aim of the gym going, but I'm definitely taking the compliment!

Really enjoyed this vid from Starkey so I replicated it myself. Not posting it here because (a) it turns out I get confused when taking a video in a mirror and (b) it unsurprisingly shows my face, but message me if we know each other and you're interested to see 😊

Once again, the obligatory "locked while travelling" photo

I'm keen to jump on this bandwagon, although it might take me a while to get through them given a busy week coming up. Drop a like to encourage me, but I'll probably gradually fill them in regardless ☺️

One of the fun things about CrossFit-style classes is the topless sweaty guys, especially when I get to be one of them. But I think I'll have another week of keeping my top on until I'm fully confident that the whip marks aren't visible 😆

Folsom Europe 2025! My first time in Berlin for kink and my first ever big kink event. Overall, I had a blast, I met fantastic and lovely people, I learned things about myself, and I'm keen to do similar things again.

This post and thread articulate something very important to me. I enjoy pain play and (in the right context) I enjoy receiving hard pain that goes beyond what is fun for me in the moment. I don't like calling this pain "punishment", essentially for the reasons described here.

I'm back home after a fantastic time at Folsom Europe. I'll put together some proper posts about various fun things once I'm less sleepy. For now, here's the obligatory chastity travel photo, with maybe a hint of the fact that fun things happened during the week 😁

I'm very happy with today's shopping trip - the vest and shorts below are among today's purchases 😁 I'm particularly grateful that my partner suggested before I left that mesh tops might suit me 😊

Yay, I've got a ticket for Combat at Quälgeist on Friday!

In-flight chastity check

I had a countryside holiday last week and got to enjoy being outside while there weren't other people around 🌞

I was encouraged by @gxusm.bsky.social to take some photos in my leather this afternoon, and I'm pretty happy with how they came out

Obligatory "locked on the train" photo

One of the fun things about a week or two of chastity is that unlocks my ability to cum from nipple torture alone

I'm at a work conference this week and I just keep meeting lovely queers - I'm feeling a load of queer joy and community and it's just really fantastic

Got some rubber on for the International Day of Latex

Since I'm setting things up on Bluesky, here's a video of me from a very fun trip to see kinkytom84/84TW back in March. Strenuous bondage with some added fun, one of my favourite activities!