I love this man so fucking much

Watching Heated Rivalry blow up and being in the fandom is bittersweet because it’s so fun but I’m also angry we never got that with OFMD. But I think that’s what makes this crew special is that WE did the marketing. WE made the merch. I wish we could have had more, but I love us what we’ve built ❤️

I also need to mention that this was all done while we were sorting through bins of banned books to see what we wanted to take home and saying how much we fucking hate I*E

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I went 3 whole days without talking about Heated Rivalry at work but I did today and ANOTHER GIRL GOT SO EXCITED AND SAID SHE LOVES IT AND NOW I HAVE A NEW WORK FRIEND

I love you, found family in my phone ❤️ First day was good! I didn’t talk about pirates or hockey players once! I did, however, very enthusiastically express my love for Chappell Roan. To a coworker not to a child lol

Getting it started early today because I Do Working™️ now! I love you, I’m thankful for you, you belong here, you matter 🫂 #TITT #AsACrew

No, listen. I’m going to be working with second graders, I REALLY cannot talk about the gay men I’m in love with 💀

Tomorrow is my first day at the new job and my first time working in 3 years. How am I supposed to not talk about the gay men I’m in love with all day?

TW: pet death Theo’s hamster passed away today. Helping an almost 8yo navigate grief has been filled with a lot of snuggles, validation that it is very sad to lose a pet, and checking in to see if he needs alone time or a hand to hold. It’s hard to see your baby be so sad 😭

The fact that she tagged me in That Thread when we weren’t even friends anymore!!! Like I had very clearly said “yeah I’m done”??? And I’m dealing with a terminally ill mother in a different country?????????? BE SO FUCKING FOR REAL. And now sneaking in as my moot again????? Fuck outta here

UGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH

Hi! My name is Hyperemesis Gravidarum but I also go by Clinical Depression 😬

Archie Says: #OFMD

What was the last movie or tv show you watched in 2025? Exactly zero people are surprised lol

Every NYE I remember this post that was going around at the end of 2019 that was like “in 2020 cinco de mayo is on taco Tuesday, Halloween is on a Saturday” etc, “2020 is going to be litty titty”. And then towards the end of 2020 there was a follow up: “2020 was, in fact, not litty titty”

Hello my loves! It’s the last Talk It Through Tuesday of 2025. I know this year has been a dumpster fire for a lot of us. I was thinking we could manifest a better 2026 by sharing pics/memories of good things that happened this year? I love you so much. I’m so thankful for you ❤️ #TITT #AsACrew

Hello my loves! It’s the last Talk It Through Tuesday of 2025. I know this year has been a dumpster fire for a lot of us. I was thinking we could manifest a better 2026 by sharing pics/memories of good things that happened this year? I love you so much. I’m so thankful for you ❤️ #TITT #AsACrew

Changing this to "please make an offer if it sparks joy and you want it" because it's just making me sad to have cats around and I want it to be somewhere it's loved 💖 Tags for the feeds: #stizzy #ofmd #ofmdart

Friends who are organized - particularly those with tidy homes - how do you do that? Where do you put your stuff? Where does your mail go? Our house is clean but not organized, you know? How do I organize?

Made some cool KPDH costumes Got a job 🥹

Also, we’ve really been giving time to them being Frog and Toad, but have we considered…

Hey. I love OFMD. I LOVE this community. A love like ours can’t disappear in an instant. We’re joined to one another. Intertwined ❤️

You came back Never left* *the cottage

Ok but 4 hours until we go to the cottage

Merry Christmas! Theo woke up at midnight and didn’t go back to bed until 3am, only to wake up and stay up at 5am. I need to mainline espresso. Also I love you all and I’m so thankful for you and this crew, and to be part of it ❤️🏴‍☠️

Ed has synesthesia where he can see sounds and music and Stede’s voice is the most beautiful thing he’s ever seen is this anything

EXPLAIN YOUR USERNAME ‘Spicy’: when my husband and I started dating my dad offered to bring food to his family gathering but it was always “spicy”. Like “spicy mashed potatoes”. So we’re the Spicy family! ‘Canuck’: NOT a sex thing (@sillygoosecocaine.bsky.social); it’s a nickname for Canadians 😂

Twas the night before the night before Christmas, and Talk It Through Tuesday. Blanket forts are abound; friends are not ok. I’m better at listening than I am at rhyming. My arms/ears are open, no matter the timing 🫂 #TITT #AsACrew

Twas the night before the night before Christmas, and Talk It Through Tuesday. Blanket forts are abound; friends are not ok. I’m better at listening than I am at rhyming. My arms/ears are open, no matter the timing 🫂 #TITT #AsACrew

My husband got this local honey from the farmers market that’s infused with orange Him: It’s called Orange Creamsicle! *we both take a taste* Him: Ooh it tastes like marmalade! Me: Yeah 🥹🥹🥹 it does 😭😭😭

For whatever reason, I chose a playlist that I don’t remember what was on it to listen to in the car. Some of the songs I haven’t heard for more than a decade, and it’s been bringing back memories of another life. There’s no point to this post, it’s just been a wild ride lol

Was no one going to tell me that HR ep 3 begins with that Wolf Parade song too?! SO SKIP BEGINS AND ENDS WITH THAT SONG?!?!

Sometimes a 3 word phrase can be 5 words instead. Like “You wear fine things well” Or “I’m coming to the cottage”

The most perfect thing I’ve ever seen in my LIFE

I used to do this all the time on the hellsite but I don’t think I’ve done this here yet, so: ME in this!!! 😤

So I got a job 🥹 (Yes I know I’m a 40yo stay at home mom and it sounds kind of pathetic but still!)

Shane Hollander autistic sports gay I would die for you

Hi darlings! Holiday cards have started arriving in the mail and it makes my heart happy. I love us and how we show up for each other. How can we keep showing up for each other through the holiday season? What small moments of joy can we share? I love you so much 🫂 #TITT #AsACrew

Hi darlings! Holiday cards have started arriving in the mail and it makes my heart happy. I love us and how we show up for each other. How can we keep showing up for each other through the holiday season? What small moments of joy can we share? I love you so much 🫂 #TITT #AsACrew

This whisper has had me in a chokehold for the last 25 years

Today feels like a really good day to watch The Princess Bride 💔

13 years ago today.

What actors facial expression in a tv show/movie will stay with you for the rest of your life?

A lesbian-protagonist sci-fi show is the most-watched Apple TV+ series of all time. A gay hockey romance is #1 on HBO Max. And a gay detective movie is #1 on Netflix. 🏳️‍🌈 Sounds like the woke and ghey stuff has an audience. #ourflagmeansdeath season 3 lets go.

My entire feed is just gorgeous art right now. I love that this fandom still continues to make such beautiful things, and love so fiercely ❤️

Long may ye sail 🫡💜

10 years ago today Mr Emma and I got engaged 🥹 He’s the Blackbeard to my Gentleman Pirate and I love him so much

Sometimes you gotta get gussied up on a Wednesday evening with a friend, yk? 😘