Wow! Beautifully & powerfully said. Audio only podcasts are usually a barrier for me, but I could fully follow what Yeshes said. I’ve read the research article. It’s a good summary. Not scientific, but I *know* that my brain was made for weaving. I’m no savant, but it is profoundly satisfying

Some balm for our world-weary souls…. 🐢💜

This article really speaks to me and people like me,helps me to stay calm and purposeful.

While Cabaret and the Sound of Music are 2 of my favorite musicals, I’m not liking these reality show versions so much.

Gave myself an early birthday present. As most of my access needs fall outside of the narrow ableist definition of reasonable accommodation, ok, fine. I shall simply declare myself unreasonable and keep going.. 🐢 🌈💜♾️♿️ #disability

Still waiting for the NT medical researchers to catch up to autistic folk wisdom. Back before ABA brainwashed everybody, families understood that autistic kids needed to play and connect w/ their imaginations. Many of us are gestalt language processors. Play is where we learn to navigate sensory

My friend Sue, an autistic occupational therapist, was teaching this in the early years of Autreat. She also educated many grateful autistic adults in the Phx area. I was one. She planned to write a book after she retired, but then her husband became ill.

"Any connection they can draw between us and this act of violence will be used to strip more of our rights, or threaten us more in our homes, our schools and our communities," writes @melwoods.me, on how trans people have been roped into the narrative around Charlie Kirk's death

It’s nice being a turtle! :)

Especially since green tea strongly inhibits CYP3A4, the metabolic pathway all my meds use. Nuthin' like having all of them fail at the same time. I'll stick with coffee, thanks.

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Our dogs, Jake & Elwood, peacefully and gently crossed over the Rainbow Bridge yesterday. They will be missed greatly.

Trying so hard not to full out gigglesnort at this while my partner is teaching a class, but yeah, I've noticed Dunkin wrappers in the car....

Critics claim gender clinics are seeing an excess of trans boys. But new data suggest otherwise theconversation.com/... #transgender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA

I wanted to like Disability Pride month, but it feels like another month of more shallow empty gestures that don't actually do anything for the people they're supposed to be uplifting. Instead I'm going to celebrate by throwing some axes this weekend in Maine (SCA event).

This tragedy was preventable.

This is adorable

Happily stimming w/ #autisticjoy at discovering an intersection of several of my special interests... I need to know everything about this pretty...

“You don’t need to look so bloody anxious. I’m not recruiting – and even if I was… no thank you?”

Have you supported your local degenerates today?

Crisis teams don't know shit about the needs of autistic ppl in crisis. I don't know how anyone accesses treatment. It's such a maze of unhelpful ppl calling too much offering nothing I haven't desperately tried several times already to help my family member.

Today in Hell Yes, Research! Autistic quality of life improved by access to accommodations like earplugs & headphones to manage sounds. "Our study demonstrates that many aspects of auditory environments—beyond noise alone―can negatively impact Autistic people’s QoL." www.nature.com/articles/s41...

This is why I keep returning to the makerspace. Losing myself in the creative flow is therapy for my weary mind. The socially prescribed method of talking to a kind stranger 1 hour a week does *nothing*. Its sole benefit is placating medical doctors ignorant of autistic adult lives and needs.

I bought electric scissors online, with a switch which looks like it ought to be a safety lock, but NO, the accompanying diagram labeled it as "Decorative Switch". wtf? Henceforth in our family, BDE will now stand for "Big Decorative Switch Energy", which tbh works for us on several levels. 🤣🤣🤣

In hard times, making space for joy & wonder is vital self care for the soul. Sharing what moved me today. youtu.be/7VM8MsR4K10?...

Doctors kept telling us that our AuDHD AFAB offspring had bipolar disorder, but in hindsight it's very clear that it was PMDD all along. *This* is what autism researchers should be looking at, not more useless vax studies. www.additudemag.com/pmdd-autism-...

This is a wonderful read. 🩷the use of crochet as stimming - been doing so for years. Also 🩷 that ppl are speaking out about the lack of accessibility at conferences. Plus 🩷 for talking about Universal Design. Interesting topics I rarely get to hear about.

Well that was fuckin lit

Why?

I am a slow reader, but I am making my way through Jane Austen's books. It is a happy distraction. I am only a little ways into Emma. I am very sure that Mr. Woodhouse, Emma's father, is autistic. He does not mask. People are kind to him, especially Emma. Movies have left that part out.

Me, when I'm having a really good art day. What I teach my offspring: sometimes being different can make us feel very sad & left out. Days like these, our difference makes us stronger. Hold onto that, sweetie. Also me: Queen's Gambit flashback moment!

that's all

I did not expect the Emperor to acknowledge his nudity.

Boosting….

ER visit yesterday (kidney stone). My anxiety was even higher than my pain & nausea b/c I was trying so hard to be closeted. People were kind. I didn’t get profiled. Eventually I was able to relax & be myself. Past medical trauma sucks…

At some point it has to be possible to say "we have examined this question thoroughly and the answer is X; we're not coming back to it unless actual new evidence turns up". The conservative move is to keep demanding relitigation of settled questions until they get the answer they want.

I found something happy to post. 🐢

never forget that we’re currently facing total economic destruction because fox news got upset about 0.0001% of our population wanting equal rights

The real research they’ll be doing is calculating how many “wellness camps” they need to build. That’s the fight we need to be ready for, to stop institutions from coming back.

Anticipating that a number of disability supports & disability orgs will cease to exist soon, I need to find an online resource where I could tap into collective knowledge around creatively solving accessibility issues. Might this already exist on Reddit? Not seeing it so far... Advice pls.

So cool to have a pic. I posit they might be a piece of the underlying science of what makes acupressure work. No easy way to test that. Also could be involved in reversing endometriosis and other things I haven't thought about. Saving it to refer back to it.

@Katelyn Burns was one of the very first people I followed when I first came to Bluesky & one of the few Patreons I have. I lack talent to translate my internal wordless rage into coherence. She says what lives in my heart. In the words of Squirrely Dan (Letterkenny), I appreciates it greatly.

I started this process last November. I wish this article had been around then! It's daunting and it is isolating, but protecting myself and my fam is a necessity.

"Happy Hookers: findings from an international study exploring the effects of crochet on wellbeing" pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32245337/ Proof that crafters have a good sense of humour 😉 (TL:DR Do crochet - it's good for you. I must learn - I can knit [badly] but crochet is still on my 'to learn' list)

I’m sad. The offspring & I went to a trans visibility event today. Lack of accessibility pushed us out quickly. Another event where we’re not seen, we aren’t valued, it feels like there’s no place where we belong. I hope to wake up tomorrow in a better mood.

Queer, trans, older, disabled, rural, worried about where my fam & I will live in the future. I resonate w/ so much of this video, but try as I might, I don’t see a clear path towards making life better & less isolated) for us. So I’m gonna hide out w/ my yarn. youtu.be/pUdH4J9sF8I?...

Need to show this to my offspring. Proof that one can be an exceptional human despites shitty paternal genes...