I still talk to him every day. And now I’ve started writing him letters, but I don’t know where to send them.

Blokus rematch with the Cub!

Happy Thursday, y’all! 😊❤️👋🏻

It’s Craig’s birthday today, and we are giving him the best birthday wishes and the warmest regards. 🐻🎂😋

Make it a great weekend everyone! I love you! ❤️🌞💦

Oh Neil. I’ll always love you. You know this. ❤️

Oh hay y’all! 👋🏻😋

Handsome Gerry! 🔥🔥🔥

When you bring a wild Cub to the bar. 🐻

Some big changes in store? 🤔🤷🏻‍♂️

Spicy, delicious Dustin! 🍆🔥🥵

So much of what I have been through lately has made me reflect on the past. And a lot of the past was wonderful... like meeting and photographing Ben on my birthday after years of worshiping from afar and being a huge fanboy. What an extraordinarily beautiful man @greenthumbben.bsky.social is! 🐻🔥❤️

A little clothes shopping with Craig 🐻☺️

It’s Adventure Time! Come on grab your friends! 🐻😜👍🏻

It’s time for Wade to serve up more hotness! (For me). 🔥🔥🔥

It’s Adventure Time! Come on grab your friends! 🐻😜👍🏻

It was a wonderful evening with a roomful of incredibly intelligent and cool people, including my friend Mike here. Also, sometimes I think I look like a chemistry teacher. 🤷🏻‍♂️😋👍🏻

Kai is beautiful inside and out! ❤️😍🔥

That first time shooting Ben @greenthumbben.bsky.social… 😍❤️🔥

I haven’t spoken to my husband in 3 months… 3 months ago today, I lost him. I keep reaching to call, but now I own his phone. The sharpest edges have dulled, but a deeper ache lingers, reminding me of a man who gave me love, not indifference. Grief doesn’t vanish, but it softens. Life keeps going.

Have you wanted me to mansplain life choices to you? You’re in luck.

Gareth, way way back on the Atlanta Beltline. 🐻🔥🌞

Radiantly beautiful Neil, lit up by the last rays of the setting sun. 🌞🔥✨

I think my friend Cody is gonna shave my head in the spring.

Handsome @jbfullerton.bsky.social ❤️🔥

I’m trying to enjoy my life as it IS, and not as an idealized version of what it actually is. But all that would be hollow if it wasn’t for the fact that I totally want YOU to be happy about YOUR LIFE. What I do is done with love, and I intend love for you, whomever reads these words. ☺️❤️✌🏻

Daddy drinks because you’re bad!

My fundamentalist upbringing is in my rearview mirror, but my use of worshipful language continues! Seeing Chris was like seeing God. 🔥🙏🏻✨

Chris. 🔥🙏🏻✨

Daddy Orbit Speaks!!

My god how beautiful. @hairygingerdad1.bsky.social ❤️🔥🍆

Subaru selfie.

Boy! What a difference 15 years can make! My first shoot with Daddyboy was Wednesday, December 22, 2010 and the most recent was Monday, December 22, 2025. Boy went from a (twentysomething) boy to a man. Time flies when you're having fun! 🐻🔥❤️

Max!!! Max is the sweetest straight guy and I’m desperate (and you can clearly see why) to photograph him, but even more than that I’m desperate to hang out with him because he’s so sweet and so cool. (Geeks like me need cool guys as friends!) ☺️

The new logo in "synthwave" mode, along with a possible promo.

I think this is the new logo.

OMG Dean @deanmatthewsxxx.bsky.social is AMAZING!!! 😍🔥❤️

Yes, Dean @deanmatthewsxxx.bsky.social is on here and of course I forgot to tag him yesterday...

Dean is just plain crazy handsome. He's like a rock star, and photographing him made me feel like one, too. 🌞🔥✨

When my brother died I made a decision that I wasn’t going to turn away from it. None of us did. He was surrounded by all of his family when he passed. I watched it happen. And now it’s time for me to watch myself and honor the journey in grief and my attempts to move away from it.

I watch myself like a doctor looking after his patient these days. I question the wisdom of displaying any of this. But, I made that decision and that genie is out of the bottle. Now, over two months later I can objectively say that him being gone is AMAZINGLY NOT OKAY.

I got abducted by a furry cub today and then many adventures unfolded. Fun seems to be coming back online for me. 🐻🌈✨