I'm firmly in the camp of Taylor having had the wedding date booked for years (anyone who has planned a wedding in the last decade knows that a big venue is booked out 2+ years in advance) and the groom was always interchangeable I will believe that even if she does marry him 🤷

Does anyone have the gaylor/performanceartlor timeline in a doc they'd be willing to share?

I am at my desk at work but I am deep in the throws of an analysis of parallels between champagne problems and the All Too Well short film

Guys who do mainstream swifities think "champagne problems" is about?

Beginning of the All Too Well 10 min. version video shows a Pablo Neruda quotation - and this is from his wiki page. (I know he is a controversial figure but I find this really interesting, even if it is just a coincidence)

ALSO the music video is full of glass imagery. When she first walks into the sister's house at the beginning, the scarf is situated in front of stained glass. One of the only sounds we hear in the video other than music and speaking is glass clinking. Glass = showing the truth all along

SHE'S THE PROBLEM

Guys sometimes I just like myself nowadays, my therapist will be proud

Okay so ever since the re-release of Red I have been on the train that it's about a sapphic situationship And I posted about this 2 years ago in the Gaylor subreddit so if you recognize any of these points, please don't publicly connect this account to my reddit account 😅

"Be sure to find 10 minutes to spare before next Friday" fine, I'll watch the ATW10MV video again and look for gaylor clues

I don't think never arguing is necessarily a sign of an unhealthy relationship, but I also don't want people to think that having arguments on occasion means your relationship is "less than" or doomed to fail. There's a broad spectrum of what's considered healthy and every person is different.

cw: graphic period thing I'm on the tail end of a cold and I'm on my period and I just coughed and felt a whole ass blood clot come out

As a glasses-wearer who wore my glasses at my wedding, I LOVE seeing pics of other brides who did the same 🥰

If someone claims to be a Star Trek fan but they don't like Voyager I assume they're a misogynist

The "if men had uteruses" rhetoric misses the entire point because the very reason AFAB people are subjugated is BECAUSE they are historically the child-bearers

The hardest part of being in a queer women's choir is that every week a woman in her 60s-70s tries to get me to adopt a stray kitten they've been caring for The funniest part is that when you turn down the cat, they give you a pretty rock or a sticker instead

The Chainsmokers??? Still not paying for a single but 😳

Does anyone know how I might get this number off this glass jar? I like to reuse glass jars for spell components and keepsakes, and this is a great little jar, but I can't figure out if I can get this number that is printed directly on the jar off in any way.

I’m gonna put it more clear what I meant by this: She’s saying the powers she was honing…the powers that saved her from the fate of Ophelia..was creating characters and story arcs

If you can't fart freely in front of your partner, they're not the one

My hottest take of the year (probably) - if you can't do your job without the assistance of generative* AI, you're not qualified to do that job *acknowledging that not all AI is created equal and generative AI is specific thing

The Red Rising series is one of the best I've read in a while AND it manages to portray a very violent society with a caste system without gratuitous violence towards female characters. It's mentioned, because any society like that WILL be violent towards women, but it's not used as a plot point.

cw: talk of the orange man and sexual violence towards minors My current theory is that the "Trump" referenced in the emails is one of his daughters

I love cats in the winter

When do you use a doormat? After you've walked through a door.... when you've come in from the outside remember when people were saying that she wants us to follow her through the door, it's not her leaving out the door it's her bringing us in

Part of my problem rn is that if I were very rich, I would simply not charge more than the cost of sweatshirt production for a sweatshirt And I might feel a little differently if it was made with highly ethical labor practices and was extremely good quality, but those things aren't true

Some of the merch is awful and some of it is cute, but the bottom line is that I can't convince myself to spend $80 on a sweatshirt this close to the holidays

Low key one of my actual favorite tasks at work is when I get to assemble packets of materials quietly by myself Whenever they say no one would do the boring jobs if we had UBI, I laugh because sign me the fuck up for something mind numbing like that

✨🤞she saw my hoping about this and will play brunette taylor and kiss herself🤞✨

Personally, I'm not excited about the 60 degree November day we're having, because it's not normal and is a symptom of climate change

There are exactly two pharmacy techs at my pharmacy who do not ask some kind of weird question or hold me up when I pick up my ADHD medication Snagged one of them today and will be noting the day and time for future pickup planning

When the trailer aired on GMA, was it in the weird mobile portrait format? What kind of choice is that?

Hey so the reality of living in capitalism is that we can't always make the most environmentally conscious choice because sometimes our sanity needs to be preserved over not using something disposable You do the best you can and remember that corporations are the real bad guys

I need Bluesky to start letting me make polls

Baby's first sourdough

I read for entertainment and education and if I'm getting neither, you bet your ass I'm gonna put the book down and not finish it. Why should I feel ashamed of not finishing a book that isn't bringing me any satisfaction?

People act like the Twilight movies are bad but I truly think they are as good as they could possibly be given the source material Also I rewatch them every year around this time and I won't ever stop, I'm the cult following

I have this weird anti-vax uncle who always views my Instagram stories within 5 minutes of me posting and I'm about 3 days away from posting something targeted at him specifically

So I used to think I was an introvert and the last couple of months I've realized that it's not the social activity that's draining, it's the masking If I'm social with people I don't have to mask with I actually leave feeling awesome

I am super pro content warnings and whatnot, but it's gotten to the point where I see the word "grape" and think of sexual violence, and that's getting on my nerves

Tragically confirmed my husband is 100% straight when he said, "I'm just not sure I buy Jonathan Bailey as the guy everyone is lusting over in Wicked"

I think my biggest problem with TLOAS, truly, is that it was sold as a 1989-esque album and it was very much NOT THAT

I've joined a queer women's choir and there are SO many people in their 50s and 60s who use they/them pronouns. Why do people act like this is some new young people thing?

People love to hate "Superman" but if it was on TLOAS with contemporary production the Trav-wives would absolutely eat it up

1989 is the hardest album for me to rank because I truly love every single song on it

This. Anyone who really paid attention to who Taylor is and what she believed in precious to this album should be shocked at how much this is a 180 from Taylor's previous worldview. As I've been saying since the beginning of TayVis: If ANY woman in their mid-30s suddenly changes for a man: red flag

I always click the "show less of this" button on social media when I see bi women/femmes and lesbians infighting because a) I feel like this does not happen AT ALL with people who have unpacked their internalized misogyny, and b) you should just kiss and make up

Please donate to your local food pantry as able. Note - donate items you have on hand but will not use, then cash. Do not donate groceries you will use and do not buy groceries for the pantry. Donate cash instead. They know what they need, get better prices, and it saves effort for them and you.

Halloween was fun for the first time in so many years, I'm so glad we moved to the most progressive city in the state and have good friends here

genuinely think the first point in any convo about ADHD meds should be that 1) ADHD is linked to increased rates of brain degeneration, and developing dementia / Alzheimers & 2) taking ADHD meds slows that rate of degeneration to the same speed as peers without ADHD