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I told a friend I was glad we’d moved past our “fiery exchanges.” He looked at me. “Fiery? You were always kind.” He’s not the first enemy who was never my enemy. Trauma rewrites your history until you don’t recognize it. People saw the good in me even when I couldn’t. 👇

Kicked my own arse at the gym today… my reward was to drive home with the top down. Not the same as a pint of Ben & Jerry’s

Well, they have proven they do not care about history, research, context. They are absolutely certain their modern ignorant opinions are fact. Yes, this will blow up in their faces but even then they still won’t see it. I hope I am wrong.

Did a difficult interview last night but I am so glad it wasn’t solely focused on Exodus/Conversion Therapy.

Came home from the gym. Dog had paralyzed a snake. Named him Bruce. Had to help Bruce exit gracefully. Hair went full Medusa in protest. Tonight I am Mandusa. New Wayfinder is up — it’s about Bruce, and being gentle with the ones who are just passing through. 🐍 randyscobey.com

1/7 Palantir’s manifesto is a terrifying glimpse into tech-authoritarianism. They aren't just selling software, but dictating global morality. Who do they think they are? Who elected Alex Karp and Peter Thiel to run the world? Europe should stay away from Palantir

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My first instinct is to say eff you Tucker. Then I remember, I was in the world that created him until 2013. I hope he's sincere and commits to radical honesty w/ himself so he can finally be honest w/ others. I lost everything but gained true freedom, he might to. Interested to see what happens.

Got home from the gym and found that Gigi paralyzed a beautiful adult black racer. Not dead, paralyzed from about the top quarter of his body down. It was tasked to me to help Bruce… we named him Bruce … enter his final rest. The gods got mad and gave me Medusa hair. Tonight my name is Mandusa 🙃

They don't mind taking blood money. They see it as a virtue, not evil.

I spent 20+ years in the religious right. I left in 2013. And watching Paula White compare Donald Trump to Jesus Christ — on Easter, in the East Room — made me furious. New Mugwump Ramblings post at randyscobey.com. The grifters were always there. The scary part is the room that nodded along.

Our hometown Orlandoan, Myki Meeks has been our girl from the start! We went to Savoy for the @rupaulsdragrace finale. The place went nuts when Myki was announced the next Drag Superstar. #teamMykiMeeks #dragrace (I do not own any rights to the RuPaul clips or music and claim them as fair use)

Haven’t been online since Friday afternoon. Not a long time but I loved it :)

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I went on a trip and waited for the dread to show up. It didn't. Twenty years of work. One really good marriage. And a nervous system that finally, quietly decided it was safe. New on Thrive: "The Calm I Didn't Know I'd Found"

1:30 AM. Dead truck. Jump start.. Gas Station. Stranger yelling something... you know, happens randyscobey.com/the-diesel-g...

The Algorithm and I Are in a Toxic Relationship randyscobey.com/the-algorith...

Yeah.... the Bible says that the antichrist will declare themself God... Not sure I believe in the antichrist anymore but if I did... I had ZERO clue he would be orange.

Bar Hopping While Queer: A Field Report from Seven Gay Bars Across Three Destinations randyscobey.com/bar-hopping-...

We love Bruce!

I Will Not Let Them Have This Too–my response to the SCOTUS decision to let the lower courts continue to promote conversion therapy abuse.

Wayfinder – Puerto Rico Is Beautiful and Apparently So Is My Midlife Clarity randyscobey.com/puerto-rico-...

Wayfinder – I Have Returned. My Nervous System Has Not. randyscobey.com/wayfinder-i-...

Update

My Brain on Breaking News: A Love Hate Relationship randyscobey.com/2026/03/02/m...

So ya say I sent 18 bajillion emails today? No I didn’t get hacked; just clicked the wrong buttons. I am so sorry 😢!

Sexplorer-The First Time I Realized Sex Could Be Playful, Not Performative randyscobey.com/2026/02/28/t...

Just turned on the news and... WTF? Does Resident Clump think this will stop the Epstein momentum building against him? No. It just adds to the list of criminal offenses he and his family will be paying the price for generations.

“Sen. Yarborough should mind his own business and respect the autonomy of Florida’s cities. If residents object to specific expenditures, they can vote their local leaders out of office. They do not need a state-imposed surveillance and lawsuit regime.” truthwinsout.org/two-assails-...

New post at www.randyscobey.com

Had a wonderful time with loved ones last night... substack.com/@rrscobey/no...

Why I Still Believe in Nuance (Even When the Internet Doesn’t) open.substack.com/pub/randysco...

Sexplorer–Seducing Straight Couples Was Not On My Bingo Card open.substack.com/pub/randysco...

The WHY & Pray Away Hangover open.substack.com/pub/randysco...

Oooooohhhhh she's in a tizzy... lol

"I think it's clear how much this bothers him." MS NOW's @arimelber.bsky.social breaks down Trump's reaction to the SCOTUS tariff decision during a briefing at the White House.

I won't be holding my breath for any refunds, but I hope, somehow, they will be forced to make them. I spent a helluva lot more money because of these illegal tariffs, but I will be grateful for the $0.18 refund with the joy of knowing Resident Clump had to accept defeat on this.

Atonement is the wonderfully produced, historically accurate story of former "Ex-Gay King" John Paulk's rise and fall -- and rise again as an LGBTQ activist. If you want to learn about the history of the "Ex-Gay" movement, check out this top-notch podcast www.iheart.com/podcast/1119...

Love getting back to drawing on my iPad and using the Procreate app. LuxEnergy–1 #newart #digitalart #timelapse

Before and during…

Godspeed to the legend that was Robert Duvall. 🌹

It took a tragedy to reveal my entire belief system was destructive. Realizing the pain I caused felt like a tsunami of grief. I don't disagree with the anger toward MAGA, but sometimes it takes a crisis to see the lies. We can choose to give them space to wake up, even if they aren't celebrated.

Before…

Sexplorer–"Do you know what your name means in England?" open.substack.com/pub/randysco...

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New Post at www.randyscobey.com

Happy Valentine’s Day Eve Eve. My coworkers are the best… candy candy candy