Begging left nimbys to read Marx, Lenin, Stalin or Mao. None of whom would support propping up the landlord class, which is what laws restricting housing supply do.

Leopard, meet face. Face, leopard.

Now here we have a true conundrum. She has two doms, one who lives in her town and the other who doesn't. What should she do when they issue conflicting orders?

Last week we posted a question from a woman who saw an old friend in a porn and wondered if she should reach out to tell her about it. Our advice at the time was to leave it alone but you all lit up our comments with sentiments to the contrary! And now, we agree. Share your thoughts at Savage.Love

I challenge you not to smile at this call to @dansavage.bsky.social on this week’s Lovecast. Absolute mood boost heroin.

I’m so excited to share that I'll be speaking at Sessions Live 2026, Esther Perel’s annual clinical conference. Sessions Live is a two-day gathering for therapists, clinicians, and curious minds exploring desire, connection, and the forces shaping how we relate today. 🎟️: buff.ly/4Ca0rgd

No shame in kink! Especially when there are many others just like you out there who share similar kinks in reaction to the cultural forces all around us. This clip is from our conversation with Doc Chocolate on the Magnum Edition of this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast.

CA democratic gubernatorial candidate, Eric Swalwell, has dropped out of the race and out of congress following a slew of allegations of misconduct by multiple women. If only all government representatives suffered consequences for their criminal misconduct! On today's Savage.Love/Lovecast!

Former pastor turned porn star & podcast host Doc Chocolate returns to the Savage Lovecast this week to answer caller questions and frankly to make us feel like we are doing this podcasting thing all wrong. Join us as a Magnum subscriber to hear our full convo tomorrow on Savage.Love/Lovecast!

Send him to Moscow.

Well this IS awkward..she saw a porn clip with an old estranged friend in it. It looked like a gnarly video where the former friend maybe didn't know she was being filmed. Does the caller have an obligation to let her know? How could she possibly broach the subject?

SAVAGE LOVE LIVE is a special show exclusively for Magnum Subscribers. Dan will be joined by Nancy and the Tech-Savvy At-Risk Youth today, April 9 at 12 pm Pacific to answer your questions live for this special Magnum live series! Become a Magnum Sub to join us today at Savage.Love/Subscribe !

We are threatening to invade the Vatican and kidnap the Pope.

Sharing moments of parental bliss with guest Eli McCann, who writes about becoming a parent in his new book of personal essays "We're Thankful for the Moisture: A Gay Guy's Guide to Mormon Faith, Family, and Fruit Preservation". Listen to the full chat on the Magnum Savage.Love/Lovecast.

Our take on Bryon Noem's "Bimbofication" scandal? We got you. For the full comments on this topic, listen to this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast out now!

Armageddon is terrible, but our only other option was diversity trainings at work.

The Garden of Earthly Delights (detail), by Hieronymus Bosch, 1480-1505, 📸 by @alexbrandon

Where do you live, a "red state" or a "blue state"? How red or blue are your surrounding hues? Salt Lake City's Eli McCann joins us to discuss this, The Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives, open relationships and more! On tomorrow's Magnum Savage.Love/Lovecast

MAGA men: Don’t breed them. Don’t feed them. (Thanks for this one @dansavage.bsky.social)

Meet Ember, a trans man who, after going to a few sex parties, decided to host his own. It turns out that normie dinner party etiquette and sex party etiquette is the same: DO NOT SHOW UP ON TIME. What else happened at this party? Listen to After Action Report at Savage.Love to hear the details!

A bi-poly Aussie & his anchor partner call in to settle a debate: is said partner technically straight or queer? What are your thoughts? We'd also love to hear your burning questions and settle your household debates! Call at 206-302-2064 OR you can go to Savage.Love and record your message! 📞

I love Dan Savage and I love Savage Lovecast

Trump lies about the gay vote being in his favor, when all of the data would prove otherwise. But there are some gay folks that do support Trump, and according to an article in Gay Times, they are lonely. We've got ideas on just what to do with these folks on this Savage.Love/Lovecast.

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Why are young men taking hammers to their faces? 🔨 "Looksmaxxing". Why are young men "Looksmaxxing"? That's a more involved answer and we've got author and columnist Christine Emba on the Magnum edition of the show this week to talk to us about it. On tomorrow's Magnum Savage.Love/Lovecast

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Just had to share this gem of a voicemail about the polyamory discourse that we received this week. And to remind you that you too can leave us voice messages just like this via our website Savage.Love OR by calling us at (206)302-2064. Call us with your questions, thoughts, or responses!

After seeing Heated Rivalry, a married man and his wife are exploring anal sex. They are taking their sweet time, but he wonders how long they should expect it to take before it becomes comfortable for them both. (Who’s doing whom? He never says!) Hear our answer on this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast

More from our chat on polyamory with Natalie Davis, author "Saying Yes: My Adventures in Polyamory" and the editor of the online publication Polyamory Today. This time about the emotional labor involved when you add more partners to the mix. On the Magnum Edition of Savage.Love/Lovecast.

There's nothing "new" about ye olde conversation about micro-cheating. And now it rears its ugly head once again with a piece in The Atlantic claiming it as "The New Infidelity". It is not new. And it is not infidelity. Listen to the whole episode now at Savage.Love/Lovecast

Have you ever wanted to be a fly on the wall during a MMF threeway? Listen in as the F tells the tale. How did she set it up? What was it like when they first met and shook hands? Who did who and where? You’ll have to listen to this week's After Action Report at Savage.Love to find out!

Not the obituary I wanted to read today. people.com/chuck-norris...

This "micro-cheating" bullshit does more harm to monogamous relationships than a million poly memoirs ever could. (Also: If someone accuses you of "micro-cheating" and dumps you, they did you a favor.) www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...

Ladies, chime in! If you experience multiple-orgasms, are you keeping count? And if so, what is that count? Comment below if you're keeping score! And listen to this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast for our response.

Did you see Pillion? This caller was disturbed by the relationship between Colin and Ray in the film. What are your thoughts? 🔐 Hear Dan's response on this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast! And go see HUMP!

Always such a pleasure chatting with the marvellous @dansavage.bsky.social – check out the Savage Lovecast tomorrow for our conversation on all things kissing, kinks and much, much more! 💋

The poly discourse has been popping off lately due to the reaction to Lindy West's new memoir "Adult Braces", which outlines her journey into embracing a polyamorous relationship with her husband and his girlfriend. To hear the full audio on this topic, listen to this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast.

The burning question on everyone's mind: did we make out with Neanderthals? Evolutionary biologist Dr. Matilda Brindle returns to the Lovecast this week to chat about her research into the evolutionary function of kissing. This and more on the next Savage.Love/Lovecast out tomorrow!

What advice would you give to this caller who wonders if she is too wet for her boyfriend? Hear Dan's answer on episode #1007 of Savage.Love/Lovecast and while you're there submit your own question for Dan to answer in future episodes!

Yes! Even more Heated Rivalry! We brought back Matt Baume, author of “Hi Honey, I’m Homo!” to talk about the gratifyingly realistic nature of Ilya and Shane’s relationship, how gay characters in the 70s were usually murderers, and more! This is a Magnum subscriber bonus and it's out now!

Sharing another clip from our chat with trans comedian Hayden Johnson about being trans in standup comedy and delighting in the subversive. To listen to this full conversation grab a Magnum subscription to Savage.Love/Lovecast!

Who in Seattle remembers the S.L.U.T.? South Lake Union Trolley missed an opportunity when it rebranded as the South Lake Union Streetcar. Now @metrolosangeles is cashing in on their double entendre attire opportunity with "Ride The D" t-shirts! This and more on this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast!

Trans queer comedian Hayden Johnson is on the show this week and helped us answer a caller's question from a trans person struggling to find empathy for cis people. Hayden reminds us that we all suffer at the hands of misogyny in different ways. On this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast! Out tomorrow!

And by "unbothered" I mean "positively fucking delighted."

Seriously: If this piece of shit is allowed to be unbothered at the thought of our deaths then we're allowed to be unbothered at the thought of his. www.joemygod.com/2026/03/trum...

There is one US death I would shrug off. www.joemygod.com/2026/03/trum...

This couple had a CBD couples massage experience that they explain in great detail but the most delicious detail is that this was just one day in their pact to have sex EVERY DAY FOR ONE YEAR! Drop a donut emoji in the comments to cheer them on! 🍩 Listen to After Action Report at Savage.Love!

A cure for cottonmouth? This caller wonders if there's some kind of "mouth lube" to assist in these dry mouth moments. We've all been there and we'd love to hear your solutions to this dilemma in the comments! To hear Dan's response, listen to this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast! 👄 💦

One of my early editors at @thestranger.com has been awarded a fellowship at the Iowa Writers Workshop. Emily is raising money to help fund her relocation. Emily helped a lot of writers get their start in Seattle. Let's help Emily get a fresh start in Iowa. www.gofundme.com/f/emily-whit...

When people tell you who they are for the four hundred millionth time, believe them. www.nytimes.com/2026/03/05/u...