Minda Honey
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The return of skinny supremacy has me thinking a lot about the summer after high school I spent as a weight loss counselor. Obvs allll the warnings for diet culture, eating disorders and fatphobia — because how else do you describe a workplace that weighed you twice a week?
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21 days ago
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3 months ago
New Craft of Memoir at
@niemanstoryboard.org
:
@mindahoney.bsky.social
in conversation with Irvin Weathersby Jr. about truth-telling in a travelogue.
niemanstoryboard.org/2025/07/02/c...
#longreads
#booksky
#writing
#storytelling
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The Craft of Memoir: Irvin Weathersby Jr. on truth-telling in a travelogue - Nieman Storyboard
‘The goal of art is to seek out something pure and true and to convey it.’ The author of ‘In Open Contempt’ on making sense of history and his own story.
https://niemanstoryboard.org/2025/07/02/craft-of-memoir-irvin-weathersby-jr-truth-telling-travelogue/
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Nieman Storyboard
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"That's what the book’s about in general. How can I situate myself within these current moments but also within the timeline of history?" Irvin Weathersby Jr., in conversation with
@mindahoney.bsky.social
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#booksky
#writing
#memoir
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The Craft of Memoir: Irvin Weathersby Jr. on truth-telling in a travelogue - Nieman Storyboard
‘The goal of art is to seek out something pure and true and to convey it.’ The author of ‘In Open Contempt’ on making sense of history and his own story.
https://niemanstoryboard.org/2025/07/02/craft-of-memoir-irvin-weathersby-jr-truth-telling-travelogue/
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Mark Armstrong
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My Friday newsletter for
@niemanstoryboard.org
: Featuring
@nadiareiman.bsky.social
on reporting for
@thisamericanlife.org
,
@mindahoney.bsky.social
in conversation with Irvin Weathersby Jr., plus
@leahsottile.bsky.social
,
@hoinski.bsky.social
, and more...
niemanstoryboard.org/2025/07/04/d...
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Different ways of seeking truth - Nieman Storyboard
Nadia Reiman on the process behind "This American Life," and Irvin Weathersby Jr.'s deeply personal approach to confronting history.
https://niemanstoryboard.org/2025/07/04/different-ways-of-seeking-truth/
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I think at this point, nearly three decades in, that we’ve established that the mission is entirely possible.
4 months ago
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In honor of the news that the medical field will be finally recognizing it hurts when jam things into and snip of pieces of our cervixes — an IUD tale 🩸
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The Error of My of Anatomy
IUDon't: IUD insertions now featuring pain management!
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/the-error-of-my-of-anatomy?r=mgly&utm_medium=ios
4 months ago
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Seems a like a good time to re-share this piece from 2018 that I wrote after discovering there would be a “soul cleanse” yoga festival at a local plantation —
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The Plantation In Your Town: How We Handle The Vestiges Of Our Past
I wasn’t happy when an ad for the “Soul Cleanse Yoga Festival” popped up in my Facebook feed and I saw several of my friends...
https://www.leoweekly.com/news/the-plantation-in-your-town-how-we-handle-the-vestiges-of-our-past-15766120
5 months ago
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Liz DeGregorio
5 months ago
My mind was happily blown by the amazing panels of writers + editors at
#OpenSecretsLive
. I wanted to buy EVERYONE’S book - I got Minda Honey’s “The Heartbreak Years” + Kari Ferrell’s “You’ll Never Believe Me” 🤩 Rachel Kramer Bussel created a lovely, impactful event!
@opensecretsmag.bsky.social
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It’s spring, so the sidewalk pests are out! Here’s a little drag for the men who disrupt my peace and the alarming belief that women should tolerate a man’s disrespect if he makes enough money.
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Men think we care about money and women are worried about their lives.
Just a little screed about the dudes who interrupt my peace
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/men-think-we-care-about-money-and?r=mgly&utm_medium=ios
5 months ago
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The same day I dropped a newsletter about my first mammogram (and subsequent follow up for what were ultimately, thankfully benign issues) I got hit with the $1,000 bill. Yay, America!!
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Minda Gets a Mammogram
Lefty gave 'em the run around
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/minda-gets-a-mammogram?r=mgly&utm_medium=ios
5 months ago
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Open Secrets Magazine
5 months ago
Our Open Secrets Live May 3 closing conversation will be between
@mindahoney.bsky.social
and
@deeshaphilyaw.bsky.social
on Relinquishing Your Secret Desires to the Page.
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@amazonpublishing.bsky.social
@wvupress.bsky.social
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Mark Armstrong
7 months ago
My Friday newsletter for
@niemanstoryboard.org
— great advice from
@mindahoney.bsky.social
for journalists experimenting with memoir. Plus links from
@clairewillett.bsky.social
,
@mallarytenore.bsky.social
,
@propublica.org
and
@joepompeo.bsky.social
.
niemanstoryboard.org/2025/02/28/m...
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Minda Honey's lessons from writing a memoir, and advice for journalists finding their voice - Nieman Storyboard
The author of "The Heartbreak Years" embraced being "shameless" in telling her own story.
https://niemanstoryboard.org/2025/02/28/minda-honey-lessons-memoir-journalists/
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Nieman Storyboard
7 months ago
"To be shameless is to reject the standards set for you by others and live by your own measure." —
@mindahoney.bsky.social
niemanstoryboard.org/2025/02/28/m...
#booksky
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Minda Honey's lessons from writing a memoir, and advice for journalists finding their voice - Nieman Storyboard
The author of "The Heartbreak Years" embraced being "shameless" in telling her own story.
https://niemanstoryboard.org/2025/02/28/minda-honey-lessons-memoir-journalists/
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Nieman Storyboard
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"Revise where you're hiding."
@mindahoney.bsky.social
's advice for journalists experimenting with memoir.
niemanstoryboard.org/2025/02/28/m...
#longreads
#booksky
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Minda Honey's lessons from writing a memoir, and advice for journalists finding their voice - Nieman Storyboard
The author of "The Heartbreak Years" embraced being "shameless" in telling her own story.
https://niemanstoryboard.org/2025/02/28/minda-honey-lessons-memoir-journalists/
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Hannah Matthews
7 months ago
baby’s first
#awp
reading: you KNOW it’s at a tattoo shop, with some of my all-time favorite CNF baddies, and will involve death + sex + being put in my place in the funniest way possible. 💘
@natalielima09.bsky.social
@mindahoney.bsky.social
@lillydancyger.bsky.social
@otroedgargomez.bsky.social
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Edgar Gomez
7 months ago
If you've read Alligator Tears, I spoke to icon and legend
@mindahoney.bsky.social
about the turtle passage in the Pulse essay for Harvard's
@niemanstoryboard.org
. Check it out if you wanna read about what went into writing that one low-key bittersweet scene from the book 🐊🥲🐢
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Is this how beauty queens feel when they get crowned for the first time? 🥲 Thank you for the warmed welcome, Mark and for letting me nerd out on craft ❤️🔥
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7 months ago
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BIG NEWS! THE BIGGEST!! And you know that convo between me and Deesha is gonna be JUICCCCY 🍑
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7 months ago
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Wrote about Irvin Weathersby’s new book, “In Open Contempt,” becoming an art lover and the Peter Pan tale (or should I say Wendy’s story?)
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All the Men are Peter Pan, All the Women Wendy
On leaving Neverland
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/all-the-men-are-peter-pan-all-the?r=mgly&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true
7 months ago
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The ways we do or don’t change with age are endlessly interesting to me — sorry party promoters 😬
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I Want to Be Where the People [Aren't]
(Sorry, Ariel!)
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/i-want-to-be-where-the-people-arent?r=mgly&utm_medium=ios
8 months ago
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Thinking through the difference between contentment and settling —
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"Your sunroom is coming."
On the work never being finished because the dreams are never done.
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/your-sunroom-is-coming?r=mgly&utm_medium=ios
8 months ago
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Bluestem
8 months ago
Five more days until
@mindahoney.bsky.social
and
@finejuli.bsky.social
and Jacqui Germain visit us here in Central Illinois? Chicago / St. Louis / Indianapolis friends, come on over!
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I wrote this week about how social media is following the same trajectory as the American Mall.
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Social media is going the way of the mall
A haunted desolate place drained of its magic
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/social-media-is-going-the-way-of?r=mgly&utm_medium=ios
8 months ago
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We can’t let the trad wives lay claim to homemade soup making. That is solidly a mid-life hobby!!
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Soup on Sundays
Recipes, recs and reflections on a winter full of soup
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/soup-on-sundays?r=mgly&utm_medium=ios
8 months ago
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The timing for attending my first silent retreat could not have been better. 2025 came out the gate with the havoc!!
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Welcome to the Wrath Year
Minda goes to a silent retreat!
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/welcome-to-the-wrath-year?r=mgly&utm_medium=ios
9 months ago
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Somehow most of the posts in my feed are sports related?! How did I get here? How do I get to writing Bluesky?!
9 months ago
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A belated newsletter drop! Let your people celebrate you 🫶🏽
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My birthday wish to you
You deserve to be celebrated!
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/my-birthday-wish-to-you?r=mgly&utm_medium=ios
9 months ago
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Not to stir back up the storygraph vs goodreads discourse but wow wow wow the reviewers are so much nicer on Storygraph 🥹
9 months ago
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I’ve given in. I’m a compression sock girlie now 🧦
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10 months ago
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“On Twitter, on Threads, on Bluesky, on one of those text-based apps that is not this one, I see mention of a Reddit sub that is immediately of interest to me, r/askwomenover40.” Latest Mid is now out 💙
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On hitting reset at [nearly] 40
Reddit, Give Me Courage
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/on-hitting-reset-at-nearly-40?r=mgly&utm_medium=ios
10 months ago
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My newsletter is officially relaunched 🥳 I wrote about the ridges in my nails being a harbinger of middle age and why that ain’t so bad. Have a chuckle and share with a friend — new installments every Wednesday at noon.
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Why I go to bed looking like Mickey Mouse
Welcome to Mid(Life.)
https://open.substack.com/pub/mindahoney/p/why-i-go-to-bed-looking-like-mickey?r=mgly&utm_medium=ios
10 months ago
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Soup will pop off in the microwave in the most dramatic way and then have the nerve to still be cold when you go to take it out 🙄
10 months ago
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I was truly thiiiiis 🤏🏽 close to deleting this app off my phone from lack of use but I guess it’s a good thing I’m lazy.
11 months ago
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I heard y’all using this app now. So lemme drop the link for my latest essay, an ode to my sisters for Harper’s Bazaar’s November print issue —
www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/feat...
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I Moved Home to Reconnect with My Sisters. I'd Do It Again in a Heartbeat.
Our relationship had changed, but now we're closer than ever.
https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a45795462/i-moved-home-to-reconnect-with-my-sisters-id-do-it-again-in-a-heartbeat/
almost 2 years ago
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Time to put this acct to use 😅
about 2 years ago
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