if i want to play board games with a bunch of lesbians i’d also just go there, there‘s no lesbian police inside asking me for my credentials in lesbianism

going out in an outfit that needs pasties to understand the true meaning of the human condition

i recommended @taliabhatt.itch.io‘s books to a trans women i met but she already had trans/rad/fem from a bundle and knew rcbg, so i guess talia already broke the line between online and irl internationally

It‘s a bit funny how „reputable“ sites like reddit have always been quite transmed (in the original sense) while the imageboards like /tttt/ that are seen as hubs of transmedicalism, aren‘t actually and were for a long time the only quick sources of diy hrt advice

to any babytrans who feels awkward in types of clothes they haven‘t worn yet i didn‘t wear jeans in about 10 years but did before that and now i bought a pair and when i put them on i feel super awkward in them, despite lots of compliments, it‘s all a head thing you can overcome

always love it when trans women say they‘ve been voice training a lot but are too afraid to try their modulated voice in public it‘s not like people would misgender you more when you speak like voice cracky mickey mouse rather than the deepest baritone

if we actually canceled abusers even if they‘re half of the men in arts we would likely have so many more women in arts who dropped out because they were abused by them and maybe even more men who aren‘t abusers This has nothing to do with protecting the arts but protecting abusive men

can a french bulldog girl and a tabby girl really be friends?

went to a shitty club yesterday and it‘s almost funny how all the girls are having the fun of their life and are super friendly and social with each other while all the guys have the deadest eyes i‘ve ever seen and no visible emotion the only guy i saw smiling was after he grabbed my ass in passing

i went to Mount Queer and all it gave me was this boring woman gender :(

I talked to a friend yesterday who emigrated from iran and it‘s so hard to see her struggle with what‘s going on there atm Her best friend told her that he needs to evacuate cause they‘re in an area up for bombing but he feels safest in his flat and then the internet got cut off it‘s all shit tbh

I don‘t really care what a trans women looks like, if she‘s friendly and i like talking to her i gladly do, if she‘s annoying (in my understanding) i ignore her, none of this matters in the question if she should be able to transition and get healthcare, that‘s always a yes

White privilege exists as a tool to further white supremacy, it doesn‘t have much use if you try using it against white supremacy

i once talked about the feminine erotics of cannibalism on a first date with a guy and he didn‘t like it men can be so boring

the agp curls serve as a oily facsimilie of the autoerotic image of the lusciously haired femme fatale while the straightened hair of the hsts represents a man pleasing attitude that only burdens the wearer but is easy to deal with for the partner who doesn‘t like hair in every orifice

During the pandemic it was the anti-mask people doing the „if you don‘t survive it‘s your own fault for not being healthy“ and now they just reversed it some people just really like to invoke „natural selection“ bs to feel superior

finally got pressured into buying the traditional clothing of my region (though the more fashionable kind) and it actually looks almost too good on me

coworker: „so, what did you do this weekend?“ me:

This is not surprising, and is a big part of terfism's compatibility with the far right/evangelicals (and why they keep hiring anti-abortion activist lawyers like Paul Conrathe for their anti-trans cases). Terfism is a branch of cultural feminism, aka female nationalism. It's the feminism of fools.

I think a lot of trans „discourse“ only exists because of peoples insecurities in their transition, gender or sexuality and instead of introspection they let it out on someone else (Talia being a prime example of a scapegoat)

I am so over the "Western binary". I am so over how people consistently, ignorantly, and frankly embarrassingly insist that the "gender binary" is so particularly Western and colonial and recent. It's a complete failure to juxtapose rhetoric on gender with how it actually, materially operates.

is there some secret boob photo etiquette i‘m unaware of? everytime i send a photo for „i‘m pretty sure progesterone contributed to this result“ reasons i‘m getting a photo sent back?

me being a radfem in winter until i shave my legs again in mid spring

deranged billionaire going rogue is my least favorite genre i actually liked it more when they lived in their own world and never interacted with commoners

AGPs angry at HSTS being a proper third sex, you girlies just aren‘t faggy enough

"okay but my culture has a respected third sex who doesn't think of themselves as women, here's one to prove it" *person from said culture* "I'm a repper manmoder rapehon and I understand why women despise me"

It‘s one thing that sticks out a lot, most of the GC „detransitioners“ are either women who never transitioned or „former trans women“ who never detransitioned

cis „allys“ who‘re completely wrong on trans topics and talk over us anyway always get less criticism than a detrans woman who is knowledgeable about trans topics and still tries to center us and a indian trans woman radical feminist seems like all of this isn‘t actually good faith

This is just black and white thinking, just because you theoretically fit everything in two boxes it‘s not useful to do that, the experience of someone who medically transitioned and then tries to transition back the other direction is not what i would call a cis experience

this is already happening btw, what do you think they typical transphobe expression of „at least oldschool transsexuals knew they‘re not women“ is in essence, history gets rewritten while the people it‘s about are still alive

There's nothing radical about encouraging trans women to stay on testosterone, actually. That is what doctors with power over us have been doing the entire time. Every option outside of that, we had to fight for.

soooOoOooOoo subversive!!! Unlike the boring trannies who just want to be women 🤮

basing your whole identity on not fitting in for the sake of not fitting in is definitely … something

i‘ve always been an extreme(ly shy and anxious) extrovert but i‘m also the boring straight people

„i‘m neurodivergent and i don‘t find a techno concert with 10 screens showing different videos while also talking to people overstimulating“

I find neurodivergent is such a useless descriptor in most cases since it combines two groups with basically opposite needs

I do care little about validity, if i‘m not valid so be it If anything the validity argument has always been negative for us, every time our healthcare access has been attacked you just hear that you‘re still valid and fighting for easy access to hrt is thus unnecessary

How do i stop pronouncing bluesky like it‘s a eastern european surname in my head ?