"In my opinion the only reason why we’re not having more non-genital orgasms is because we’ve had hundreds of years of sex education telling us that if it doesn’t involve genitals it’s not sex."

This guide to foreplay tells you what it is, but more importantly what it can do. We could also just call it ‘before-sex’. Also there’s some complex philosophy for life at the end on materialism and becomings. Look, I know I take this far too seriously…. www.bishuk.com/sex/what-is-...

ChatGPT was never Google’s biggest threat; it was always its own hubris. With Search now being sacrificed on the altar of AI dominance, the time has come for users to get serious about moving off Google services. It’s not only destroying its products; it’s trying to further degrade the web itself.

89% of visits to BISH come from Google. Time to bookmark it and spread the word the old fashioned way www.bishuk.com/support/

Years ago I was one of many experts approached for "Married at First Sight". Surprising, given how publicly vocal I was about extractive, exploitative and stigmatising nature of reality shows and lack of safeguarding for participants. Distressing to be proved right. www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...

In case there any questions as to what the anti-DEI stuff is really about

You book sessions when and IF you want them. In Solution Focused Practice we assume that just one session could be all someone needs. We treat every session like it's the last (and often the first and last). justinhancock.co.uk#coaching

Absolutely criminal. A hugely successful program killed out of cruelty and racism.

Another shocking week for U.K. universities with yet more institutions hit by redundancies and closures, causing or worsening distress and disruption for students and staff. If you're feeling powerless here's help for you and your community. Please share. theresearchcompanion.com/supporting-i...

Obsessed with this sketch from SNL UK. The kind of dating advice and expertise you'd come to expect from legacy media www.youtube.com/watch?v=89hC...

Up to 80 per cent of violent incidents in the West Bank are attacks by Jewish settlers, says the Israeli army

"So ‘a vibe’ is a co-created set of micro-behaviours we sometimes find emerge over time with people. Pay attention to it, be interested in having more of it, and enjoy it. You don’t need to do anything about it other than enjoy it." www.bishuk.com/relationship...

Labour politics have got interesting again.

If you do happen to be on the hated TikTok I am going to try and post more there too. Like these cute Talk For A Minute videos. The point I make here is that people don't generally like to talk about their own intimate lives as much on www.tiktok.com/@bishsexed/v...

This latest podcast of mine (my sex and relationships podcast for adults) combines Deleuze and Guattari and Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) in this accessible case study about how we can reorganise intimacy and love in real life.

Look I just think that (if they let him) Burnham will win the seat because he's not standing in spite of Starmer but to replace him. It just changes the assemblage completely. (Also it will be the start of the progressive alliance).

Emergency Podcast Live! It's free, it's online, it's tomorrow, it's me and @profafinlayson.bsky.social talking about all this stuff that's going on: www.eventbrite.com/e/emergency-...

Blimey

I love that Wes is basically locked into a position where he has to be the one to launch the contest because every other viable candidate has an actual shot at winning. Or he has to sink with the Starmer ship. Perfect.

"So ‘a vibe’ is a co-created set of micro-behaviours we sometimes find emerge over time with people. Pay attention to it, be interested in having more of it, and enjoy it. You don’t need to do anything about it other than enjoy it." www.bishuk.com/relationship...

This latest podcast of mine (my sex and relationships podcast for adults) combines Deleuze and Guattari and Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) in this accessible case study about how we can reorganise intimacy and love in real life.

Had a chat with Alex on @poltheoryother.bsky.social about the results of the elections in Scotland, Wales, and across England. I was not terribly complementary about Labour's performance.

Whilst I'm not against BANNING THE PERVERT GLASSES we do also need an education which dissuades people from taking part in whatever tech facilitated violences are next on offer. Sidenote: most sex and relationships educators are poorly paid freelancers and not well trained or supported.

Starmer called himself a gooner. I explain what that is in this article (and some advice on the problems and how to do it without harm) www.bishuk.com/sex/what-is-...

The collapse of universities will destroy the towns they're in, in the same way that deindustrialisation, pit closures, destroyed entire regions of the UK. In both cases the government project was to inflict poverty on those you believe to be socially illegitimate, who've had it good for too long.

Organisations have cut skilled staff, overloaded remaining people, and increased workload. Presenteeism drives visibility and churning out resources. AI 'helps' efficiency and time saving. Often mandated by employers. Space and skills to read, digest, reflect, summarise, appraise, analyse have gone

I haven't (yet) written an advice article 'I want to end the relationship but they aren't listening to me'

Britain's colour on this map should be a source of shame.

We're getting close to a football team of Prime Ministers at the cenotaph memorial Sunday. Back of the net

Of course Michael Walker uses Claude

Phones are about to get even shitter. Please share From F-Droid to independent devs, the entire Android ecosystem is under threat from Google's new mandatory registration decree. See why 67+ orgs are saying no: keepandroidopen.org

Clare Ballentine? Could she work?

The obvious way for Labour to push back against Reform would be to focus unrelentingly on an authentic class politics based exclusively on the question of who does and doesn't have shared economic interests, against Farage's fake class politics of flags, beer and private equity.

This episode with @justinhancock.bsky.social is one of my favourite ones of the last I don't remember how many - please listen if you haven't yet: www.podbean.com/ea/pb-37jcd-...

Justin was so kind as to join for our episode of #Adolescence a while back - it's probably a better show than its creators intended and also not a replacement for teaching young men anything about anything.

Apparently #Adolescence is back in the news. So here's a great podcast discussion with @praxiscast.bsky.social pca.st/episode/d014... and here's my Sex and Relationships Education Guide to it www.bishuk.com/your-call/a-...

Change UK absolutely ate shit because it was The Pundits’ Party: a collection of twats that nobody liked or wanted, where everyone lost their seats. Rather than learning a lesson, all the lads decided: what if we did that again, bigger, then constantly shitehoused the public to ensure it succeeds.

A contestant on Bullseye aiming for history but getting the current affairs question. "Your current affairs question, for £50. Who in 1933..."

Don't worry about the elections now - the results aren't even all in yet. Instead, sit back and listen to @profafinlayson.bsky.social and I discuss the relationship between politics and religion. Here, or search for Culture, Power, Politics in a podcast app: culturepowerpolitics.org/2026/05/08/r...

Labour leadership saying people want ‘change faster’ is yet another manifestation of nanagerial ‘delivery’ mindset. No. What people want is a narrative that indicates an understanding of what has happened to Britain and a willingness to challenge powerful interests to fix it.

We're setting up the first episodes of our new series, looking at why Suite (212) is coming back, Labour's cultural policy since 2024, filmmaking in Ukraine after 2022, and more. To help us, why not support the programme as little as £3 p/month? www.patreon.com/posts/155687...

Justin has worked tirelessly on this stuff for years and the corporate internet's war on sexuality is causing vital sex education things to be buried. Share far and wide

Justin continues to do important work, even in the face of constant attack from the right. So please help him out with what he's asking.

Just to clarify. You're not sharing it because you think someone you follow might need it. It's to send Google 'a signal' that it's a good resource. I hate it but if it ranks in the top 1 or 2 again many more thousands of people will read this inclusive, critical, biopsychosocial guide each day

This deserves to be circulated. A former Red Cross staff member got in touch. She testifies about @zackpolanski.bsky.social's role. For transparency: her name is Brea Thibodeau. The whole thing is a desperate smear.

I know it's hard sharing stuff like this but come on now...

"We have interviewed over 75 women who were detained.. all the women say the thing about sexual violence, including rape, sexual torture, sexual humiliation.. its systematic.." Kifaya Khraim from the Women's Centre for Legal Aid & Counselling on women being raped & tortured in Israeli jails

perhaps the most curious fact from our long read today on the Mandelson scandal www.ft.com/content/a829...

The Terror Attack Media Refused To Cover - Newswatch Ep1