95. Behind the Scenes at Aetas Deae: A 10-Day Immersion in Femdom, Ritual Kink & Creative Sisterhood Behind the Scenes with a Group of Dominaitrixes at the Inauguration of Aetas Deae, an intentional space for ritual kink and female domination

Twitter won't be reinstating me...so Bluesky, you're stuck with me 😅 I'm a bit deflated, but life goes on. There's no better time to show me you care ❤️ throne.com/shae-ashbury

I’ve published my first longform piece on Substack, and I’d love if you’d give it a read. It contemplates the endless creativity of our community across time, and the current wave of censorship we’re facing. substack.com/@melodyuncha...

95. Behind the Scenes at Aetas Deae: A 10-Day Immersion in Femdom, Ritual Kink & Creative Sisterhood Behind the Scenes with a Group of Dominaitrixes at the Inauguration of Aetas Deae, an intentional space for ritual kink and female domination

93. The Men I Choose: Desire, Power, and the Divine Masculine Submission isn’t weakness—it’s sacred surrender. A dominatrix reflects on men, desire, and the Divine Masculine.

such beauty and power 🙇‍♀️

This could be you

My dear puppies and kittens have told me they crave something deeper, longer lasting. A sense of total submission. This trust I regard as sacred. I have begun blending lifestyle D/s, FLR, with my other practices. Read on to learn how you can enter…

"Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use."~ Emily Post

Over the coming months I and a few of my most cherished and trusted colleagues will be hosting special retreats and experiences which blend wellness, meditative practices, coaching, and kink….

…individual attention is guaranteed as the ratio of dommes to puppies and kittens will be at minimum one of us for each of you…

…these are luxury experiences which assume an ongoing commitment to community…lifestyle. The matriarchy is here for those ready to live in it…

…first up, an alpine adventure in the Italian Alps. Late Feb/early March. A weekend in the snow. Enquiries for the committed only…

My dear puppies and kittens have told me they crave something deeper, longer lasting. A sense of total submission. This trust I regard as sacred. I have begun blending lifestyle D/s, FLR, with my other practices. Read on to learn how you can enter…

Philosophy of life in a biscuit

It’s that time of year again. Only this time with my domme sisters and a lucky few subs. Will you be one of them? DM to enquire about joining an intimate group of Goddesses for a luxury ski holiday. February. Italian Alps. DM with genuine interest

The view from my window and the smells in my kitchen. Good day I’d say

December availability: 4 Dec London morning, 2 hours 5 Dec London, all day 3+ poss overnight 8 Dec-10 Dec Milan 12 Dec-23 Dec FMTY Europe 25/26 Dec Palermo, 2 hour sessions only

Find more of Jaeleen Bennis and Eve Minax' @CEOBondassage here: kinkyliterature.com/book/599-bon...

December availability: 4 Dec London morning, 2 hours 5 Dec London, all day 3+ poss overnight 8 Dec-10 Dec Milan 12 Dec-23 Dec FMTY Europe 25/26 Dec Palermo, 2 hour sessions only

December is shaping up to be a very busy month for Me! A dockets of fun sessions, some travel and a few art projects. I have scant availability, reach out now or see ya next year!

Lick first, ask questions later. #femdom #ritualkink #totalsubmission #existentialkink #kinkygfe

Getting some religion may not mean going to church. With a squad of baddies on the prowl. Photo by Mary the First @maryshousewhxre.bsky.social #dominatrixmilan #dominatrixitaly #wrestlingdomme #femdom #ritualkink

Sometimes I wonder if food is better than sex

What you see before I wrap these hands around something else

Please, it’s November, it’s 3 degrees outside and it’s dark by 4pm. I’m too tired and lazy for last minute bookings, so please plan ahead. It takes a lot of mental preparation to be hot and amusing at this time. Thanks 💋

What makes a woman truly unattainable? In my new post, I explore the Trophy Wife as a feminine archetype — not an ornament, but a mirror that reveals the calibre of the man beside her. A dominatrix is the sun men grow toward, the light they cannot possess… only rise to meet. Read the essay.

93. The Men I Choose: Desire, Power, and the Divine Masculine Submission isn’t weakness—it’s sacred surrender. A dominatrix reflects on men, desire, and the Divine Masculine.

6. What I love about Adult Babies and Age Play In the controversial world of the Adult Baby I find my kindest, gentlest, and sweetest clients.

Italy in the Fall

My job is to make men squirm. They love it. It’s the natural order. #aetasdeae #flr #crushthepatriarchy

Thoughts on cementing the bond of chastity between a devotee and his Mistress https://mxvalentina.com/2025/05/04/the-covenant-of-chaste-devotion/

9. Who is drawn to serve me Submission is a sign of strength, courage, and a willingness to let go of shame. These are the characteristics of a good client. One who understands how the power of the erotic can be used to transform life.

88. Beyond the Nursery: The Art of Real Regression Exploring the healing potential of age play and adult regression within Ritual Kink. A compassionate look at how safe, consent-based regression rituals transform vulnerability into trust, acceptance, and wholeness.

Find more of Jaeleen Bennis and Eve Minax' @CEOBondassage here: kinkyliterature.com/book/599-bon...

Stepping into rope as a bottom taught me how to hold others with precision, presence, and power. Every tie I offer now comes from lived experience — in the body, not in theory. If you want a Dominant who knows the territory from both… https://mxvalentina.com/2024/12/19/rope-bottom-taught-me-to-top/

💉 Doctor's Orders 💉

🩸See, when you're gone, I'll still be Bloody Mary🩸

What makes a woman truly unattainable? In my new post, I explore the Trophy Wife as a feminine archetype — not an ornament, but a mirror that reveals the calibre of the man beside her. A dominatrix is the sun men grow toward, the light they cannot possess… only rise to meet. Read the essay.

88. Beyond the Nursery: The Art of Real Regression Exploring the healing potential of age play and adult regression within Ritual Kink. A compassionate look at how safe, consent-based regression rituals transform vulnerability into trust, acceptance, and wholeness.

93. The Men I Choose: Desire, Power, and the Divine Masculine Submission isn’t weakness—it’s sacred surrender. A dominatrix reflects on men, desire, and the Divine Masculine.

Stepping into rope as a bottom taught me how to hold others with precision, presence, and power. Every tie I offer now comes from lived experience — in the body, not in theory. If you want a Dominant who knows the territory from both… https://mxvalentina.com/2024/12/19/rope-bottom-taught-me-to-top/

Stepping into rope as a bottom taught me how to hold others with precision, presence, and power. Every tie I offer now comes from lived experience — in the body, not in theory. If you want a Dominant who knows the territory from both… https://mxvalentina.com/2024/12/19/rope-bottom-taught-me-to-top/

9. Who is drawn to serve me Submission is a sign of strength, courage, and a willingness to let go of shame. These are the characteristics of a good client. One who understands how the power of the erotic can be used to transform life.

The Power of Being a Face-Out Dominatrix. Why authenticity deepens the surrender you feel in my hands. A face-out Dominatrix offering embodied dominance, somatic depth, and real authority. Discover why truth makes surrender irresistible.

A story of power, identity, and erotic transformation. Step into my world and discover why people across genders come to explore themselves with me.

A story of power, identity, and erotic transformation. Step into my world and discover why people across genders come to explore themselves with me.

Thoughts on cementing the bond of chastity between a devotee and his Mistress https://mxvalentina.com/2025/05/04/the-covenant-of-chaste-devotion/

First Frost