Just walked by a dozen dolls smoking outside a bar 🥹 Moments like these, I wish I had a way to signal that I'm trans too and not yet another bearded Andersonville cis gay

The last two days I cooked for several of our friends. Beef bourguinon for nine hungry bears on Christmas Eve followed by Tron on the pit couch. Then Korean pork chops for 5 hungry bears on Christmas followed by an invasion of 4 more bears for a mini Kiki.

The energy I’m bringing to 2026. George Michael, gone too soon 9 years ago today. Rest easy Queen of Kings!

Oh look! @lewissurvreal.bsky.social is in Chicago and hittin on me on grindr! 😂😂😂

Only a few more days of pseudoChristians pretending they’re being victimized by the words “happy holidays”.Then we’ll go back to them pretending they’re being victimized by immigrants, brown/black people, trans/gay people, Muslims, atheists and whatever the right wing outrage propaganda machine says

Ho ho heaux

Merry Christmas to all the freaks, outcasts, misfits, those that choose to be alone, those who don’t, the awkward, the ones who think they will never fit in, those who don’t want to fit in, the brave who are their true selves every day, the sluts, the pigs, the cum whores,

Was that gunshots or fireworks?

12 years ago I said goodbye to back talk, dish towels in the yard, sass, wet furniture, obstinance and wake up calls via licks and sighs. She pissed me off non stop and forced me to love her. Miss ya Cleo.

Boy brought me a Christmas gift today and gave me way more compliments than I deserve. Kinda made me get misty tbh. I’ll dunno if I’ll ever get comfortable being the person some people tell me I am to them. I keep looking for the adult. Grateful for the fact that who I am means something.

This is a FANTASTIC thread and worth the read This is a lot of what I hoped to explain in my book, but with less academic language so it's more accessible to someone who knows nothing about evolution And also gave me a lot to mull over Thank you @inanna-nalytica.bsky.social !

🎶 It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas 🎵

New topic for Christmas dinner with your racist uncle: So how bout them Epstein Files?!???

Had such a great conversation with DC Boy this morning. Somehow, even after nearly 6 years, we are even more sure of each other than ever. 2025 was a seminal year for him, and for me enjoying his journey and my small part of it. Polyamory is a lot of work, communication and self awareness.

From now on, If you’re in a queer space and someone plays Nicki Minaj it’s your solemn obligation to boo loudly as you can for as long as you can, and encourage everyone else to join, until the said offensive maga dung is removed from the playlist.

How much more evidence do we need that Trump has raped scores of adult women and underaged girls? On top of all the other laws he's broken and war crimes he's committed Impeach and imprison this monster already

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Little retro RDR2 tonight.

to add to the Jake Paul schadenfreude, Andrew Tate also lost a fight to some reality TV influencer. most analysis of the fight I've read described his opponent as deeply untalented but Andrew lost anyway. Tate's endurance was awful and he was gassed after the first round.

Rules for 2026: Call who calls you. Visit who visits you. Ignore who ignores you.

simply having a wonderful Christmas time

Making this my screensaver. Always punch Nazis.

I’ll never understand this. I watched 90% of the generation before me die horrible useless deaths. And 50% of my generation. I lost people I loved more than my blood family. And I watched them die over years, not months or days. To treat aids as a fetish is abhorrent.

Does Charlie’s Chicago put fake snow inside the entirety of the bar like the flagship Charlie’s Phoenix? “I hate the snow at Charlie's i feel like a cat in water" -Hunter Phoenix

The way @thatyogafvcker.bsky.social moans as he unloads inside me 🤤 wanna see me return the favor? 😈

I never knew or even really knew of Blake Mitchell/Lane Rogers. I can’t say I’ve ever even seen his work. But the enormous outpouring of praise, grief and loss by literally dozens and dozens of amazing humans I know personally really tells me he must’ve really been an amazing human aside from looks

Just to own the conservatives; Happy holidays, Merry Christmas, Happy Kwanza, Solemn Ramadan, Happy Hanukkah, Peaceful Solstice, and to my Jehovah witness friends “Knock Knock”

The look on the man’s face kills me.

Put your $1776 military check with your $5000 DOGE check, your $5000 had a baby check and your $2000 tariff check.

OPINION Community archives are the antidote to the erasure of LGBTQ+ history This month, President Trump chose to opt out of acknowledging World AIDS Day. It’s the first time the U.S. has not participated since the World Health Organization created this day in 1988 to raise awareness on HIV/AIDS…

The Epstein files come out Friday. We’re going to war with Venezuela Thursday.

Downtown for an appointment and I made the receptionist laugh so hard she validated my parking for 7 hours. Would have been $60 otherwise. Pays to be kind. And funny.

I woke up during a dream of ordering two orange Fanta slushies on Uber Eats. And now I’m searching for where to get one.

DC Boy Tyler taught me this. I use this level set with every new friend/FB/FWB/Boy/Possible Boy and tbh every professional relationship as well. Highly reccomend 10/10

If ya wanna see what I started as, and how I’ve grown over the last nearly 60 years, head over to my IG. I just posted a reel of myself from age 3 to age 58. Please share your thoughts

The confidence I see in Gen Z and baby gays is astounding to me. So many present as they know who tf they are. My generation didn’t have that. I’m envious. I know from interactions many of them present pure confidence yet still struggle inside, normal, and their presentation is stronger than ours

He’s looking so sick. Bandages on his hands, passing out in meetings. Unable to complete a coherent thought. I’ve procured a magnum of Veueve, two bottles of prosecco and another bottle of veuve. When it’s announced meet me at Roscoe and Halsted, party like it’s 1999.

One thing that should be absolutely clear; The younger gay generations “take what they hav for granted” the same way straights “take thier privilege for granted”. Because it’s never been threatened. AS IT IS FUCKING SUPPOSED TO BE. I will never accuse or judge gaybys for “taking things for granted”

One of my favourite movies, and the final scene still moves me every time. 😭 I’d strongly recommend it if you haven’t seen it before.

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Watched Longtime Companion with one of my boys. It was a seminal movie during the AIDS crisis, the first studio movie to address AIDS with many actors who would go onto be very famous. I forgot how much this movie absolutely crushes me. The final scene reminded me of how grateful I am for today

I compliment people a lot. Especially queers, we’re not used to being complimented. Several years ago I complimented Titan and I saw him shrink and not know how to react. I simply said “When someone compliments you just smile and say thank you”. Most of us don’t know what to do with a compliment.

CVS is ceasing to fill HIV meds and Prep. Call your local pharmacy and check your supply. And share tf out of this. Look out for each other

This is now a food porn account. I made lunch.

Chatting with one of my oldest friends about a drunken trip to Vegas in the 90s. We were giant messes. I went around the bar asking guys if they thought my friend was cute and when they said yes I told them he thought they were cute but was shy and to talk to him. He shot them ALL down. 😂

In Chicago, Boystown/Northalsted we not only have rainbow crosswalks, we have the Legacy Project which honors queer pioneers in history, we have flags flying, we have murals and much more celebrating queer culture. All paid for privately and installed in cooperation with and approved by the City.