not all hotlines are created equal. some involve the police, and some don’t. some respect your choices and some don’t. Trans Lifeline is one example of a peer-led, consent-based option. you have options. do some research and use what works for you.

Being a physical media artist is so insane sometimes. Like, what do you mean I spent weeks on a commissioned painting meticulously drawing cat fur with 0.7mm acrylic markers?

📯 *fanfare noises* 🎺 After a lengthy break for Life Things, I have returned to the internet to read so many things, and be silly and fun.

drinking champagne and exchanging glances, and talking about nonsense. fashion. all that kind of stuff.

As a hand sewer, omg I love this

Sitting out in public and someone suddenly turned on the music for this seating area so loud that I can hardly hear my headphones. Please. I am trying to listen to Beethoven.

Dressing like modern AU Stede Bonnet as a confidence boost

Well, it ain't wrong

Sometimes you're losing hope and spiraling, but then you see a friend's pictures of new foster kittens that look like one of your childhood cats. Things shift, if only for a while. So anyway, today was really something.

How cunty is too cunty for funeral clothes? Because I feel like I should dial it up a couple notches for a gay drag queen's memorial.

If life could just... not take a shit on me. Thanks, that'd be great. Burying 3 college friends before my mid 30s was not on my bingo card.

'Scuse me, coming through, lemme just put this up here: 🏳️‍⚧️ 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵 I'm not visibly trans in a lot of places, but I'll be damned if I don't do it here.

This is everything, he's so happy 😭💖

piña coladas — an ofmd analog media / social media au

Come look at this lovely thing! I did a hand frame despite my insane life right now. (Will share later) I'm always honored to get to participate in these. Many thanks to the people who organized. Now, to sit back and enjoy this gorgeous art 🥰

I am ready for emotional damage 😌

Life's really something lately 🥴

It's wild that today my town got a historic amount of snow. Never seen this much snow in my life!

Just seen the sad news that The Vivienne (James Lee Williams) passed away this weekend aged just 32 Her last Insta post was about her support for Sahir House, Liverpool oldest LGBTQ+ & HIV charity If you would like (and can afford) to give them a few quid, you can donate at www.sahir.org.uk/donate

Feel like shit today. Might read something filthy and explicit and then go get bubble tea 💅✨️

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Okay, imagine it with me: Ed is Cary Grant's character David Huxley, Izzy is the fiancée/research assistant character, Stede is Susan stumbling all through this man's life and making a mess (but a fun mess). And! There's already a leopard in both source materials!

Bringing Up Baby AU... is this anything?

Christmas feeling hard af this year, ngl. Big squeezy hugs to my fellow holiday strugglers. I'm gonna drink a Dr. Pepper and try to find something to enjoy.

Go look at the thing! I made some fun drink recipes. 🥰 Who doesn't love Rizzy inspired recipes? Also, donate if you can!

Literally I NEED to be his bestie

hey. let’s take his ass to claire’s

It fills me with so much excitement and unbridled joy that we have so many drag performers in the OFMD fandom. 🥰

Preparing for a drag performance that's centered around grief and memorializing someone close to me. It's a bit of a mindfuck. I was cackling yesterday about using rhinestones and velcro juxtaposed with death and grief.

I would like to have my free time back now. Give it to me

Looking over at the raw turkey my husband is about to put in the oven, and thinking, "The gentleman pirate, I presume."

Too busy irl to post a lot, but I will spam you all with likes when I get my daily scroll time 😭 (I'm very tired)

Jim rarepairs 🔥🙂‍↕️💖

Here's an old phone pic of my first frame! It took me ages to finish it because I kept taking weeks-long breaks and then coming back. Kept having to remember what the fuck I was doing. 😅 This was the last photo I took before doing final touches and switching to a hi-res camera and good lighting

It's HERE!!! I'm giddy! I joined this project way back in, like, April? Challenged myself to do two watercolors. It was an awesome experience. Please watch and enjoy 🥰

I'm really looking forward to sharing my 2 frames. 🥹 💖 I had so much fun with this!

Husband walked in with a pedestal leg to add to our new table. He started apologizing that it's the wrong wood color. I glanced at the pale pine and at the top of my lungs sang, "LEGGY LEGGY LEGGY LEGGY BLONDIE BLONDIE BLONDIE BLONDIE!" So that's how my Monday is going.

Hello I did the thing and moved over here. 🏴‍☠️💖