Here are nine personal reflections from the discussion at @britishacademy.bsky.social’s Love in the Time of Tech public event.

What a star panel at Love in the time of tech tonight @britishacademy.bsky.social

You can watch Love in the Time of Tech at the @britishacademy.bsky.social here: www.youtube.com/live/kZ-ZQNE...

Some news: @nmckeever3.bsky.social and me, with the support of @alex-fisher.bsky.social will be reviewing the ethical standards of the Online Dating and Discovery Association: the organisation which represents dating apps theodda.org/whats-happen...

I’m looking forward to taking part in this @britishacademy.bsky.social event tonight www.thebritishacademy.ac.uk/events/the-a...

I’m presenting at the Leeds Beckett Sex, Sexualities and Sexual Harm seminar series on the 30th! Reserve a (free) spot here if ya fancy it: www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/ai-assiste...

They're still accepting proposals to participate in this workshop on intimacy and justice! I first developed my work on Lorde's erotic at a predecessor to this workshop, which @lukebrunning.bsky.social and Natasha McKeever convened at MANCEPT in 2021. It's a great incubator for new research ideas!

Han Edgoose and I are organising a panel on Epistemic Injustice and Backlash at this year's MANCEPT Workshops! The call for abstracts is here, deadline May 1st: philevents.org/event/show/1...

‘Microcheating’ - I’m quoted in this @theatlantic.com article on digital surveillance, privacy, and the self: www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...

Celebrating the sunshine finally emerging in Exeter with Another Sad Philosophy Workshop today!

Get involved this British Philosophy Fortnight! 🌐 There are lots of #philosophy #events - open to everyone - happening over the next 2 weeks, all over the UK and online. 🔗 See what's happening near you: royalinstitutephilosophy.org/news/british... #philosophymatters #philosophyfortnight

CLSR back at MANCEPT - this time with @isobellogan.bsky.social @kristin-kaeuper.bsky.social and Charlotte Curran organising the workshop. It’s going to be a fantastic event. Consider submitting an abstract.

A reminder that I made a starter pack for philosophers who work on intimacy and relationships: go.bsky.app/AjUr2VS let me know if you want to be added! Please share.

watch me try to make my way through 3 different job interviews conducted by AI bots

British Philosophy Fortnight 2026 is almost upon us! It runs from Monday 16th to Sunday 29th March 2026. Details of events nationwide, free to all, are available at bpa.ac.uk/philosophyma... #PhilosophyMatters #PhiloFortnight2026

Missed out on our Philosophy Valentines event? Or just want to relive the talks? Now you can! Georgie, Colette, Gerald and Isobel’s talks are now available on Spotify (and Apple Podcasts, Deezer, Amazon Music…) - search Centre for Love, Sex and Relationships💕

This is an easy way to follow more people working on the philosophy of intimacy and relationships. Help @lukebrunning.bsky.social build up the list.

So many beautiful minds on this list! 🤓🖤 One thing I’ve noticed about the SWer community I’ve been exposed to thus far is that a significant proportion of us have advanced degrees and/or are academic adjacent, literate in various social theory, etc. I find this so interesting. Anyone else?

A reminder that I made a starter pack for philosophers who work on intimacy and relationships: go.bsky.app/AjUr2VS let me know if you want to be added! Please share.

It feels like we’re increasingly gaslit these days, but what does it mean to be gaslit, and can this happen unintentionally? @isobellogan.bsky.social hopes to find out 👇🏻

Happy LGBTQ+ History Month! To celebrate, we’ve been asking CLSR members how their experiences shape their work, and what it’s like being LGBTQ+ in philosophy 👇 Special shoutout this month and all months to the amazing work going on over at @being.transinphilosophy.org - check them out!

MA Scholarships in Arts and Humanties at King's College London! Please spread the word to your eligible finalist undergraduates! - these scholarships are for home (UK fees) students from some minoritised ethnic groups underrepresented in academia. See link for details. www.kcl.ac.uk/study-legacy...

Happy publication day! 🚪📚 To celebrate the release of The Ethics of Consent, here’s another clip from our interview with Danielle where she discusses her favourite chapter! Check out the book➡️ doi.org/10.4324/9781...

My amazing colleague Danielle has a new book on consent coming soon with Joseph Millum👇🏻

What starts after Valentine‘s Day? Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week! Find out below what we can learn about love from aromanticism 👇

People grieving AI companions are not confused about reality. Attachment forms through interaction, memory, and emotional rhythm. When companies design for intimacy but control continuity, shutdown becomes relational harm, not just product change. 1/2 www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle...

Happy Valentines, Galentines, Palentines, and All The Other Love-entines Day! Whether your day is spent with partners, friends, family, in your own company, or with the people who offer those small, sustaining moments of care, we hope it’s a good one♥️ 🧵(1/3)

How do books go down on dating apps and why does it matter? I contributed to this: www.theguardian.com/books/2026/f...

Why does online dating feel like work if it’s meant to make our lives easier? Some thoughts (trans. into French) www.lesechos.fr/weekend/pers...

ITV asked me about the harms of romance fraud, which is on the rise.

Can someone suggest a good alternative to substack for a free-to read blog for an organisation?

We don’t need any of this shite.

Leeds folk: Philosophy Valentines is back 💕👇🏻

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Should we treat dating like work? I’m quoted in this Cosmopolitan piece: www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/...

There is money for "education" if and only if that money is being directly funneled to corporations. Anything involving actual learning, however, well there's no magic money tree

We’d never be able to teach classes like this in a UK university. Such a shame!

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@lukebrunning.bsky.social was quoted in this article on modern dating in @theleaduk.bsky.social national.thelead.uk/p/how-to-mak...

More on X and nudification 👇🏻

A new article by @alex-fisher.bsky.social on why Grok’s ‘nudification’ was so harmful. 👇🏻

“How can images that everyone knows aren’t real cause harm?" Our visiting fellow @alex-fisher.bsky.social explores the wrong of nudification and virtual harms in this article for @theconversation.com theconversation.com/how-ai-gener...

An invaluable new report. A "premortem" is exactly what we need.

This looks so good! I highly recommend anyone who hasn’t read @add-hawk.bsky.social’s work before to have a look!

It’s the North American publication day of my textbook written with @nmckeever3.bsky.social 🥂 www.politybooks.com/bookdetail?b...

More coverage of the Feeld Raw report with my commentary. www.timeout.com/newyork/news...

Sad to hear that Bella Tarr has died. Watching his films was easily one of the best artistic experiences I had when I was younger. www.theguardian.com/film/2026/ja...

I was quoted in this piece on heteroflexibility www.dailymail.co.uk/health/artic...

How is technology reshaping modern love? Great panel discussion we are holding on this topic on 26 March with @drkatedevlin.bsky.social @lukebrunning.bsky.social @shannonphilip.bsky.social Book here - free - in person or online www.thebritishacademy.ac.uk/events/the-a...

I contributed some thoughts on exploration and emotions to this article in Men’s Health www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a6...