💙 We’ve been so touched by how many have asked how to help beyond donating. One way is putting up our flyer in shops, cafés, and community boards. Here’s a copy if you’d like to share it — every posting, every share, every bit of visibility matters. Thank you for lifting us up. 💙 gofund.me/3a516b84e

Science Fiction // Double Feature

I only lasted 40 minutes in the new Superman. I wanted to love it, but David Corenswet didn’t land—he felt flat, and had no spark with Rachel Brosnahan. The look was pure James Gunn déjà vu. Maybe I’ll circle back later, but right now? Not for me.

Make it a good one. #GayBear #MCM #MonochromeMonday #BearSmile

Huge love to Summit Tacos in Longmont, CO! Not just for their incredible food, but for showing up for us and giving space to share our story. ❤️ gofund.me/3a516b84e

Highly recommend starting a film/game/book/music/craft supper club with friends. Physical media, good food, people you love. Sharing food & tangible expressions of art is a balm for the soul.

So grateful for you all ❤️

Hey all! My friend @forbiddendisco.bsky.social is having a really rough time right now. He's started a GoFundMe to help pay for his husband's medical bills and other stuff. Take a look and help if you can! gofund.me/3b55c683e

Update: Mitchell is halfway through his intensive outpatient therapy program — 3 days a week, 3 hours a day, for 8 weeks. It’s tough, but he’s showing up with courage. We’re moving forward, but the need is still here. Every share, kind word, and donation helps us keep going. gofund.me/3a516b84e

We have friends everywhere #Andor

Mitchell and I have been together 17 years, married almost 10. These past two years have been the hardest of our lives after a medical procedure left him with lasting complications. We’ve hit the point where we can’t do this alone. Please read & share 💙 gofund.me/3a516b84e

Jon is one of my oldest internet friends & a great dude all around. Please give if you can.❤️

Mitchell and I have been together 17 years, married almost 10. These past years have been the hardest after a medical procedure left him with lasting pain and trauma. We can’t keep going alone. With humility, I’m asking for help. Please read & share ❤️ gofund.me/3a516b84e

In happy news, the grand finale of Downton Abbey was everything I wanted it to be. It felt like coming home to old friends and getting one last evening together.

“Choosing not to use your emotional bandwidth to honor someone who consistently denied your worth isn’t the same as celebrating their death. There is a difference between neutrality and cruelty and no one gets to demand your tenderness.“ - Raquel Martin, PhD

Thanks for the love. It didn’t go as we hoped, and honestly we’re gutted. However, we’ll figure out next steps and will share more soon.

Today’s a big day for us. If anyone can send some good energy or prayers our way, it would mean a lot! ❤️

Rewatching Buffy and Rilo Kiley’s “Pictures of Success” is playing in the background during the party scene of Older and Far Away! How did I miss this the first time?! @kevidently.bsky.social

Let’s see those face cards, babes!

bluesky is dying and there's only one way to save it: by having The Life of a Showgirl have all 12 tracks be in the style of “False God”.

Mustache is starting to fill in… #gaybear #gaycub #gay #bear #cub #facialhair #hirsute #bearsmile

Seeing Brian Wilson perform SMiLE at the Hollywood Bowl with the LA Philharmonic from boxed seats…almost 20 years ago, September 4, 2005.

And some of y’all keep going to Universal and spending your queer dollars there when she gives zero fucks about the community and the harm she’s doing.

Just finished Big Boys S2 on Hulu. Haven’t felt this way since Ted Lasso—funny, tender, & queer in all the right ways. It balances grief + joy with the biggest heart. Hilarious, profound, & worth every minute. Please watch it! You’ll love it!

My husband says I’m in my stache era. I’m digging it. What do you think; does it work? #mcm #monochromemonday #gaybear #gaycub #gay #bear #cub #facialhair #hirsute

If you could only listen to music from one decade, what’s your pick? For me, it’s 1977–1986, no contest. Disco, boogie, R&B, punk, post-punk, goth, alternative, new wave, synthpop, sophisti-pop, funk, early hip-hop… it’s got everything. What’s your golden era, and why? 🎶

Just finished the first half of Wednesday Season 2 and loved it! Jenna Ortega is a powerhouse. It’s a bit darker, with more spotlight on the rest of the cast and a fun, twisty mystery. Episode 1’s gorgeous Tim Burton stop-motion nod to Vincent and Frankenweenie was just pure magic.

Adjusting to this buzz and trying to grow out this mustache. Any tips? #gaybear #gaycub #gay #bear #cub #facialhair #hirsute

I just woke up from a dream where kuzco in drag was singing Espresso by Sabrina Carpenter…”I’m working late, ‘cause I’m a llama”

IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIM GONNA SWIIIIIIIIIING FROM THE BURGERLIEEEEEEEEEER FROM THE BURGERLIEEEEEEEEEEEEEER

Chappell Roan really put the dream pop (especially Cocteau Twins) references front & center on her new single, The Subway. The first few seconds are essentially the intro to “Heaven or Las Vegas” pitched down. I’m enjoying it and I’m curious to see what she’s going to make next. #Interpolation

Fully embracing the buzz cut and I’m loving it! #gaybear #gaycub #gay #bear #cub #mcm #monochromemonday

Oh…My…God #GildedAge

It’s been a hard week, but I got a fresh cut and reminded myself that softness and strength can exist in the same body. Learning to embrace my face, my fuzz, and my full self one smirk at a time. #GayBear #BearFace

Currently awaiting to do something drastic 👀

Attention gays. These Grindr videos appear on my Instagram and TikTok feeds. Do we know who he is? Obsessed with his fit.

Opening night of The Cabin in the Woods. Not just one person, but the entire theater collectively LOOSING THEIR MINDS during the third act. Screaming, laughing, cheering, and popcorn everywhere. It was truly magical.

This year’s #HHN lineup is just not for me, but good for you if it is. Regardless, I’m thrilled Haunt season is around the corner.

Hey, I just met you and this is crazy but here’s my crawlspace I’m John Wayne Gacy

What perfect album came out when you were sixteen?

Daddy Issues started here 🩶

I know I’m going to get hell for this, but “Killer Queen” is the only Queen song I can stand.

Eric Dane in that new Prime series, Countdown… #Daddy #Swoon #Woof

Depression’s at a high, so I’m diving back into The Smiths. At 15, Johnny’s shimmering guitar, Andy’s melodic bass, and Moz’s aching voice hit me like a revelation. For the first time I felt understood. Their music was sharp, funny, devastating–like the songs were thoughts I never knew how to say.

On their knees, the war pigs crawling Begging mercies for their sins Satan, laughing, spreads his wings… I’m not even a metal guy, but Black Sabbath’s Paranoid is a groundbreaking masterpiece album that belongs in every collection. Rest in peace, Ozzy.

Can’t wait for the new Tame Impala single this Friday. It’s been a long time coming!

If you’ve ever felt unlovable in your body, I see you and I am you. You’re not alone. Some of us are just trying to feel worthy as we are. #GayBear

1985 was a year of iconic albums, but my favorite is Prefab Sprout’s Steve McQueen (released in the US as Two Wheels Good). They might be the ’80s’ most underappreciated band (especially in America), and this gem’s turning 40. Let’s celebrate its brilliance, track by track!

Forbidden Disco in 8 bit

That feeling when you absolutely nail the first verse of “I Want You” by Savage Garden like it’s 1998 all over again.