Obligatory "Happy Star Wars Day" post!

Summing up my ideal relationship style so eloquently. And I love the reply someone made about what our subs are doing: furniture. ;)

Get Down Make Love off the Sin EP.

Felt pretty tonight! Blame the post-beating glow thanks to @laser2sail.bsky.social

Dressage barn! Oh and a late night bar/restaurant with a southern hybrid menu. Not at the same address as the barn lol

Intense.

Small sub task: check your local TJMaxx for this Lisa Frank glitter nail polish topper (stars, hearts, etc) and send me any you can find!

Domme multitasking: several sweet subs toiled away on home repairs this afternoon while I got my hair done, as nature intended.

Mass folks call your reps. This is bad news for adults who use the net too, if you want to see our weird sites with privacy. www.wcvb.com/article/mass...

Trampling point of view, caught by tonight's lucky victim. Alt text ftw.

Happy Easter from my home to yours! Even @subtextualized.bsky.social gets to relax a bit. Bunny hood by @furrjoi.com

2026 dream goal: sub to sponsor a 3rd level dressage horse, so I can move on from the horse I'm leasing and get my bronze medal. I've learned a ton but she's quite senior and has been laid up more than rideable the last 6 mos.

Me and who?

@laser2sail.bsky.social the Hermes lock necklace matches perfectly! I love it!

As an anthropologist, I love conversations like this:

Friends who have @feturax.bsky.social hoods, how are you displaying them? My other hoods are on glass mannequin heads but it's too tricky to get the silicone on/off. Wooden wig stand seems too lightweight?

We are not evolved for this awfulness. Treat yourself with kindness.

Shenanigan-izing this weekend.

RIP Chuck Norris, thank you for all the laughter in World of Warcraft.

Thank you T. for the gift card - I don't have your email to say thanks directly!

My birthday is Monday the 23rd! www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/...

Happy St. Patrick's everyone! My favorite green throwback shot from @tommyophotos.bsky.social in the Dominican Republic.

Queerness.

I always use a lot of food analogies when I talk about kink, and I really love how this is worded.

5 Jobs I've Had: Researcher Bartender Mystery shopper Booth babe for gaming store Artist

Enjoyed some rubber gimp time with @ladyesnyslave.bsky.social tonight.

The right accessory makes all the difference. What's one piece you can't live without?

This means we are lucky enough to savor multiple decades of joy. <3

Westley says hi and he's tired of the snow!

Hope everyone is blizzarding safely. Is that a word? It should be.

I grew up in South Carolina and I miss country cooking! Country fried steak and sawmill gravy, cheese grits, crowder peas, candied yams, so many fun things.

Happy Year of the Horse!

This is delightful. We all could use a little joy right now.

It's been oddly fulfilling to see some of the academic luminaries whose social theories gave me the ick when I was working on my PhD turn out to be really slimy horrible people.

Excited to be returning to @fetishfactory.bsky.social for their anniversary party this May!

Dominants, if you can't control your own emotions, how are you going to control someone else?

Made it through surgery, currently resting and healing. Forgot to post this fabulous @feturax.bsky.social hood that arrived last week!

"Submission is not about being used, submission is about being of use. submission is not about what is done to you, submission is about what you do for others." - Unknown

Hope everyone is staying safe in the snow and has a good week! I'm having surgery Thursday so please send good vibes. If you want to send a get well gift, here's my wishlist: www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/...

Today I had a play partner describe electric CBT as "it feels like making love to lightning" and I think that's very poetic. <3

Seems important.

Boston latex dinner let's go!

Well my 2026 is off to a bang. Spent time visiting some kinky friends. What are your goals for the new year?

I'd suggest a Txakoli, and this is a delightful thread. (Fun fact: I was a bartender for years during college and grad school!)

I'm always down with a nerdy horse joke.

This is the kind of year end review I'm here for LOL

Merry Christmas everyone! Enjoying the day at Stratton with @ladyesnyslave.bsky.social & @subtextualized.bsky.social

Just treated myself to one of these for Xmas! Exciting!

Creative motivation from one of my heroes, Martha Graham.