I already can't wait for January to be over lol

My grandma passed away this morning, dementia took its toll over the last few years as she refused to go quietly. I've had lots of complicated feelings about her over the last MAGA decade. It's a lot to process.

Polyamory increased the number of deeply intimate relationships in my life. This has the consequence of me being challenged to learn new things about myself more frequently. In a demisexual dynamic, emotional vulnerability is foreplay.

@strictlyworse.bsky.social always jokes I gift him kitchen tools so he'll cook for me. Only fair that when he gifts me paints I paint his minis. Making progress on these trench crusaders!

Dinner and dessert 🥭

Put my birthday paints to use today for Papa Nurgle. "Entropy is all-consuming, fed by all struggles against it. Thus, even to hope is to despair. So despair, and in your desperation, find purpose."

Happy Birthday to my wonderful wife @sweetbasil.bsky.social, who honestly had a tough year, but handled it all with grace. Always a wonderful spouse, and deserving of everything good that comes their way. Happy birthday love 😘

Happy Birthday to @sweetbasil.bsky.social. They are a calming and beautiful presence in my life and I was so happy to spend the last year together, from birthday to birthday. It's had a lot of ups and downs for them but I was so grateful to be in their life with them for it.

Happy birthday to me 😍

Wayne couldn't wait for Christmas morning

The less pg version of my outfit

Dressed up for a night with the spouse's side of the polycule. Like meeting extended family for the first time.

THE LATE 1900s 💀💀

I'm weak to the target birds. Just look at these stylish birbs.

Missing summer

I need to paint again soon

I'm your friendly, neighborhood genderqueer. I post about plants, parenting, mental health, gender, polyamory, nerd shit, and occasionally cute selfies that I will most likely delete later. Neurodivergent Crohn's Baddy trying to find balance and wellness.

Hobbit ready with a shortcut-to-mushrooms gnocchi! Fellowship extended edition watch party 🥰

My biggest obstacle to making it in the gym each morning is @strictlyworse.bsky.social, who snuggles me after my alarm goes off.

Making friends with my meta's dog this Thanksgiving

This Thanksgiving I'm thankful for @strictlyworse.bsky.social being so ripped he can effortlessly toss me over his shoulder and carry me around. *Swoon*

Finished painting this handsome dude tonight, joined by @kidcryptid.bsky.social's artistry as well.

Last night my oldest and I finished the last chapter of A Wrinkle in Time. As it reached a happy ending, he could barely contain his excitement. Today he checked out his first chapter book from the library on his own and is now happily reading. My mission was successful.

Rolling credits on Hades 2. But not done because 100% awaits

I've been reading my oldest one chapter from A Wrinkle in Time every night. We just ended a chapter and he was DEVASTATED and asked to keep reading. My plan to get this kid to love reading is working.

After four straight years volunteering my time and building the program, my school has made room in the budget for D&D club. Gonna get paid to DM for kids!

Sometimes a weekend away is exactly what the doctor ordered.

This meatball roll is bigger than my head and it slaps so hard

Felt cute. Did my hair with a thermal brush for the first time. Also, new hair color will be incoming soon... 🧡🧡

We love a reunion @strictlyworse.bsky.social @adamreck.bsky.social @annapeppard.bsky.social

Not bad at all

Time to play Hades 2 hooked up to an IV

Been in a great mood since election day, which @kidcryptid.bsky.social pointed out because I'm back to randomly bursting into song.

Today was in fact the day. I'm a baddie with Crohn's Disease.

Let's hope today's the day 🤞🏻

Finished painting the plague bearers tonight. Next up, the bases!

Rolling credits on Stardew Valley

My ten year old is going as his d&d character for Halloween 🥹🥹🥹

Painting with @kidcryptid.bsky.social and doing our second annual watch of Over the Garden Wall 💖

There is nothing more endearing than the ability to laugh at yourself.

I forgot these were sitting in my camera roll. I took @kidcryptid.bsky.social out to one of my favorite restaurants and everything was delicious 💖

X-Men has some of the greatest female characters in comics but the way they're always regressing those characters to some of their worst eras because apparently guys like 'em best that way sure is something

When he takes you home 💖

Gardening is magic because I was in bed in unbearable pain two hours ago and now I'm dancing in @charmgardens.com art

I am very smart and listened to a horror novel audio book before bed.

You can call me Master Angler 🎣

I played the beta awhile ago but haven't picked back up Hades 2 yet because I'm currently locked in on completing my Stardew Valley fishing collection. This is normal and makes sense.

Painting plaguebearers with @kidcryptid.bsky.social and made sure mine has their nails done. She's classy plaguebearer

Finally finished this and am decently proud of my first mini!