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Insight about everybody's favorite subject: Ourselves.
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My new post for
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on artificial intelligence: "How Is AI Affecting the Everyday Workplace?"
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How Is AI Affecting the Everyday Workplace?
A recent survey examines the ways AI is commonly being used—and not used.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mind-of-the-manager/202509/how-is-ai-affecting-the-everyday-workplace
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The "mind after midnight" theory suggests that being awake after midnight could lead to emotional dysregulation, poorer decision-making, and greater impulsivity. Are you at risk?
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What Happens to the Mind After Midnight
Night owls may face risks when they're up between midnight and 5 a.m.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/cultural-neuroscience/202412/what-you-should-know-about-the-mind-after-midnight
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AI chatbots' unwavering confidence in their responses—even when clearly incorrect—might negatively impact human intellect and curiosity over time.
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ChatGPT Is a Dude
Personal Perspective: AI is an entitled and overconfident dude with a lot of wrong answers.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/psychology-tomorrow/202509/chatgpt-is-a-dude
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The dimensional approach in psychology provides crucial insights and should continue to shape our comprehension. Although categories aren't flawless, they're essential for diagnosing and treating individuals.
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Why We Still Need Categories in Personality Diagnosis
Categorical distinctions remain vital for clarity, prognosis, and treatment in personality disorder diagnosis.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/from-freud-to-fluoxetine/202509/why-we-still-need-categories-in-personality-diagnosis
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Loneliness can negatively impact our well-being, and building meaningful connections requires time, emotion, and resources that might be scarce. Here's an easy alternative that benefits everyone.
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A Better Solution to Loneliness: Ties on the Fringe
Loneliness is rampant and friendships are hard to form. The good news: You don’t need to form close ties to alleviate some of the sting of loneliness.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-bonds-across-the-lifespan/202508/a-better-solution-to-loneliness-ties-on-the-fringe
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We can't dictate others' actions, but we can reflect on our emotions and manage our reactions. This self-awareness can create positive changes in our lives and relationships.
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Embracing Detachment: The "Let Them" Theory
Shifting focus from external chaos to internal peace, reducing stress, and improving relationships. We can incorporate this approach into our lives.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/consciously-creating-your-soul-life/202503/embracing-detachment-the-let-them-theory
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"The ability to think critically is the key to turning information into insight. And that ability, once fully formed, becomes the ceiling of understanding for the rest of a person’s life."
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Critical Thinking Shapes What We Can Know
Learning never stops, but critical thinking determines how deeply we can understand. Brain development influences that ceiling, particularly in youth.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/common-sense-science/202504/critical-thinking-shapes-what-we-can-know
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Why We Misjudge Support for Political Violence
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Humans carry millions of years of evolutionary pressure to acquire more resources and higher social status. But it’s our relationships that really make our lives fulfilling today.
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Why More Is Never Enough
Human insatiability originates from evolutionary adaptations that have historically ensured survival through resource acquisition, status competition, and mate selection.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/common-sense-science/202506/why-more-is-never-enough
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Emotional regulation is more than simply “keeping our cool.” It’s about understanding our triggers, recognizing stress, and finding ways to respond rather than react.
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5 Steps to Navigate Emotional Triggers at Work
3. Manage the timing of high-stakes conversations.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/a-new-look-at-womens-leadership/202411/navigating-emotional-triggers-at-work
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Your brain actually gets stronger when you do hard things. Seriously. That's neuroplasticity in action. Here's how to take advantage of it.
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Embrace the Suck: Discomfort Can Build a Better You
The sweet spot is just outside your comfort zone—hard, but doable.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-science-of-bravery/202505/embrace-the-suck-why-discomfort-builds-a-better-you
12 days ago
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"Think of your brain as a muscle that gets stronger with practice. Every time you choose a long-term benefit over immediate pleasure, you're essentially doing a mental workout." Here's how that can help you in the future.
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The Power of Waiting: Your Brain's Defense Against Dementia
Can delaying gratification today protect your brain tomorrow? Research suggests that the ability to resist immediate rewards may be more than just willpower.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/motivate/202501/the-power-of-waiting-your-brains-defense-against-dementia
13 days ago
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Reading fiction is not just a pastime—it is a fundamental way in which we learn, empathize, and make sense of the world. Here's why that matters.
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The Science of Storytelling: How Fiction Shapes the Mind
Discover how reading fiction strengthens your mind, boosts empathy, and shapes the way you understand yourself and others—all backed by science.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/parenting-from-a-neuroscience-perspective/202503/the-science-of-storytelling-how-fiction
13 days ago
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Humans carry millions of years of evolutionary pressure to acquire more resources and higher social status. But it’s our relationships that really make our lives fulfilling today.
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Why More Is Never Enough
Human insatiability originates from evolutionary adaptations that have historically ensured survival through resource acquisition, status competition, and mate selection.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/common-sense-science/202506/why-more-is-never-enough
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Emotional regulation is more than simply “keeping our cool.” It’s about understanding our triggers, recognizing stress, and finding ways to respond rather than react.
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5 Steps to Navigate Emotional Triggers at Work
3. Manage the timing of high-stakes conversations.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/a-new-look-at-womens-leadership/202411/navigating-emotional-triggers-at-work
14 days ago
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Introspection—the ability to examine our own thoughts and feelings—is key to understanding ourselves and having empathy for others. Here's how.
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Introspection—The Key to Navigating Life Effectively
The better we understand ourselves, the more chance we have of accomplishing what we want.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/great-kids-great-parents/202409/introspection-the-key-to-navigating-life-effectively
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Personality isn't set in stone—but it doesn't change without reason. People who make significant personal changes often share these three traits.
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Do People Change? The Truth About Personality Over Time
Do people change, or do we become older versions of our younger selves? The answer might surprise you.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/liking-the-child-you-love/202503/do-people-change-the-truth-about-personality-over-time
18 days ago
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We can’t control the waves of thoughts and emotions that we experience, but we can learn to surf them. This is how.
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How Not to Be Owned by Your Emotions and Thoughts
We can’t control the waves of thoughts and emotions that we experience, but we can learn to surf them.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-compassionate-brain/202508/how-not-to-be-owned-by-your-emotions-and-thoughts
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Optimism isn't just an inherent trait—it's a skill that can be developed and strengthened over time. Here's how.
www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/beyo...
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Practicing Learned Optimism
Discover how adopting a mindset of learned optimism can transform your well-being and resilience.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/beyond-school-walls/202409/practicing-learned-optimism
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Sexual satisfaction typically declines in long-term relationships, but that doesn't mean it has to. Research points to four ways partners can keep re-igniting their spark.
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4 Ways Satisfied Couples Keep Passion Alive
4. They don't get hung up on how often they have sex.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202504/how-do-you-keep-passion-alive
25 days ago
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One of the most effective ways to restore willpower isn’t by trying harder but by entering a state of flow. Here's how nature, art, and intuition can help.
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What If We’ve Misunderstood Willpower All Along?
Nature, art, and intuition can awaken a wilder, more resilient you.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/digital-altruism/202505/what-if-weve-misunderstood-willpower-all-along
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good read together with,
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Narcissists often resort to "dry begging," an indirect way of voicing their needs or desires without outright stating them, to manipulate others into giving them more attention or appreciation. Here's how to recognize the patterns in your relationships.
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One Common Tactic Narcissists Use to Control Their Victims
Three ways that narcissists use dry begging to get what they want.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202508/one-common-tactic-narcissists-use-to-control-their-victims
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"The happiest people aren't necessarily those who have figured out their grand purpose in life. They are the ones who have found meaningful ways to connect with others through activities that bring them joy." Here's why.
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The Purpose-Happiness Connection
Think purpose leads to happiness? Not quite. The real key is connection—and your passions might be the secret bridge. Discover how "little-p" purpose fuels true joy.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-regret-free-life/202503/the-purpose-happiness-connection
26 days ago
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Comfort zones may feel safe and cozy, but they often limit our potential. Here's how to break free and build resilience to face the challenges that lie ahead.
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Rewiring Your Mind and Building Resilience
Breaking free from your comfort zone and facing challenges head-on can boost your growth, build resilience, and inspire those around you.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/leadership-diversity-and-wellness/202412/rewiring-your-mind-and-building-resilience
27 days ago
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Being single in a society that glamorizes romantic love is no easy feat, but it can be deeply liberating and fulfilling to many. This is why.
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2 Signs That You're Happiest When You're Single
Do you thrive most when you're single? These two signs can tell.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202508/2-signs-that-youre-happiest-when-youre-single
27 days ago
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Adults who endured serious childhood trauma may assume their whole future must be determined by their past. It doesn't have to be. Those who are able to choose a different path can beat the odds.
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A Surprising Positive of Surviving a Rough Childhood
Survivors choose “the hero’s journey” every day.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-uncertainty-principal/202408/the-surprising-advantage-of-a-truly-terrible-childhood
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Wake up and can't fall back to sleep? Try box breathing and bilateral stimulation.
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Why You Wake Up at 3 a.m., and How to Go Back to Sleep
Instead of freaking out, remember that it's normal.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-truth-about-exercise-addiction/202501/why-you-wake-up-at-3-am-and-how-to-get-back-to-sleep
28 days ago
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A tendency to overthink can stall someone's progress and make them feel overwhelmed. Breaking challenges into milestones can help. Here's how it works.
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How Overthinkers Can Achieve Their Goals
Why milestones matter for motivation.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-practice/202505/how-overthinkers-can-achieve-their-goals
29 days ago
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Every day, we face the choice to react with cruelty or kindness. Here's what happens to our mood and well-being when we decide to be good to others.
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Want to Be Happy? Start by Being Kind
A Personal Perspective: What my own worst mistake taught me about kindness, and why being good to others isn't just nice—it's essential for your own happiness.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meditation-for-modern-life/202508/want-to-be-happy-start-by-being-kind
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Success won't make you happy for long. Here's why purpose, identity, and connection beat ambition nearly every time.
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Why Success Is Overrated
What lights us up beats what impresses others.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-regret-free-life/202505/why-success-is-overrated
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Psychopathy may have its roots in early childhood. Experts say we can spot it by paying special attention to what's called deceitful-callous behavior—the tendency to lack feelings for others and the tendency to lie.
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How Early Can We Identify Psychopathy in a Child?
New research is troubling but may point toward ways to help.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-at-any-age/201611/how-early-can-we-identify-psychopathy-in-a-child
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Many individuals who are high in dark personality traits receive increasing attention and appreciation instead of being actively shunned. But why? Here's the psychology behind their surprising appeal.
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The Allure of Dark Personality Traits
The fascination for dark personalities goes beyond anticipated rewards or admiration for their ability to get things done.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mind-riddles/202505/the-allure-of-dark-personality-traits
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reposted by
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Phil Stark
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Check out our latest
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article -- It's about tracking our lives emotional charts
#talktherapy
#mentalhealth
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Life's Financial Charts | Psychology Today
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Life's Financial Charts
Our moods can be turbulent in the short term, with periods of sadness eclipsing joy, but in therapy, we work towards the goal of a longer-term chart that trends towards happiness.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dude-wheres-my-car-tharsis/202508/lifes-financial-charts
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We usually think of abandonment as something others do to us, but often the deepest, most damaging form of abandonment comes from what we do to ourselves, through habits like these.
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Stop Abandoning Yourself: 10 Habits to Break Now
9. Breaking promises to yourself.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-essence-of-consciousness/202507/stop-abandoning-yourself-10-habits-to-break-now
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It’s important to be there for the people you love and care about. However, it shouldn’t come at the cost of your own well-being.
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2 Signs That You're Unknowingly Abandoning Yourself
Do you consider your own needs without weighing them against others’?
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202508/2-signs-that-youre-unknowingly-abandoning-yourself
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Surprising research shows people who had their appendix removed are at a higher risk of psychiatric illness.
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A Stunning Consequence of Having Your Appendix Removed
Higher rates of depression and bipolar disorder, but there may be another way.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mood-by-microbe/202501/a-bizarre-consequence-of-childhood-appendectomy
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"Trust is not a belief or decision. It’s a physiological state—arising from the shared experience and expression of safety and connection between bodies occurring far below cognition," writes Michael Allison.
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The Paradox of Trust
Inspired by Yuval Harari’s “Paradox of Trust,” this post shows why our greatest resource and evolutionary gift—trust—depends on the body’s state of safety, not words or intent.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-pressure-paradox/202508/the-paradox-of-trust
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It’s important to be there for the people you love and care about. However, it shouldn’t come at the cost of your own well-being.
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2 Signs That You're Unknowingly Abandoning Yourself
Do you consider your own needs without weighing them against others’?
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202508/2-signs-that-youre-unknowingly-abandoning-yourself
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Surprising research shows people who had their appendix removed are at a higher risk of psychiatric illness.
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A Stunning Consequence of Having Your Appendix Removed
Higher rates of depression and bipolar disorder, but there may be another way.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mood-by-microbe/202501/a-bizarre-consequence-of-childhood-appendectomy
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Some people's thoughts are running nonstop, worrying about the future, never living in the present. These 5 steps can help them get back in touch with their emotions and enjoy a little spontaneity.
www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fixi...
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Always Living in Your Head? How to Break Out
If you live in your head most of the time, you may be overly anxious and missing the valuable information your intuition can provide.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fixing-families/202507/always-living-in-your-head-how-to-break-out
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"Happiness is not contingent on external factors such as wealth, status, or achievements. True happiness is an internal state cultivated through gratitude, contentment, and a sense of purpose."
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Pain Is Inevitable, Suffering Is Optional
Embrace acceptance, mindfulness, resilience, perspective, and self-compassion to navigate life's challenges with grace.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meditation-for-modern-life/202409/pain-is-inevitable-suffering-is-optional
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We tend to worry about the people who spend time at home instead of socializing and doubt them when they say they're happy. One expert suggests we should celebrate them instead. Here's why.
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Celebrating Happy Homebodies
Is time alone bad for you? Not necessarily.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/202501/happy-homebodies-day
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The same brain regions involved in stopping physical actions are also used to suppress unwanted memories and thoughts, including drug cravings. Here's what that means for addiction recovery, impulse control, and even mental health treatment.
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Understanding the Brain’s “Action Mode”
Recent discoveries about how the brain works have shifted focus to brain networks, offering potential new hope for people addicted to substances.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/addiction-outlook/202507/understanding-the-brains-action-mode
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Why is it so hard to stay calm and unshaken when someone criticizes, ignores, or insults us? The answer lies in how our brains are wired.
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Why We’re Hardwired to Take Offense So Easily
Why we’re secretly drawn so fast to being offended—and how to outsmart your brain’s negativity trap before it steals your peace.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/thought-shifters/202505/why-were-hardwired-to-take-offense-so-easily
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Over-reliance on AI may impair critical thinking skills. Here are 4 keys to maintaining the indispensable value of human judgment and autonomy in the age of artificial intelligence.
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What Is Agency Decay?
By applying Awareness, Appreciation, Acceptance, and Accountability, you can curate an environment where AI is a powerful asset, and human agency remains the ultimate helm.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/harnessing-hybrid-intelligence/202505/what-is-agency-decay
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The longer you are alive, the more difficult it becomes to get a good night's sleep. Consuming certain foods can help. Here's where to start.
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The Best Things to Eat for a Good Night's Sleep
The right proteins, the right juices—and maybe a kiwifruit.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-brain-on-food/202502/the-best-things-to-eat-for-a-good-nights-sleep
about 2 months ago
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Critical thinking develops through intellectual struggle. Humans must sit with difficult questions for which answers aren't obvious. Here's how AI can undermine the learning process.
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AI Tutors Are Teaching Kids to Fake Critical Thinking
New AI tutors teach kids to fake critical thinking instead of developing it. Here's why this educational "breakthrough" damages developing minds.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-algorithmic-mind/202507/ai-tutors-are-teaching-kids-to-fake-critical-thinking
about 2 months ago
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If someone is struggling with depression or anxiety, it’s very likely that they have been living with unacknowledged shame. Here's why—and 2 ways they can begin to break free.
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Chronic Shame: The Biggest Problem You Didn’t Know You Have
Chronic shame often shows up in therapy sessions as depression and anxiety. Therapists and clients may need to dig deeper to find and relieve unacknowledged shame.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/flipping-out/202410/chronic-shame-the-biggest-problem-you-didnt-know-you-have
about 2 months ago
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There is a third factor beyond happiness and meaning that contributes to a life well lived—psychological richness. Here's why it matters and how to cultivate it.
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How Reading Can Contribute to a Psychologically Richer Life
A "good life" may be made up of more than happiness and meaning. A new book suggests that there's a third vital dimension: psychological richness.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/well-read/202502/how-reading-can-contribute-to-a-psychologically-richer-life
about 2 months ago
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