A friend is a photographer and has made a book of all the pics he’s taken at Hollywood gay beach. It’s really great. www.alexking.com/shop/speedos...

When in Chicago… got to chat with THEE @chicagodomdaddy.bsky.social

One of my collared boys sent this to me this week. It’s important to set the right standards for ourselves. “A friend was getting involved with a “sir” who wanted contracts and was making certain demands that gave me the serious ick.

Nowadays I tell people if I ever have a giant pile of fuck you money I would have beautiful men walk around shirtless but no one is allowed to touch them. Like people have Rembrandts and Renoirs I would just have beautiful people walk around like art. I already have some candidates in mind. 😍😍😍

Happy 4th of July! 🎆🎇🇺🇸🎇🎆 #thk #thong #malethong #soles #malesoles #malefeet #feet #bubblebutt #meninthongs

I met my gay dads , Dick & AL, when I was young. Dick often said when he died he wanted to be cremated, mixed with clay and turned into a pot to grow yellow coreopsis. He passed about 16 years ago and Al fulfilled his wishes. I can’t keep a plant alive so he sits in front of my sling to see the fun

Tonight’s game was simply more proof that anything that man touches turns to shit.

Once again, before you head out to your BBQ's and pool parties and fireworks shows take a moment to remember and be thankful to all the brave men and women like Bill Pullman, Will Smith and Jeff Goldblum who saved us from those stinkin aliens 30 years ago...

It’s summer. Are you a Dom or just an asshole who likes belittling people and violence?

Bathroom lighting

¡Viva México! 🇲🇽

Cape Verde surprised the world but no one more than Argentina and maybe themselves.

Based on MAGAs reaction to his appeal for conserving energy Mamdani needs to publicly ask New Yorkers to not shit their pants.

July 3, 1981 In the past 45 years over 300,000 gay men have died from complications of HIV in the US alone. Currently there are roughly 32,000 new HIV cases per year.

Watched IG stories from about a dozen people in Madrid for Pride and it made me tired. Nothing confirms the fact I’m over the parties more than getting tired from watching people attending them. God speed circuit queens, god speed and have all the fun.

I’m Queer. I may not present as such but to me, gay is a mirror image of straight. And my life is unfathomable to straight people and most gay people. If you’re gay that’s great. I celebrate you with me. But I’ll never back down or abandon my queer fam. LGB without the Q or T is failure.

Crop tops and soft cocks? Is that a thing? 😜

Every commission begins with a voice 🎙️ We are so excited to announce our partnership with playOUT! to support TGNC youth in the arts! 🎶 #LGBTQArts #QueerArts #NewMusic #ClassicalMusic #AmplifyQueerVoices #ChicagoArts #ComingSoon

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Happy #ThirstyThursday

Golden hour

At Hollywood Beach and there’s tiddies and lifeguards everywhere and no one is screaming like a Karen. Imagine that.

Costco realky going all out for pride

I use IG and LinkedIn to do a vibe check on all the dads my boys get involved with. If we don’t have several solid mutuals I personally know or connects on LinkedIn with either me or a couple of my daddy friends it’s a giant red flag. This has never been wrong.

Pride parade Sunday is such a shitshow in Boystown. It’s chaotic, queer, liberating and beautiful. But living smack dab in the middle of it all means nothing is easy. It’s 12:30am, the parade ended 13 hours ago and it’s still insane. Cops are everywhere, streets closed and you can’t go anywhere easy

Your two mandatory reads for Pride month

I’m an old queer who grew up in San Francisco whose mom told me about hiv in 1978 before even the CDC knew. I watched her bury all her friends and then when I got older I buried a lot of mine. I’ve battled cops, gay bashers, AIDS and our own government for 40 years.

I live 💯 by the rule “If two bottoms can’t have amazing sex without fucking I don’t want to have sex with either of them” Penetrive sex is only one of untold kinds of sex possible. If that’s all ya want good for you, but imho, you’re really missing out and probably not very good at it.

If someone reaches out to you simply plainly and without expectation, and asks if you’d like advice or guidance kn BDSM,D/s,FFun players anything else leave the door open. None of us are perfect and we all learn from each other. I’m not perfect nor am I am who I am though luck

New favorite screen name on Grindr, “Breeders Digest” 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀 And the man had a great sense of humor too. Plus he’s hot. 😈😘

Having fun with a boy and he wants porn on tv so I tie into the server and play something. The problem with living a long sexual life, and having friends who work or have worked in the industry, is anything I put on post 2010 someone I know pops up. Tonight, 7 or 8 of my best friends all at once.

Tonight I crossed two profiles that stated “Don’t send pics of your junk sitting on the toilet”. WTF Apparently this is such an epidemic that people now have to tell others this? Apparently so! One guy said he gets them all the time. 🤮🤮 Please just stop. Stop it. Just stop. Stop. No. Good lord.

Update. We had the talk. It’s on its way. New boy. Happy dad.

I usually get a few “Happy Father’s Day” messages from some of the boys in closest too. This one was no exception. One that really surprised me was a boy who I adore I met on twitter several years ago, who I’ve tweeted about a mind blowing 3 way I helped set up for him when he was in town.

The 1st of 2 Pride weekends wrapped up nicely. We have 2 weekends of Pride in Chicago. Saturday was chaotic. Sunday was recovery because it rained. Today I linked with a long time twitter crush who’s brand is BJs and went to town on his 🍆. He was very impressed with my skills so I’m a happy dad.

During game night at @casamaxxx.bsky.social, I snuck away with this 6’7” uncut stud so he could piss on me. 🤤 Full video on JustForFans

So much can be said with a look and a little embrace. Love @hardyboybound.bsky.social and @knotnuts.bsky.social out of my mind

Saw a suuuuper sexy short cute asf Latino boy at Pridefest today. Cute jeans, red football jersey cut into a crop top, silver shades and ball cap. Cutest part was the red hanky tied to his belt loop on the right. Couldn’t get myself to say hi and explain what it means, let him be blissfully unaware

Happy Chicago Pridefest!

Probably 7 years ago I met a super hung guy on Twitter. 6’3”, 200, 10”. We chatted and became internet friends. He was in Chicago and we chatted often. As time went on he hit some hard times, became unhoused and jumped job to job. I helped him. Out here and there and a few times he slept

When I was in my 20s and 30s in the 80’s, 90’s and 00’s Pride was very important to me. I had been closeted and moved from SF to Boise to PHX and being out and gay was a political statement and a giant fuck you to everyone who tried to tell me I was the downfall of society. I anticipated it.

And remind your friends over 40 who are on meds (including PrEP) to seriously consider a low dose statin. Meds/PrEP will raise your cholesterol. Lost a healthy and active mid-50s friend last year to a heart attack that shouldn’t have happened, and know others having heart attacks and strokes.

It’s been years since I’ve asked anyone about their status, and just as long since anyone has asked about mine. PrEP and U=U have been life changing for me and life saving for millions of others. Tbh, I have no clue how I survived, dumb fucking luck and precautions when I was sober.

Just butt

This Diva murdered it for the gays and the straights at Midsommar Fest

Amazing Midsommar Fest this year ❤️❤️❤️

"The best thing you can do is work on your personality because we're all gonna get ugly." George O'Dowd “Boy George” BornThisDay – June 14, 1961