The new guy on my team is about to learn why we all hate the boss.

Yseult’s version of my way is such a good song to weep to.

received flowers at the end of our date. thoughtful gifts and actions are always appreciated over here 💕

Here’s what the wealthiest Californians donated toward the wildfires and here’s who has donated. ChatGPT is bad for the environment, but in this case it made sense for the analysis I wanted to show.

I will be genuinely sad if they shut down TikTok.

I’m not saying Keenan Ivory Wayans and Rhyheim are the same person. I’m just saying nobody’s seen them in the same room at the same time.

Truly one of my favorites

Anyway, big reason I no longer host: I don’t want to ruin my sheets for a man who only sees me as a nut. If you’re my man, obviously no problem. If you care about me and we sleep together, no problem. But it’s a bit too much not really caring around the other person in a post-PREP world.

I’m not sure. And this isn’t a fully formed thought but I feel like painting is mostly a thing with raw. Back in the condom days, I really can’t recall that many instances of it happening. Maybe the type that I sleep with is more of what changed?

It’s been nice to be in community with black men (gay and straight) who are focused on community and improving their family, friendship, and dating relationships. I’ve had some really wonderful in person conversations this month that affirm the power of community — and continued investment.

And followwwwwwwww my leaddddddde and youllllllllll beeeeee

I hate feeling like a fan. When someone has an insane following to follow ratio, my instinct won’t allow me to follow now matter how fine they are. I hate that about me. A bit.

I feel so meh. Let me take a bath in the hopes my troubles and tensions melt off.

2024 is the year I became a Panda Express person.

holding space for your meat tonight

Cross has had some predictable plot points but it’s still fun to watch

Every time I see yalls meats, I understand. I have bf peen. Yall are the men they say they going to see a man with a horse about.

I feel like I see more holes and poles on here than on the other Platform. Not mad, just didn’t expect that

I couldn’t be a housewife because I hold a grudge too much. No, I can’t move on and make amends in under a week. I gotta take a few weeks

I don’t have a blusky boyfriend yet. Seeking: black male who provides me with endless praise, a gentle spirit, and a romanticism that one day we’ll meet but probably never will. Must be 25 and up 🥰

I do expect to spend more time here after Jan 20. I know that other place will be insufferable but it’s hard to fully pull away from where the engagement is. The dopamine hits are what so many of us are chasing.

My Fitbit might have been the best purchase of 2024. She really keeps me informed.

The Wicked movie is was long, but I really wanted them to loop back to No One Mourns The Wicked after Defying Gravity. Because you don’t realize how good the first song is until you rewatch / replay the soundtrack.

“No one mourns the wicked” in 5-15 years is going to become a karaoke standard. The wicked movie made accessible to so many kids who didn’t know they needed that. In a post-glee world, this is the Super Bowl of musical theatre f@ggotry. We up!

he sucked it for 3 mins and gave up. He ain’t have poppers or lube (I’m here visiting), and then was shocked because he wouldn’t be able to take it. Not sure why the girls are so dumb and don’t think through a plan. I asked and he said: let’s just meet and see.

When you know you’re the f slur and unashamed

I should just turn these apps off here. Everyone is too damn skinny.

Hug an overthinker today… we need it.

If you were a villain, who would you be?

It’s interesting to see the different kinds of yt people you see around Asia and the airport. Vietnam, Japan, and Thailand have all had very different flavors of yt travelers. And the black folks in Japan and Thailand make clear which country I prefer to revisit between the two. 🙃

I’m in Thailand and it’s just a lot of not cute white men messaging me. Girl, I don’t even look your way in America.

Sniffles is blocked in every WiFi spot I’ve used here in Bangkok. I guess heauxing on that app is to be revisited later.

Wow they running a train on Rhyheim!

Seeing Ho Chi Min City (Saigon) and Tokyo on the same trip is something. They got 4 lines for about 500 people and it’s all lower tech. Curious to see what Thailand’s immigration lines will be like.

Even the McDonald’s toilet seat was heated in Tokyo.

To the ones who are at work or chosen to alone for Thanksgiving.

Gotta admit. I’m more than a little nervous about this trip and the next 10 days.

James Bond movies never show the part where the supervillain collects government subsidies to build his death tech.

The way I’m hotboxing this air cabin. It’s just pooting back to back for 14 hours.

I needed a program to watch while I eat this meal and accidentally chose Thor: Love & Thunder. 6 mins in and I was like “wait, where is cunty Cate?” And then realized I needed to be watching Thor: Ragnarok. All better now.

For my current long haul flight

this is a pro-black love account

My Fitbit recording spinning. What yall think I was doing?

I make a lot of dumb decisions in the pursuit of sex.

Financial compatibility for me looks like all of your bills are on auto-pay.

I’m trying to have kids by 40, and the clock is ticking with 3 years left. Mr Baby Daddy needs to show up asap (or I can be a step dad)

Strong preference for mannish bottoms who like to do the boy and girl stuff. I enjoy princess treatment whenever I can get it

Reality tv baby!

tote bag top checking in lol

I’m enjoying this Fitbit. Happy I invested in me and my health.