When you read a headline like “Celibacy Taught Me I’m Too Clever to Find Love,” what are you expecting? An introspective breakdown or a long-winded circle jerk about how most women are dumb? 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/7YXsh... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

There are toxic manosphere dudes whose red flags can be seen from miles away, and then there are men like Mattha Busby. They share a lot of the same beliefs as the manosphere bros, but they try to keep it on the DL. 🎧 youtu.be/kJZdjQ-ZL-w . . . @doctornerdlove.com @drlizpowell.bsky.social

Toxic masculinity limits men in every part of life, including pleasure. But what about trans women? What if pleasure could be colorful, playful, affirming, and joyful? 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/4Fnzu... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

Color, fun, joy, and yes, finding pleasure through adult toys are all important parts of fighting fascism. Especially when those toys are made with queer folks in mind & designed to be accessible for all kinds of bodies. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/lClsS... . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

Gender good. Gender neutral. Gender evil. Gender chaotic. Which one are you? 😈 If you’ve ever wanted adult toys that felt more playful, affirming, accessible, and designed for any body, this episode is for you. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/2y4s2... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

NEW EPISODE ALERT! 🚨 Why do we have to settle for boring, body-shaped adult toys that aren’t accessible to anyone outside of the cis, thin default? Wouldn’t fun, versatile, accessible products be better for everyone??? 🤔 🎧 youtu.be/4m7R-YHejLo . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

Seriously, knowing how to cook and cook well is like *cheating*. It's a pro-social activity, it's nourishing, it's nurturing, it says good things about you as a person and also: food is fucking delicious.

Want our cheat code to being more attractive? ⏩ Learn how to dance ⏩ Learn how to cook Bam! You’re getting laid. 😉 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/vz0sf... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

Want to suffer with us? 😉 In our latest episode, we talk about what looksmaxxing is, where it came from, why it’s spreading, and what actually works if you want women to, you know…like you. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/JJ9d3... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

Have you ever found someone attractive…and then they opened their mouth? 🥲 In the latest episode, we talk about #looksmaxxing and why the people selling it benefit from you disconnecting from your own humanity. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/vD2KF... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

We are fully in favor of people feeling their best. Get the haircut, wear the outfit, do the skincare routine. But #looksmaxxing isn’t really about confidence. It’s about suffering to prove a point. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/sPzDB... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #hardmaxxing

Looksmaxxing promises a simple solution: get hotter, get laid. So why are so many men following it…and still miserable? 🎧 If you’ve ever been tempted to optimize your way into intimacy, this episode is for you: youtu.be/5l0I6tVsJ5c . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #looksmaxxing

The latest episode of my podcast with @drlizpowell.bsky.social just dropped, and we're talking about looksmaxxing's roots not just in the incel community but white power, why trusting online influencers is a mistake and the "anything for attention" economy. youtu.be/K-ULd2kjX9U?...

Facebook threw this blast from 7 years ago into my feed this morning. For all that I zero on on the weird faces I'm making in all the thumbnails for the @doaswesaypod.bsky.social clips... well, can't say it's not consistent.

The internet: “Here’s an ad for Viagra ☺️” Also, the internet: “Whoa, whoa, whoa… a trans person wearing clothes?? Absolutely not.” The double standard is exhausting. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/NVJYF... . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

Sometimes the most supportive thing you can do for your partner is to leave. Everyone deserves to be loved by someone who is excited to be with them, not someone who can barely tolerate them. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/OAQoX... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

Our latest episode features Rae Hill, a nonbinary advocate, educator, & founder of Origami Customs. We chat about gender exploration, fashion, attraction, & what it actually means to support your partner during transition. 🎧 youtu.be/ECPX1-JWKM4 . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

What do #HeatedRivalry, #Sinners, and #K-PopDemonHunters have in common? They’ve encouraged people to embrace who they are, be loud and proud, and even rethink how they approach relationships. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/ILJQE... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

Yes, #HeatedRivalry is hot. But why does everyone on the show have to look dehydrated and starving? 🥲 While we love its compelling emotional beats, the hyper-lean, ozempic-core bodies are not it. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/FOmZD... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

A lot of men don’t have friends. They have coworkers, people that they can grab a beer and watch the game with. But when they’re struggling? Crickets. And that is a big part of why we have a male loneliness epidemic. 🎧 www.youtube.com/shorts/hKTaw... . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

You watched #HeatedRivalry and now you want more shows that explore vulnerable “man feelings?” 👀 Same. Because there’s not a lot of media where men are having real, meaningful conversation about their feelings. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/_6wBU... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

Repeat after me: Women are not responsible for fixing the male loneliness epidemic. Men need real friendships with other men. That means talking about your feelings and being vulnerable with your friends. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/w0o_m... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #heatedrivalry

Have you watched Heated Rivalry yet? We break down the show from every angle: masculinity, emotional vulnerability, queer identity, and body image. 🎧 Watch or listen to the full episode: youtu.be/5l0I6tVsJ5c . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #heatedrivalry

We’re always going to tell you to be yourself! Even if that person is a little weird, or a little polarizing, that’s just going to make it so much easier for you to find the people that match your weird! 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/59AW1... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #datingapps

People are messy and quirky, and dating is no different! If something is important to you, let your potential partner know upfront, because it might just mean that you’re not a good fit.🧩 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/0-xeP... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #datingapps

Romantic relationships are great (hello, we’re a dating podcast!), but your partner can’t be your therapist, best friend, mom, maid, and emotional dumping ground. We said what we said. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/XzWhW... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #datingapps

If you’re ashamed to be seen in public with a partner because of how your friends, or even total strangers, might react, then you shouldn’t be dating them. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/OmpFd... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #datingapps

Your dating profile is the first opportunity for folks to learn about you and decide if they want to get to know you better. In Ep 6 of we chat about how to actually find the connections you’re looking for. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/VaDH0... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #datingapps

In Ep 6, we talk about: ✨ Listening to women about what women actually want ✨ Finding dates who match your vibe, or your freak ✨ Why being authentic is the best dating practice 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/FRSbi... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #datingapps

If your dating profile says “Ask me a question, and I’ll answer it,” or you’re looking for advice on how to date folks of different genders, but only listen to men, this episode is for you. 🎧 Watch or listen to Ep 6: youtu.be/xZlsstIhsB4 . . @doctornerdlove.com @drlizpowell.bsky.social #datingapps

Professional =/= good. You wouldn’t watch the Fast and Furious to teach yourself how to drive, right? (Please say no!) Adult films are a performance, not reality, and they’re probably even less real than you think. 👀 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/Sqd1t... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

Being as palatable as possible to the broadest group of people is B-O-R-I-N-G. Yes, being your full, weird, and juicy self might mean that some folks won’t like you, but the ones who do? Well, they’ll really like you! 🍑 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/eefw9... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com

Just finished recording the first episode of @doaswesaypod.bsky.social to feature a special guest... this was a fun one, can't wait until y'all get to hear/see it!

Just because you’re seeing it on the silver screen doesn’t mean it’s real. When actors pull off their shirts to show off their shredded abs, that’s just as much a fantasy as being a superhero who can fly. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/nmaJv... . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #datingpodcast

Wait, wait, wait, @drlizpowell.bsky.social and @doctornerdlove.com are talking about WHAT in Ep 5 of @doaswesaypod.bsky.social?! You heard correctly. They explore the community of men who are dedicated to increasing their load size. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/9SztT...

Things get sticky pretty quickly, and if you can handle the innuendo and double entendre (seriously, Harris owes Dr. Liz for emotional damages), then buckle up for episode 5. 🎧 youtu.be/s6AQ6sfiUxY . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #datingpodcast

If you can’t trust someone, you can’t build a relationship with them. You just can’t. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/0THJ1... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #cheaterbuster #DatingApps

Can you remember the time before everything was content? When you combine a content-first mentality with creepy facial recognition technology, how are you even supposed to date? 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/6ArJH... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #cheaterbuster #DatingApps

Think about a time you had a terrible day. Now imagine that moment got filmed, posted online, and seen by millions of people. Can you imagine that one moment defining the rest of your life? 😬 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/yjvwp... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #cheaterbuster #DatingApps

In episode 4, we talk about facial recognition software to call out cheaters and the dangers of tech without morals. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/pU9GI... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #cheaterbuster #DatingApps

Before you race to see if your partner is secretly still on Tinder, listen to this. You might just find that trusting someone (or breaking up with them) is better than turning to spyware tech. 🎧 youtu.be/dACurjBk8eE . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #cheaterbuster #DatingApps

When one partner wants to be open, and the other wants to be closed, there’s no compromise that doesn’t end in heartbreak. And that’s exactly the feeling #LilyAllen sings about in Ruminating. youtube.com/shorts/hTAaX... . . . @doctornerdlove.com @drlizpowell.bsky.social #polyamory

#LilyAllen releasing #WestEndGirl wasn’t like Beyoncé dropping Lemonade. She was risking everything to say, “Take a look at who this man really is.” And we have thoughts. 💭 youtube.com/shorts/wWZHd... . . . @doctornerdlove.com @drlizpowell.bsky.social #polyamory

It’s hard to be the person who lights the fire. It’s easier to add kerosene. And boy, oh boy, when Lily Allen lit that fire under David Harbour, people were ready to keep it going. youtube.com/shorts/Td7d0... . . @doctornerdlove.com @drlizpowell.bsky.social #westendgirl #lilyallen #polyamory

It’s expected in straight relationships for the woman to stay quiet. But Lily Allen said, “F that.” Instead of doing damage control, she wrote a whole damn album and we’re here for it. 🙌 youtube.com/shorts/alt2d... . . @doctornerdlove.com @drlizpowell.bsky.social #westendgirl #lilyallen #polyamory

Almost every time a woman speaks out against a powerful man, they lose. She becomes the butt of every late-night joke, or she gets blacklisted from her industry. youtube.com/shorts/LqNSq... . . . @doctornerdlove.com @drlizpowell.bsky.social #westendgirl #lilyallen #polyamory

Don't forget, I've also got a podcast! The good (and *actual* doctor) @drlizpowell.bsky.social and I talk about break-ups, how people can cheat in open relationships and go through Lily Allen's West End Girl and gawp in astonishment at one man's epic fuck up.

In Episode 3, we go song by song through Lily Allen’s breakup masterpiece and unpack what happens when this “open” relationship just becomes an excuse for selfishness. 🎧 Catch the full episode: youtu.be/gqVvI2Pgfyg . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com #lilyallen #westendgirl

If you’re bad at flirting or talking to people, there’s only one way to get better: Keep being bad at it! 👏 Practice is the only way through. youtube.com/shorts/rukNf... . . . @doctornerdlove.com @drlizpowell.bsky.social #redditreadings #redditrelationshipadvice #redditstorytime

"If you have to lie to preserve a relationship, the relationship is already dead. You're just doing some necromancy on the corpse." @drlizpowell.bsky.social 🔥