I just donated to @leatherarchives.bsky.social as they seek to remodel their facility. It's a worthy kinky cause: leatherarchives.org/renovation/#...

Happy 4th y'all! Hope everyone is staying safe and cool.

Yeah fuck this "virtually normal" nonsense.

So true. We all have real lives outside of kink and every relationship is a unique building process.

Tshirt from The Chamber, the club in Atlanta where I discovered kink. It hangs in a shadowbox on my dungeon wall.

This is a really powerful mindset to remember. Each day is such a gift; do something that brings you joy.

It’s not hyperbole that part of what kept the queer liberation movement going in the Reagan era was the partying part of the “bury your friends in the morning, protest in the afternoon, and dance at night” schedule. Without joy there is no air left to fight

My pretty new dress from @laser2sail.bsky.social matches my medical room! Forgot to post this the other night.

Lmao

PSA: Bluesky's new auto-tagging moderation stuff is a disaster. Disable it. Go into Settings on the Bluesky site and enable adult content and set everything to Warn at most, which makes posts opt-in. Hide just vanishes posts. Then go into Advanced/Bluesky Mod Service and do the same on everything.

Ready for the pool!

Night three of @fetishfactory.bsky.social weekend!

Arrived in FL, whirlwind presto change-o, and out for the first night of @fetishfactory.bsky.social

Horse girl here, and this is important to everyone. It's not just tack shops being ransacked, it's every small maker that supplies them.

Trying to decide what to wear to Fetish Factory. RIP this police outfit, latex finally disintegrated.

Obligatory "Happy Star Wars Day" post!

Summing up my ideal relationship style so eloquently. And I love the reply someone made about what our subs are doing: furniture. ;)

Get Down Make Love off the Sin EP.

Felt pretty tonight! Blame the post-beating glow thanks to @laser2sail.bsky.social

Dressage barn! Oh and a late night bar/restaurant with a southern hybrid menu. Not at the same address as the barn lol

Intense.

Domme multitasking: several sweet subs toiled away on home repairs this afternoon while I got my hair done, as nature intended.

Mass folks call your reps. This is bad news for adults who use the net too, if you want to see our weird sites with privacy. www.wcvb.com/article/mass...

Trampling point of view, caught by tonight's lucky victim. Alt text ftw.

Happy Easter from my home to yours! Even @subtextualized.bsky.social gets to relax a bit. Bunny hood by @furrjoi.com

2026 dream goal: sub to sponsor a 3rd level dressage horse, so I can move on from the horse I'm leasing and get my bronze medal. I've learned a ton but she's quite senior and has been laid up more than rideable the last 6 mos.

Me and who?

@laser2sail.bsky.social the Hermes lock necklace matches perfectly! I love it!

As an anthropologist, I love conversations like this:

Friends who have @feturax.bsky.social hoods, how are you displaying them? My other hoods are on glass mannequin heads but it's too tricky to get the silicone on/off. Wooden wig stand seems too lightweight?

We are not evolved for this awfulness. Treat yourself with kindness.

Shenanigan-izing this weekend.

RIP Chuck Norris, thank you for all the laughter in World of Warcraft.

Thank you T. for the gift card - I don't have your email to say thanks directly!

My birthday is Monday the 23rd! www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/...

Happy St. Patrick's everyone! My favorite green throwback shot from @tommyophotos.bsky.social in the Dominican Republic.

Queerness.

I always use a lot of food analogies when I talk about kink, and I really love how this is worded.

5 Jobs I've Had: Researcher Bartender Mystery shopper Booth babe for gaming store Artist

Enjoyed some rubber gimp time with @ladyesnyslave.bsky.social tonight.

The right accessory makes all the difference. What's one piece you can't live without?

This means we are lucky enough to savor multiple decades of joy. <3

Westley says hi and he's tired of the snow!

Hope everyone is blizzarding safely. Is that a word? It should be.

I grew up in South Carolina and I miss country cooking! Country fried steak and sawmill gravy, cheese grits, crowder peas, candied yams, so many fun things.

Happy Year of the Horse!

This is delightful. We all could use a little joy right now.

It's been oddly fulfilling to see some of the academic luminaries whose social theories gave me the ick when I was working on my PhD turn out to be really slimy horrible people.

Excited to be returning to @fetishfactory.bsky.social for their anniversary party this May!

Dominants, if you can't control your own emotions, how are you going to control someone else?