Very helpful video for parents/families, but also oof cathartic watch for being that child. www.youtube.com/watch?v=PVgC...

great vid! Very timely. "For some people, hearing your experience destabilizes theirs. They don't wanna look at it through a new lens. They don't wanna believe that somebody that they love or esteem so much could do that." www.youtube.com/watch?v=4v-o...

THEY GAVE LUKA THE GRANNY STRAWBERRY CANDIES IN THE MIKU EXPO NA SUBVISUALS I’M YELLIN

Ayyy i was listening to DJ sets on youtube so now it's influencing my podcast recommendations. This one is feeling very perfectly timed for me creatively though. www.youtube.com/watch?v=vntO...

"it's not particularly esteemed to know yourself" "the real problem is how long it takes to work out who we are." Love listening to this guy's insights. -w- www.youtube.com/watch?v=tWDc...

I slowly figured out how to avoid this trap/dealing with ppl like this by: 1)Paying attention to actions(speak louder than words) 2)Raising my own personal bar/capacity for reliability because why should I expect other ppl to be reliable if I myself am unreliable www.youtube.com/watch?v=bo_f...

I clicked on this video so fast this lady is my GOAT for therapy content. www.youtube.com/watch?v=CHk9...

I love Pearlie's pep talks! "People do not resist authenticity, what they resist is what it demands of them." "It's not that this person is wrong for 'being', it's that I do not have the capacity for what being in community with them demands." www.youtube.com/watch?v=TIB7...

"Creating an entire world for myself in which it is not a problem to have ADHD." That's been my goal! I think it's beneficial even if you are an adult my aged or older to consider that you may be nuerodivergent and you can benefit from life tips/supports. www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYMg...

This was a great video from a smaller creator! "People see the benefits package and are like 'yeah, sign me up for that.' and at no time does that mean that that person has /chosen/ YOU... but rather chosen the resources that come with you." www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gske...

"You may have learned that any kind of conflict historically has cost you the 'belonging feeling' within friendships. And so you do everything you can in order to avoid that conflict." "You don't have to erase yourself in order to find acceptance in a friendship."

Sighhhh

The mind is the first and most important battlefield in modern warfare. Taking care of yourself mentally is radical opposition to the enemy.

Ugh her rant about reciprocity at the end and other people deciding you have ulterior motives because they wouldn’t do the things without expecting anything is too real. It is actually more work for me to try to be ‘inconsistent’ just to ‘match other ppl’s energy’ youtu.be/ZsCvmgd7LCo?...

Me playing Dispatch accidentally got me into the occasional Moistcritikal vid ig youtu.be/lvv1QTa1on8?...

I feel like one of my foundational life problems is people could pick up on the fact that I was pathetic... but they were deeply confused on why the hell I was pathetic. The ones that weren't going to take advantage of that fact at the very least didn't want me-being-pathetic to be their problem.

Great history lesson in this stream... I will patiently await the 3 hr video essay on bad bunny that Elliot is also working on. www.youtube.com/watch?v=6T6H...

"Repression is one of the most taxing psychological defense mechanisms." sighhhhhhhhhhhhhh. This is why the occasional maintenance emotional breakdown is generally good for my traumatized ass ig. www.youtube.com/shorts/E11NJ...

the "think positive thoughts" crowd being right pisses me off youtube.com/shorts/akUJm...

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The only way existential dread resolves is by taking risks and moving forward without guarantees." "If you've already 'died' to yourself a thousand times, it doesn't matter if you fall off the high-wire." www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZKzV...

"You're comparing your step 1 work with someone's step 500 work" wow bars

"Being with someone that actually understands you and values you is someone that lets you be the 'bad' or 'ugly' versions of yourself too." "Let yourself actually be YOURself because you're not gonna meet somebody that's the perfect person for you until you're being /actually/ yourself."

Honestly just skip to the 34 min mark for the actual meat of this video lol. www.youtube.com/watch?v=JRlm...

"The more I act with trust, and I act with steadiness... the more warmth and security I receive and vice-versa." "That fear moment is the opportunity to work on the thing you want to work on." "In the pursuit of total security, you will erode everything you have." www.youtube.com/watch?v=51za...

this this this this this.. trying to train myself to unlearn old unhelpful coping mechanisms now that I'm in a safe environment(away from my abuser) I reserve the right to drop any habit or coping mechanism/routine as soon as I have evolved to the point of no longer needing it. youtu.be/5G0DXW1j7f0

"Part of having boundaries is also re-establishing who you are versus who other people are." "When is it their turn to feel the consequences of their own actions?" www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJ_c...

I'll be seeing it Wednesday! Everyone pull up and support this film it'd be a big win for independent filmmaking and show the mainstream media/gatekeepers at studios that people mean business. Gotta vote with your dollar under capitalism.

God if this wasn't one of my main problems (and still kinda is ngl) "Now it's just automatic for you to doubt your own experiences." www.youtube.com/watch?v=y14x...

Ooh the algorithm treated me to an older vid and it’s a treat to have an anti-capitalist framing I feel I haven’t caught as many explicitly from that perspective in her recent works. youtu.be/sryKr7v-eGc?...

Reposting here so I can reference later since I’m finally getting into having a normal human amount of sleep for the first time in my life (miraculously)

ohhh ok if you associate only with ppl that downplay your capabilities and don't seem to value you as an individual.. It's actually convenient excuse/narrative to dodge responsibility for your own choices/actions.. If you're not important nothing you do is important so it doesn't matter what you do

"Letting go of the identity that got something out of being devalued actually." this one coming for me... My secular ass shies away from admitting to watching/posting my fav woo-woo lady, but I don't trust any tarot ladies that aren't her tbh. youtu.be/lmxNGYqmMrM

Oof I'm not far away enough from my old anxious tendencies for this vid to not feel like a punch in the gut. Me being able to rest at all in recent years feels like a last chopper out of nam situation. "Growth becomes unavoidable when at a breaking point." youtu.be/Q5ORJYpHcOo

Woo according to the end of this vid I'm practicing master level emotional regulation skills by accepting things I can't change and figuring out when I need to actually put forth the effort to change things about my circumstances/environment instead of giving up prematurely youtu.be/kVM5b3gfQuY?...

"To love someone is to wish them well." youtu.be/SG5HZj-7qew?...

Biggest shift for me to begin actually engaging with my art activities seriously is I finally figured out what I am trying to say/got the courage to say it with my full chest. youtu.be/_dr_h3U0dmw?...

Best use of a 3 minute video I’ve experienced youtu.be/b3qpE0Gl504?...

"Having a friend in crisis felt stable to me." "It took me a while to realize that I was unconsciously avoiding emotionally available people who /would/ reciprocate, because I was over-giving." "I was so hyper-attuned to other people, I was not paying attention to myself." youtu.be/lFnF6cLhzt0?...

"contentment isn't sufficient" youtu.be/k0iUzEJQ1so?...

"It's time to make something." youtu.be/68UcnUdt6xA?...

Love this channel ever since Porter sampled them in Mirror and I was introduced to them. youtu.be/sVZMdaapIW0?...

Never take community for granted! This is how they make society worse for us by ramping up individualism. Been doing the work to create more opportunities for community in my life and I appreciate everyone that joins me in this journey! youtu.be/PurlJJp7PjY

Wow this is hands down the best video I've seen in months. youtu.be/FljcklWhCIE

One of those interview clips with better SEO channels had edited this down to 8 min but I could feel the edits cutting stuff out so I hunted down the original. "You are ready and able to do beautiful things in this world." youtu.be/uL2ztWv70wE?...