I really do think that the fight for marriage equality needs to conclude with marriage abolition. otherwise you're simply expanding the definition of a privileged relationship. and what can expand can also contract.

re: the resemblance discussion going around, I ended up a perfect blend of facial features from both sides of the family so while I don't look exactly like anyone, I have my mother's speaking mannerisms and my father's facial expressions and it always surprises people how precisely they match

love it when I get a neck massage and then afterwards I can feel the increased blood flow to my head

why are german stores allergic to carrying unsweetened beverages

we didn't mean to, but conner and I wrote a book. it's available now. i am so proud of what we've made and can't wait for people to uncover what's inside it

accidentally stayed up far too late writing lyrics

The main achievement of the tech industry has been increasing the flow of money from people who make or do things to people who already have more money than they could spend in a hundred lifetimes

I got the results of my at-home sleep study and felt very vindicated by the quantity of apnea events recorded. unfortunately now they must conduct More Tests before any treatment can be done and I remain constantly exhausted

a little while ago I helped a friend from Uganda fundraise for some queer refugees who were trying to flee homophonic violence for a safer place to stay. they've made it to South Sudan but they're still in need of funds... I'd love it if you all could spread this link around 💖 gofund.me/1bebb5d7c

Acrylic ink and gel pen on stone henge paper

Those that back the fuck away from Omelas.

slept wrong on my less bad shoulder so now it's agony from all directions. what do you mean I have class in an hour

If you love trans people, if you love sex workers, if you think we deserve to have families... please donate. The amount of money my friend needs to raise for court costs is shocking. Please donate.

"You make the best of it all and hope you can help make it a little better for the gurl after you." - Miss Major, 2023 💔

persimmon pudding! it's so good but also I accidentally made SO much

Whistling when ICE is about to kidnap someone for no reason is incredibly effective. They know what they are doing is wrong and will scatter in the wind when too many witnesses gather.

it's not FOR us

@ripeteeth.bsky.social it's for you

miso pumpkin soup with ginger sesame apples. peeling that pumpkin was wretched but the soup was SO good

my android just updated and I despise the new ui, put it back!!!

well I was feeling grumpy about having to go do things in the world and then someone stopped me on the bus to tell me how stylish I look so maybe today can stay

Area Man Shocked To Find Headache Goes Away After Taking Ibuprofen

Would you like to own a charmingly round horse based on the Lascaux Cave paintings? Now's your chance. I have two handmade needlefelt horses for sale on ko-fi. I'd love it if you checked them out or shared this post. ko-fi.com/s/70790863c6

Miss Major, one of the mothers of the trans liberation movement, has been in the hospital for 10 days with sepsis and a blood clot. She has looked out for us for generations, now it’s time to look out for her. Donate if you can: fundly.com/missmajor

unstreamable.com okay this is a fucking gold mine

I don’t speak on this very often, but I urge you to call. If this goes through, it won’t just be federal funding that stops for gender affirming care. It’s federal money now, but insurance companies follow what they’re allowed to do and if they’re allowed to drop us, they will. Please call.

one thing I desperately miss about not living in germany is access to unsweetened ice tea. you really do not know what you have until you lose it

hm. once again asking myself whether I am desperate enough to combine muscle relaxants and sleep medication

I have acquired an instrument called the guitar zither. it is a lesser-known sibling to the autoharp, with five chords on one side and two octaves starting with C on the other (missing D# and B#). it came with a little instruction booklet in german and it is my new project

about to make a terrible financial decision

I hope that my occasional posts, unexciting as they are, can serve as a moment of rest in your feed between bad news and blistering takes

and the finished frijoles and chochoyotes! honestly it was shockingly easy to make and so delicious

breaking out the mexican cookbook again to make frijoles con chochoyotes! managed to find hoja santa and dried avocado leaves this time

today during our short break a we had cultural exchange of bad handwriting and dancing the way normal people at parties do it. integration course is great sometimes

the trans music archive has announced a residency for 2 trans bands/artists at their recording studio in NY, plus a $1000 stipend www.transmusicarchive.org/residency

love a slightly out of tune hammer dulcimer to denote a creepy seaside town

why are we blasting bad pop in the lidl parking lot at 9 am

just saw a tattooed butch walking around with two of the most normie women you've ever seen and one child and was reminded that actually there is peace and solidarity in this world

can't wait until I can work and subscribe to all my favorite artists' patreons

day 18: beetle #swordtember

Asking for a bit of attention and humanity to help Layla 💖She's a dental student in Gaza and she needs funds to fulfill her dream of becomming a dentist - and be safe ❤️‍🩹 Please share her story and donate if you can 🙏🍉

cinva.....

CINVA

Best pie: pecan Best ice cream: combine lavender ice cream w lemon-basil sorbet Best donut: maple/pumpkin Best bar: oat apricot Best cake: entirely mood-dependent Best other: daifuku mochi with yuzu white bean paste and a candied kumquat center. two bites of heaven. also I miss real croissants

I always feel weird muting a current news item but after a certain number of people posting shitty articles to critique/complain about them I can't take any more

For those who won't donate to individuals, please consider donating here to keep Gaza connected to the outside world via local journalism.

holy shit I did not have girlyman getting back together on my 2025 bingo card

I painted my friend's two lovely cats for her birthday 🐈🐈 #watercolor #art #painting #illustration