Know any parents who DON’T give their kids gifts? Or who only do secondhand/handmade/empty amazon box gifts? Is this you? I want to talk for a story ASAP! [email protected]

“She understands that people don’t just get “stuck.” They fight to stay afloat while the world tries to push them under.” Beautiful photo essay of a family growing up in Appalachia. Words by @eminietfeld.bsky.social Photos by Maddie McGarvey. www.nytimes.com/2025/11/06/o...

Maddie McGarvey spent 15 years photographing a young girl growing up in the natural splendor and deep poverty of Appalachia. McGarvey's act of witness is breathtaking and heartbreaking and life-changing. I'm honored to write about it for the New York Times. www.nytimes.com/2025/11/06/o...

Excited for Class Not Dismissed this Monday about reporting on class - with the Economic Hardship Reporting Project! Speaking w/ @jiatolentino.bsky.social @alissaquart.bsky.social and more!! It's free! RSVP here: pp.events/bgAA6xxa

Would die for @karaswisher.bsky.social's take on this one...

Bi sees a model for surrogacy in the antiabortion laws that 'recognize and protect the right of a fetal life.' She thinks that when doctors see surrogates go against medical advice, they should report it to the police. Thanks so much to my expert @michelebgoodwin.bsky.social!

A stillbirth transforms a surrogacy arrangement into an absolute nightmare. The intended parent, a venture capitalist, wages a ruthless campaign against the surrogate, exposing the perilous landscape of America's unregulated surrogacy industry. Excellent job by @eminietfeld.bsky.social

A private investigator. Psychics. Calls to the FBI. Dozens of reports to regulators. A million dollar legal battle. A restraining order. An arrest warrant. American surrogacy raked in approximately $5 billion in 2024. What can go wrong?

I'm looking for men who got depressed after having a baby to talk about their experience. Please DM me if this is you or someone you know! Looking to talk by Thursday! #journorequest

I can't wait for this event tomorrow. all my Brooklyn folks, I hope I see you there!! partiful.com/e/HLgL5MLN3P...

I started going to church after Trump was elected for his second term. Looking for other folks who are looking for faith (any faith tradition!) post-election for a story. TIA!

I'm SOLD! Wish I were in Atlanta

You must read this absolutely gutting essay about DV and the fear of CPS removals that keeps moms trapped in abuse. About PTSD, veteran mental health, how racism hurts everyone. About trying to be a good human and not knowing how @moashort.bsky.social @thecut.com www.thecut.com/article/repo...

thanks for the holiday break reading, @eminietfeld.bsky.social !!

Dr Inna has some great resources on What's problematic about Van de Kolk. tr.ee/BfxplAJD6C

The idea that indulging my 6 month old daughter’s selfishness now will inspire her future charity sounded as preposterous as putting Mountain Dew into her bottles in hopes she’ll love water later. thecut.com/article/teaching-kids-to-share-gentle-parenting-experts-sharing-children.html

In the age of gentle parenting, sharing itself, once the most basic playground skill, is now being called into question.... My latest, for @thecut.com www.thecut.com/article/teac...

Thrilled I got to dig into my @motherjones.com story about #thebodykeepsthescore with a survivor advocate. #therapistsky open.spotify.com/episode/3AOb...

Every Xmas, my mom made peanut butter/chow mein noodle mangers with red M&Ms in the center. She declared “That’s the baby Jesus!!” The older (and richer) I get, the more grateful I am for my mom’s lessons in giving. Grateful to @washingtonpost.com www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/20...

Wow this story is like every workplace harassment nightmare come true. I thought I had a bad time going to HR at Google but jeez... www.nytimes.com/2024/12/21/b...

Trauma "is psychology’s response to what in theology is called ‘The Problem of Evil’... Like an evangelical healer, a therapists's job is to face evil head on to open the door to redemption, not from sin, but from trauma." Thought about this a lot beiner.substack.com/p/the-truth-...

For survivors who are already stigmatized and told not to talk about what happened... I feel it's so damaging to hear "don't discuss it" from a therapist. If people don't want to talk, no one should make them, but many of us have been desperate to share what happened to us

My profession is embarrassingly prone to faddish bullshit. This book is treated like a sacred text by so many therapists, but it’s honestly done a lot of damage, in large part due to its central argument that *talking* about one’s pain will make it worse. But talk therapy remains the gold standard.

this absolutely savage read

I really wanted to talk about how the Matisse cover and title of "The Body Keeps the Score" do SO MUCH heavy lifting. You don't even need to read the book to have your "a-ha!" TED talk moment. All you have to do is see it at the airport and you're like "it checks!"

Am I the only one who cannot hear about this book without immediately chanting LET THE BODIES KEEP THE SCORE, LET THE BODIES KEEP THE SCORE in my head www.motherjones.com/media/2024/1...

I have to take an annual fire safety training for work, and I am reminded that I asked some of the folks who manage these things how they evacuate the NICU and apparently they have vests you can load up with babies

“The Body Keeps the Score stigmatizes survivors, blames victims, and depoliticizes violence. While masquerading as care for survivors, it creates a hierarchy where marginalized victims are even more marginalized.” My latest, for @motherjones. www.motherjones.com/media/2024/1...

"I kept coming across teens who were in distress about the way they had been created… People don’t always realize they are creating a human being and not a piece of furniture." My latest, about designer babies-cum-teens in #SiliconValley, for @wired.com www.wired.com/story/your-n...

I prepped as much as humanly possible, yet childbirth BLINDSIDED ME. Sharing my birth story, featuring: premature water breaking (PROM); induction without an epidural; and involuntary, uncontrollable pushing. Hear my birth story on ep 3 of the pod -- youtu.be/_At2aNZ02Pk?...

“When I eventually made the tough decision to cut ties, I expected that my whole life would fall apart, that I would just miss her all day everyday. I was totally shocked to find out that my life has been so much better since I made that decision.” podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/b...

More unmarried couples are moving in, merging finances -- and freezing embryos. But in a country where courts can interfere with IVF, the risks are huge. In my first piece for The Cut I profile women who combined DNA as a form of commitment — only to have it backfire. www.thecut.com/article/what...