Oh and that brief period of time in 2024 where I was between jobs from like March-June

-my mother’s death -childbirth -ppd -everytime depression wants to creep its uglass head my way -my ex I dated from 2018-2020

WHERE ALL MY SCAMMING ASS NIGGAS AAAAAAT?

You expect your partner to be your therapist and to shape shift into a safe space for all the things you haven't made any effort to heal. But you twist yourself into safe spaces for your friends' unhealed bullshit. "Come healed" never applies to your homie with awful takes based in unhealed harm.

"That's just how i am" and "i was raised this way" and "nobody understands what i go through" are all red flags. Even in friendships. Maybe especially in friendships. Get help. Use your words. If you can't be vulnerable, we can't be friends. Friendships are safe for me.

This a word!! Different friendships require different things and you gotta put in the work to cultivate that because it’s different per person. Friendships are relationships too and if you don’t treat relationships as one size fits all, you can’t do that with friendships

This episode of law and order just pissed me off

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Boooooo

Whoever started The Who should pay for what convo…step outta the vehicle with your hands up.

And for this pride i will be cursing out any straight man that tries to make this month about their feelings. Any straight woman that tries to see pride as an opportunity to have a convo about DL men. And any enby erasure will get a kick in the ass LET US HAVE OUR THINGS IN PEACE!

Niggas need to sit in their feelings and figure out why they’re so bothered by women living life on their own terms I know why but y’all need to figure out why and then do something with that epiphany

I’m still upset. Bitches be weird

And why do I have mutuals with this fuck nigga?

Cuz how u the president of the United States and yo tracks be showing?

I just let yall be stupid.

Energy i woke up on open.spotify.com/track/4UUFTQ...

Why do u think Meg or ANY woman for that matter gives a flying FUCK what YOU think? Women no longer gaf about living to appease u arrested development ass niggas. Go suck yuh muda wit this nonsense. U can’t even pull a bitch like Meg no way

That’s why I just be minding my business chile

HAPPY GAY MUNT, cuz u know, u gay n stuff 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Enjoy this while u can, signed a mom dealing wit 3rd grade drama

It’s predatory af when u really think about it. Like, u fr bein dishonest about ur intentions to get what u want. So now women are consenting under FALSE PRETENSES

Ayo naw! Euphoria got me pissed!

The switch up ppl do is insane. Im kinda tired of finding out in the corniest ways, where I stand wit ppl

Is Wayne Brady (me) gonna have to do a protection spell?

It’s the eve of #GayMunt

This really be it. The fuckin principle of it all

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Pushing 30 and using a barely legal hashtag for ur sw post not insane?

But when we first said this, we got called haters

This whole thread but this ⬇️⬇️⬇️: It is not teen girls or adult women's responsibility to coddle emotionally stunted men, build them up, indulge their insecurities etc., especially when there have been too many examples where this ends in harm, not to the men, but to the women.

Me after I ran a 42 yr old man wit a sex addiction off here after he not only played in my face, but I found out he was a creep to other women. He’s now banished to that other site, prolly talkin to himself, and I have zero regrets🤷🏾‍♀️

Story after story Story after story Story after story There sure are a lot of fucking lone wolves

A man in North Carolina threw acid on his intimate partners face Because she was pretty Because she was pretty

He should have died the same night

A husband in France for many years drugged his wife and invited the entire town to rape her on repeated occasions And we as a society haven’t killed him.

The way that i know that this is an inequitable conversation is because men get to say this makes me feel bad… and keep their lives Meanwhile i know of women that have lost their lives for doing the same

Justin Fairfax killed his wife…. Killed the mother of his children while they were on the home And the very next day men (the good men) were twisting themselves in knots trying to imagine compassion for him

There is not a single day that goes by that a man kills mutilates or physically abuses his intimate partner

Their careers Their families Their confidence Their bodies

We (men) would really feel harmed if women named the specific ways that men have hurt them

Because the narrative provides aid to the real and tangible ways that men have been harmful

There is a whole meta narrative about all men being trash And if we are being honest It frankly doesn’t go far enough

Men need to do hard emotional things and face emotional realities The only way over is through

We do not help men when we take the hard work away to accommodate their comfort

We do not help men when we do not tell them the truth

We do not help men when we emotionally stunt them