broke: a dick woke: a dick in a chastity cage bespoke: a dick in a chastity cage with a strap over it

The Myth Of Coverage Doctor: I'm in network! Hospital: I'm in network! Insurance: I DISAGREE

Hoku here ❤️ Sorry for the radio silence. Posting this while taking a smoke break but Stovey is safe and healing well. Rehab is doing wonders. She misses you all so much. Idk if anyone will see this but l'll make a proper post very soon. Stovey has gained access to all of her accounts again as well.

i guess i am joining the people's revolution after all

embracing my womanly duties and ruining the workplace by teasing my girlfriend while she's in a zoom meeting

women have not ruined the workplace but they have ruined my orgasms on occasion

Employment lawyer here: the number of male employers who genuinely believe they should be able to sleep with their female employees and pay working mothers less than working fathers is most of them. They genuinely believe that it is an injustice against them that they might face repercussions.

cis puberty is not a neutral action, and should be treated with the same gravity as trans puberty

harping on this again because I don't see how this is any different from RLE, enacted on those of us who already have the least amount of agency

bpd is the transgender of mental health

this is the heart of it. "you don't need dysphoria to be trans" is both axiomatic and a truism by virtue of the fact that framing transition around negativity is unhelpful when the joy of euphoria is far more notable. when every day is full of grey clouds, you're going to be shocked by a sunny day.

you really got the butt of a transmed

still not over the fact that google took away media alarms on the nest hub last year and still has not offered any kind of replacement

it's absolutely infuriating just how many professional reporters refuse to learn to pronounce zohran's name

when the democrats lose an election it's because of trans people, but when democrats win an election it's because of the economy, duh

a real relatable politician would cut their own bangs after losing the election

as grindy as NES dragon quest 1 is i can't say that i don't love how dangerous the world feels

nothing more annoying then when a remake takes over the search results for the original game

we don't talk enough about how cruel it is that we still gatekeep medical transition for minors behind social transition

hosting my own symposium where we discuss the most important philosophical issues of the century (is edging a punishment or a reward, marxian analyses of ruined orgasms, whether utilitarian cbt with polycule characteristics violates the geneva convention)

I have learned this past two weeks, that you need consent (this implying the valence of violation) to call someone who transes their sex a transsexual, from people steeped in a culture that will straight up say that your sexuality is a transgression, that you can’t distinguish from gay men and drag.

cucking would be a lot more respectable if all of the terminology around it wasn't so cringe

the reason you don't need dysphoria to be trans is because dysphoria can be impossible to realize without first accepting your own transness

if you're early/pre-transition you probably experience more dysphoria than you realize

mamdani hiring lina khan for his transition team is exactly why he's gonna get it right

high school friend revived a group chat with "so what have you dudes invested in?" and lmao i've invested into getting myself smooth skin and cute clothes

the transmedicalist framing of transition as curing gender dysphoria is bad for a lot of nuanced reasons, but broadly speaking i think it gets closer to understanding the need for transition than vague platitudes about validity will

i think it’s not a matter of *if* genetic components to transness are found and fully understood, but *when*, and we collectively do ourselves a disservice by dismissing this apparent inevitability via “if we don’t talk or think about it, it won’t happen” because it probably will

in this current political landscape I do believe broadly you have to treat talking to journalists like you're talking to cops as in don't fucking do it.

you don't need to medically transition but I don't understand how someone could transition without wanting to alter their physical body and material reality

weird how the group that keeps inventing new genders doesn't want a term to define themselves

it is more inclusive to specify which trans people are affected by transmedicalism rather than assuming that all trans people are seeking medical and/or surgical transition

in our cissexist society it's significantly more difficult to secure rights for trans people without being able to cite the fact that hormones and surgeries fundamentally alter your biological sex

being accidentally misgendered gives you useful information to avoid being accidentally misgendered in the future

in practice people only avoid assuming pronouns for people they suspect might be trans, it's just woke degendering

actually tearing up seeing a win this historic in nyc and seeing the winner actively take time to thank and acknowledge trans members of his community explicitly. like we aren't coasting along as an afterthought we're part of the coalition. 🥹

i think that any Philosophy of Transness™ that treats language as arbitrary and unserious—that employs words as vessels of emotion rather than as tools of conveying objective discernible truths—is fundamentally transphobic and rooted in cissexual supremacy

i’ve learned so much from the trans community here on bluesky like how you can have two dozen wives and still be a femcel

julia loves to judge me for being a completely reasonable woman

if the groundhog sees its own shadow that means 2 more months of locktober for trans women

you can get a girl to deny herself by framing it as a reward instead of a punishment, instead of locking her up give her a bonus that increases the longer she stays in chastity

Mel is less than 200 days away from bottom surgery, after being stuck on a waitlist for over 1200 days Recently, North Carolina passed a law that banned her state health insurance from covering bottom surgery, something she needs to stay alive If you're able to donate I would greatly appreciate it

the only problem with mail in voting is that after you do it you don't get a sticker

hard mode is doing locktober in november while all the other girls get to be free

🌙 anyways i have infinite compassion for any tranny who gets their healthcare ripped away from them, that's some of the hardest shit any of us will have to deal with

no room in the big tent for trans people, but plenty of room for the transphobes who want us dead

every single exit poll is showing that young women and queer people are showing up and voting left in overwhelming numbers, but establishment dems continue to exclusively support the geriatric white men who put them in power