actually the only people who consistently make me feel unsafe are white men

so insurance won't authorize my bottom surgery. i'm moving forward by paying out of pocket, and I have a couple options so all is not lost. but if you're still waiting to buy any music from me now would be an excellent time wolvendaughter.bandcamp.com

fiadh spilled almond milk & cereal on my work laptop so we’re off to a great start

as a mom of autistic kids what i’d really love is to see less kids die!

sometimes you have to read your friends message that the church of scientology owned neopets and move on with your day

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some interesting debate going on re: Little Christmas (NOT Nollaig na mBan, Women’s Christmas) & evidence sourced as it being repackaged as the latter in the 90s is the Schools Collection - delighted to see this material shared/taken seriously as a credible historical account of everyday life

apparently i didn’t get @lusthag.bsky.social a real onion so the drama continues

update: still sick

how can we save more dogs in 2026?

not to be dramatic but i’ve been sick for 8 days & i’ve had enough

i’d just like to discuss the silmarillion in depth for 6-12 business days

The only New Year’s resolutions you need: - haunt more forests - wander more moors - terrify more towns - draw more townsfolk towards their mossy doom with the awesome and terrible grandeur of your dark shambling form

i got my husband @kimkelly.bsky.social’s book for xmas as he’s been depressed over noam chomsky & he hasn’t put it down so here’s your reminder to support one of the most important writers & activists of our generation

every year i ask for (& receive) a symbolic adoption of a donkey at @donkeysanctuary.bsky.social - cannot recommend a better gift ♥️ adopted snowdrop again this year! www.thedonkeysanctuary.ie/adopt/snowdrop

the best gift you can give yourself is listening to a full performance of handel’s messiah youtu.be/zYMqx1dn8VE?...

also this years flu or whatever is the worst

wondering if any 2025 live messiah performance uploads will edge out the seattle baroque orchestra’s 2019 classic

share this with whoever

also i really really really want a yule goat

cone boy (he irritated his back paw)

you’re either a crust person or a filling person

are loose fruit snacks at the bottom of a backpack considered a meal

how am i sick AGAIN

i tried to take away her ice cream scoop

if anyone needs album art my 4 yr old has you covered

your main takeaway from the holiday season should be that nothing is stopping you from listening to baroque music all year round

if you knew the root of most of my suffering for the past four weeks you would laugh

update

how it’s going

knowing my dads grave has a nice holiday pine blanket is actually comforting

is anyone else suffering through “chicken banana” on a loop

@kylebutoverhere.bsky.social i had to delete that bc i believe in separation of church and state

recentish book recs: between two fires (10000/10) the starving saints (8/10) the salt grows heavy (9/10) his black tongue (7.5/10) bloodsworn trilogy (10/10) the unworthy (6.5/10) currently reading: pilgrim hellmouth

at least two puns here

just finished the staving saints and it reminded me how refreshing it is to read a fantasy pov not from a bunch of men (malazan is exempt)

ruairi was told he needed glasses immediately yesterday so today we picked out his first pair - he looks so cute but how long will they last in this house 😭

did you know you can give a child a roll of tape & have five minutes of peace

Real treat to chat with the friend @fiadh.bsky.social about black metal, softness, folk music, trauma, overcoming, and more!

thanksgiving hack: edible glitter