Love the poster 🫶🏿 It’s easy to feel forgotten💔 Would love if you could extend the support 🥺🔽

If you’re a Latino man and can cook like your mama you’re already 1,000% better than any American “alpha man”

Idaho thanks you...

"I am a human, not a martyr" My message for today's #TransDayofVisibility march in Chicago. I have no regrets about transitioning and will not be silent Follow @beyondxandy.bsky.social for future updates about my org that is going to defend trans rights with science Stay tuned for April 25 👀🏳️‍⚧️🧬

Chicago trans rights rally

A friend back in the 90s, we’ll call him Mark, used to give out a fake number instead of saying no. The same number. For like 5 years. One night we got drunk and called it. Someone answered and he said “Hey! This is Mark, do I have any messages?” And the person said “Dude! WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU??”

If the Noem’s had any gay friends at all his nipples wouldn’t be pointing in opposite directions.

The last space launch I watched was challenger. Watching Artemis now. Science be with the astronauts

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Today is Trans Day of Visibility. To reiterate, I stand with our trans fam, I’ll defend and support them to the end. There is no LGB without the T. If you disagree you know where to go, away from me.

We can ban abortion. We can ban gender affirming care. We can’t ban conversion therapy. This fucking country.

Okay.

FYI, I’m not in Atlanta, I’m not on Bumble, my name isn’t Yusuf. I am however 44. I’ll take no further questions on that matter. 🙃

If ya made it to No Kings today thank you! And if you didn’t I know you’re there in spirit. Regardless, our work isn’t done. Next weekend in Chicago is the Rally for Trans Visibility. 3 years ago there were about 40 of us. Last year there was close to 5,000. To me, the Trans Rally is more urgent.

No fucking Kings.

Celebrating the 250th anniversary of the United States with the dumbest, most corrupt president ever in power is a bit like celebrating a wedding anniversary after your spouse murdered all your children and drained your bank accounts.

Darkrooms are making a comeback in bars and parties. They can be intimidating. 5 tips for first-timers:

Watching “Jurassic World Rebirth” and it’s like none of the characters learned anything about how to survive frome the previous 25 movies. I find myself happy they get eaten for being so stupid. Im

If you desire monogamy good for you! I respect your decision. Just don’t blame non monogamists for shrinking the dating pool. Non monogamists don’t want to date monogamists. Even if you’re both single you’re not in their dating pool.

No matter where I’ve lived I’ve never heard non monogamous people blame monogamous people for their lack of dating options.

As gays/queers we’ve already broken away from the social construct, holding onto the rest and judging others who don’t is part of the construct and rooted in shame, misogyny and homophobia.

Imagine you’re living in Chicago and vocally upset that dating as a gay man is impossible because of all the people in open relationships.

Season 7 episode 1 of Black Mirror is amazing. And waaaaaay to close to current reality.

See yall Saturday!!!!

Guys! I made my first ever app and it’s for tracking your loads! Plus there’s a timer page for your important timers that you might need on a fun night out :) it’s free to download and use with a pro subscription for the fancier features. Link in the replies. Check it out and lmk what you think!

A friend of mine made an app. It counts loads given and/or received and includes a timer.

Is there any better feeling than a boy falling asleep in your arms because he feels safe and loved ? 🥰🥰😍😍😍🥹🥹

When I was about 22 a much more successful man than me said “I don’t care about being rich, all I want to be able to do is say ‘fuck you!’ or ‘hey, let me buy you a drink!’ to anyone I meet”. Comparison is the thief of joy. Enjoy life.

This one’s for Thomas 👊🏼 Slick & Shiny is our memorial play party honoring MAFIA board member and beloved community member Thomas Bowers (@drexrub.bsky.social). Rubber, gimp, and drone gear warmly encouraged as a tribute but never required. Whether you knew him or not you’re welcome here.

Cock rings and gym shorts

Shorter?

In bed by midnight with the sounds of Boystown calamity outside my window. I may be getting older.

“Chin up beautiful, you’re not struggling, you’re in the midst of conquering.”

I was already crying most of the episode. IGRA/TGRA was a utopia for me for years. It was familiar like the community I grew up in, but it was the loving, free experience I never had growing up.

Derrick Carter Boiler room at Smartbar. Crazy that as Chicagoans we’re so spoiled that we take him for granted. Legendary founder of House in our backyard, spinning weekly and we see him on the number 8.

Seeing one of the boys in the wild or posting pics wearing a collar I gave them is one of the best feelings I could ever enjoy. I don’t have bio kids, I have men that chose me (ME!!!). I can’t compare the two but I can’t imagine the feeling is different.

Summer vibes in Chicago

Chuck Norris was rabidly and vocally anti-gay. He also endorsed Roy Moore, child predator, for senate.

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I’ve mentored so many amazing people in my life I’ve lost count. One of questions many often ask me is “why/how do/did you put up with them/me? What do you get out of it?” The answer is simplistic and obvious; first, community and obligation; we are all we have, as we witness now, allies leave us.

I’ve probably said this before but I just messaged this to a friend and copy and paste is a time saver and I hate wasting an opportunity. We live in the middle of Boystown, heart of the action, middle of the shit. It’s been both a blessing and a curse.

Will @sidetrackbar.bsky.social let me in with my shellelagh? It’s my culture!

My million dollar idea. Me and a buddy want to make a grindr photo kit. Coke cans. Remote controls. Coins. Etc. all 1/4 scale. 😂

I never fear a tough talker. I fear the silent one. They’re dangerous. They’re in complete control and 3 steps ahead of everyone in the room.

It’s so cute to me when I meet a hot guy and we hit it off then he gets insecure about telling me he does SW in the form of escorting. Personally, when I was in my youth, had we had PrEP, U=U and the internet I would have had a rent men, an OF, JFF and I’d be selling hole and pole on the corner