Do As We Say, Not As They Did Podcast
@doaswesaypod.bsky.social
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Real Talk About Love, Sex, & Poor Decisions
https://linktr.ee/doaswesaypod
When you read a headline like “Celibacy Taught Me I’m Too Clever to Find Love,” what are you expecting? An introspective breakdown or a long-winded circle jerk about how most women are dumb? 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/7YXsh...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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Cleverness As Defensiveness
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/7YXsh2gbinQ
about 18 hours ago
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There are toxic manosphere dudes whose red flags can be seen from miles away, and then there are men like Mattha Busby. They share a lot of the same beliefs as the manosphere bros, but they try to keep it on the DL. 🎧
youtu.be/kJZdjQ-ZL-w
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@doctornerdlove.com
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
about 18 hours ago
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Toxic masculinity limits men in every part of life, including pleasure. But what about trans women? What if pleasure could be colorful, playful, affirming, and joyful? 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/4Fnzu...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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Why Can’t Men Have Pink Options
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/4FnzuQPzAMk
3 days ago
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Color, fun, joy, and yes, finding pleasure through adult toys are all important parts of fighting fascism. Especially when those toys are made with queer folks in mind & designed to be accessible for all kinds of bodies. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/lClsS...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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We Need to Find Our Joy
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/lClsSjW5NUQ
7 days ago
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Gender good. Gender neutral. Gender evil. Gender chaotic. Which one are you? 😈 If you’ve ever wanted adult toys that felt more playful, affirming, accessible, and designed for any body, this episode is for you. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/2y4s2...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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We Need More Gender Evil and Gender Chaotic
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/2y4s2eAk8n8
8 days ago
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NEW EPISODE ALERT! 🚨 Why do we have to settle for boring, body-shaped adult toys that aren’t accessible to anyone outside of the cis, thin default? Wouldn’t fun, versatile, accessible products be better for everyone??? 🤔 🎧
youtu.be/4m7R-YHejLo
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
8 days ago
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Dr. NerdLove
10 days ago
Seriously, knowing how to cook and cook well is like *cheating*. It's a pro-social activity, it's nourishing, it's nurturing, it says good things about you as a person and also: food is fucking delicious.
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Want our cheat code to being more attractive? ⏩ Learn how to dance ⏩ Learn how to cook Bam! You’re getting laid. 😉 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/vz0sf...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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Men - Here's How to Be Attractive
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/vz0sfidZ3eo
10 days ago
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Want to suffer with us? 😉 In our latest episode, we talk about what looksmaxxing is, where it came from, why it’s spreading, and what actually works if you want women to, you know…like you. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/JJ9d3...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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I Refuse to Suffer Alone
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/JJ9d3l4UMHc
13 days ago
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Have you ever found someone attractive…and then they opened their mouth? 🥲 In the latest episode, we talk about
#looksmaxxing
and why the people selling it benefit from you disconnecting from your own humanity. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/vD2KF...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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I Don't Care About Face Math
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/vD2KF4JHm6c
14 days ago
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We are fully in favor of people feeling their best. Get the haircut, wear the outfit, do the skincare routine. But
#looksmaxxing
isn’t really about confidence. It’s about suffering to prove a point. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/sPzDB...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#hardmaxxing
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Hardmaxxing Is Denying Your Grief
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/sPzDBeuRl0I
15 days ago
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Looksmaxxing promises a simple solution: get hotter, get laid. So why are so many men following it…and still miserable? 🎧 If you’ve ever been tempted to optimize your way into intimacy, this episode is for you:
youtu.be/5l0I6tVsJ5c
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#looksmaxxing
15 days ago
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Dr. NerdLove
15 days ago
The latest episode of my podcast with
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
just dropped, and we're talking about looksmaxxing's roots not just in the incel community but white power, why trusting online influencers is a mistake and the "anything for attention" economy.
youtu.be/K-ULd2kjX9U?...
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Ep 9. The Lie Incels and Looksmaxxers Are Trying to Sell You
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtu.be/K-ULd2kjX9U?si=KXyvA6MXEEYl79m0
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Dr. NerdLove
21 days ago
Facebook threw this blast from 7 years ago into my feed this morning. For all that I zero on on the weird faces I'm making in all the thumbnails for the
@doaswesaypod.bsky.social
clips... well, can't say it's not consistent.
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The internet: “Here’s an ad for Viagra ☺️” Also, the internet: “Whoa, whoa, whoa… a trans person wearing clothes?? Absolutely not.” The double standard is exhausting. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/NVJYF...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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You Deserve to Be Loved Properly
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/NVJYF2guqsQ
20 days ago
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Sometimes the most supportive thing you can do for your partner is to leave. Everyone deserves to be loved by someone who is excited to be with them, not someone who can barely tolerate them. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/OAQoX...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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You Deserve to Be Loved Properly
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/OAQoX58xAQo
22 days ago
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Our latest episode features Rae Hill, a nonbinary advocate, educator, & founder of Origami Customs. We chat about gender exploration, fashion, attraction, & what it actually means to support your partner during transition. 🎧
youtu.be/ECPX1-JWKM4
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
22 days ago
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What do
#HeatedRivalry
,
#Sinners
, and
#K-PopDemonHunters
have in common? They’ve encouraged people to embrace who they are, be loud and proud, and even rethink how they approach relationships. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/ILJQE...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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The Impact of Earnest Storytelling
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/ILJQEp1VTTg
24 days ago
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Yes,
#HeatedRivalry
is hot. But why does everyone on the show have to look dehydrated and starving? 🥲 While we love its compelling emotional beats, the hyper-lean, ozempic-core bodies are not it. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/FOmZD...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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All Bodies Are Hot
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/FOmZDstvfpI
25 days ago
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A lot of men don’t have friends. They have coworkers, people that they can grab a beer and watch the game with. But when they’re struggling? Crickets. And that is a big part of why we have a male loneliness epidemic. 🎧
www.youtube.com/shorts/hKTaw...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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Men Need Male Friends
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/hKTawlFyycU
27 days ago
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You watched
#HeatedRivalry
and now you want more shows that explore vulnerable “man feelings?” 👀 Same. Because there’s not a lot of media where men are having real, meaningful conversation about their feelings. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/_6wBU...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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We Need More Media About "Man Feelings”
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/_6wBUil1R0A
28 days ago
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Repeat after me: Women are not responsible for fixing the male loneliness epidemic. Men need real friendships with other men. That means talking about your feelings and being vulnerable with your friends. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/w0o_m...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#heatedrivalry
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It's Okay for Men to Be Vulnerable with Other Men
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/w0o_mCYWM0U
29 days ago
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Have you watched Heated Rivalry yet? We break down the show from every angle: masculinity, emotional vulnerability, queer identity, and body image. 🎧 Watch or listen to the full episode:
youtu.be/5l0I6tVsJ5c
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#heatedrivalry
29 days ago
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We’re always going to tell you to be yourself! Even if that person is a little weird, or a little polarizing, that’s just going to make it so much easier for you to find the people that match your weird! 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/59AW1...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#datingapps
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Some People Just Aren't a Good Fit
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/59AW1JaMFIs
29 days ago
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People are messy and quirky, and dating is no different! If something is important to you, let your potential partner know upfront, because it might just mean that you’re not a good fit.🧩 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/0-xeP...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#datingapps
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Some People Just Aren't a Good Fit
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/0-xePmLQ1KY
30 days ago
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Romantic relationships are great (hello, we’re a dating podcast!), but your partner can’t be your therapist, best friend, mom, maid, and emotional dumping ground. We said what we said. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/XzWhW...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#datingapps
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Your Partner Shouldn't Be Your Everything
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/XzWhWEgqKd8
about 1 month ago
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If you’re ashamed to be seen in public with a partner because of how your friends, or even total strangers, might react, then you shouldn’t be dating them. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/OmpFd...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#datingapps
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Feel Shame? Don’t Date Them
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/OmpFdrYbGdk
about 1 month ago
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Your dating profile is the first opportunity for folks to learn about you and decide if they want to get to know you better. In Ep 6 of we chat about how to actually find the connections you’re looking for. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/VaDH0...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
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Personalize Your Dating Profile
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/VaDH07NRIwQ
about 1 month ago
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In Ep 6, we talk about: ✨ Listening to women about what women actually want ✨ Finding dates who match your vibe, or your freak ✨ Why being authentic is the best dating practice 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/FRSbi...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#datingapps
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Can You Accept a No?
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/FRSbim3hMbo
about 1 month ago
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If your dating profile says “Ask me a question, and I’ll answer it,” or you’re looking for advice on how to date folks of different genders, but only listen to men, this episode is for you. 🎧 Watch or listen to Ep 6:
youtu.be/xZlsstIhsB4
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@doctornerdlove.com
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
#datingapps
about 1 month ago
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Professional =/= good. You wouldn’t watch the Fast and Furious to teach yourself how to drive, right? (Please say no!) Adult films are a performance, not reality, and they’re probably even less real than you think. 👀 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/Sqd1t...
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@doctornerdlove.com
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Performance vs. Health
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/Sqd1tnYNb3k
about 1 month ago
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Being as palatable as possible to the broadest group of people is B-O-R-I-N-G. Yes, being your full, weird, and juicy self might mean that some folks won’t like you, but the ones who do? Well, they’ll really like you! 🍑 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/eefw9...
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@doctornerdlove.com
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Not Everyone Likes Peaches 🍑
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/eefw905epGQ?feature=share
about 1 month ago
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Dr. NerdLove
about 2 months ago
Just finished recording the first episode of
@doaswesaypod.bsky.social
to feature a special guest... this was a fun one, can't wait until y'all get to hear/see it!
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Just because you’re seeing it on the silver screen doesn’t mean it’s real. When actors pull off their shirts to show off their shredded abs, that’s just as much a fantasy as being a superhero who can fly. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/nmaJv...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#datingpodcast
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Everything Is Fake
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/nmaJvovCWWA
about 2 months ago
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Wait, wait, wait,
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
and
@doctornerdlove.com
are talking about WHAT in Ep 5 of
@doaswesaypod.bsky.social
?! You heard correctly. They explore the community of men who are dedicated to increasing their load size. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/9SztT...
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Hostage Situation
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/9SztT1FJLbY
about 2 months ago
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Things get sticky pretty quickly, and if you can handle the innuendo and double entendre (seriously, Harris owes Dr. Liz for emotional damages), then buckle up for episode 5. 🎧
youtu.be/s6AQ6sfiUxY
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#datingpodcast
about 2 months ago
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If you can’t trust someone, you can’t build a relationship with them. You just can’t. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/0THJ1...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#cheaterbuster
#DatingApps
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No Relationship without Trust
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/0THJ1FJMpqQ
about 2 months ago
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Can you remember the time before everything was content? When you combine a content-first mentality with creepy facial recognition technology, how are you even supposed to date? 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/6ArJH...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#cheaterbuster
#DatingApps
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People Aren't Content
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/6ArJH2g8IbQ?feature=share
about 2 months ago
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Think about a time you had a terrible day. Now imagine that moment got filmed, posted online, and seen by millions of people. Can you imagine that one moment defining the rest of your life? 😬 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/yjvwp...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#cheaterbuster
#DatingApps
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Should We Be Defined By Our Worst Moments?
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/yjvwpJSav5g
2 months ago
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In episode 4, we talk about facial recognition software to call out cheaters and the dangers of tech without morals. 🎧
youtube.com/shorts/pU9GI...
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#cheaterbuster
#DatingApps
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You’re Not Owed a Chance
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/pU9GIImlpNM
2 months ago
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Before you race to see if your partner is secretly still on Tinder, listen to this. You might just find that trusting someone (or breaking up with them) is better than turning to spyware tech. 🎧
youtu.be/dACurjBk8eE
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#cheaterbuster
#DatingApps
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Ep 4. Modern Tech Won’t Solve Your Trust Issues
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtu.be/dACurjBk8eE
2 months ago
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When one partner wants to be open, and the other wants to be closed, there’s no compromise that doesn’t end in heartbreak. And that’s exactly the feeling
#LilyAllen
sings about in Ruminating.
youtube.com/shorts/hTAaX...
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@doctornerdlove.com
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
#polyamory
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Do You Want to Know?
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/hTAaXLK2XXQ
2 months ago
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#LilyAllen
releasing
#WestEndGirl
wasn’t like Beyoncé dropping Lemonade. She was risking everything to say, “Take a look at who this man really is.” And we have thoughts. 💭
youtube.com/shorts/wWZHd...
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@doctornerdlove.com
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
#polyamory
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Misogynist Army
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/wWZHd_01Ydo
2 months ago
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It’s hard to be the person who lights the fire. It’s easier to add kerosene. And boy, oh boy, when Lily Allen lit that fire under David Harbour, people were ready to keep it going.
youtube.com/shorts/Td7d0...
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@doctornerdlove.com
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
#westendgirl
#lilyallen
#polyamory
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Adding to the Fire
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/Td7d0veaU6s
2 months ago
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It’s expected in straight relationships for the woman to stay quiet. But Lily Allen said, “F that.” Instead of doing damage control, she wrote a whole damn album and we’re here for it. 🙌
youtube.com/shorts/alt2d...
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@doctornerdlove.com
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
#westendgirl
#lilyallen
#polyamory
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The Burden on Women in Breakups
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/alt2dj1MoYw
3 months ago
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Almost every time a woman speaks out against a powerful man, they lose. She becomes the butt of every late-night joke, or she gets blacklisted from her industry.
youtube.com/shorts/LqNSq...
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@doctornerdlove.com
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
#westendgirl
#lilyallen
#polyamory
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What Do Women Win?
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
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3 months ago
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Dr. NerdLove
3 months ago
Don't forget, I've also got a podcast! The good (and *actual* doctor)
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
and I talk about break-ups, how people can cheat in open relationships and go through Lily Allen's West End Girl and gawp in astonishment at one man's epic fuck up.
add a skeleton here at some point
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In Episode 3, we go song by song through Lily Allen’s breakup masterpiece and unpack what happens when this “open” relationship just becomes an excuse for selfishness. 🎧 Catch the full episode:
youtu.be/gqVvI2Pgfyg
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@drlizpowell.bsky.social
@doctornerdlove.com
#lilyallen
#westendgirl
3 months ago
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If you’re bad at flirting or talking to people, there’s only one way to get better: Keep being bad at it! 👏 Practice is the only way through.
youtube.com/shorts/rukNf...
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@doctornerdlove.com
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
#redditreadings
#redditrelationshipadvice
#redditstorytime
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Why You Shouldn’t Use AI in Your Relationships
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
https://youtube.com/shorts/rukNfLfiCxY?si=8QNZ6J10NLX_EOjd
3 months ago
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Girl on the Net
3 months ago
"If you have to lie to preserve a relationship, the relationship is already dead. You're just doing some necromancy on the corpse."
@drlizpowell.bsky.social
🔥
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