You know. I just think it’s really funny that the second Taylor stopped dating Ratty no one had anything to say about his problematic behaviors anymore. So y’all really didn’t care at all and you just saw a reason to lash out at a woman? That’s not very fuck the patriarchy of you.

THE DATES ARE AVAILABLE. I REPEAT, THE DATES ARE AVAILABLE. I AM IN TEARS 😭😭😭🎉🎉🎉

I'm sorry, I'm not going to be able to stop yapping about this 😭 my whole family is in AND AND AND my dads girlfriend already got her two photographer friends to agree to come and photograph 😭😭 I'M GONNA CRY!!!

Now that my cruise wedding is actually a real possibility, it's all I want to talk about but I have no one to talk to about it 😭 I'm dying for Thursday so I can make it official with the cruise line 😭

I don't want to work 😠 I want to think about my cruise wedding 😠 I'm too distracted for this 😠

SOOOO I hadn't talked to my family about my cruise wedding plans yet and I've been DREADING it because I didn't think everyone would be willing. Apparently someone saw my Facebook post in a photography group... LONG STORY SHORT. ALMOST EVERYONE HAS AGREED. THIS MIGHT ACTUALLY FUCKING HAPPEN 🤩🤩🤩

Someone came in and won't shut the fuck up now 😐 I was having such a nice day 😐

I'm apparently alone in my whole office today? 😌

All I think about lately is wedding planning and I'm desperate for my appointment next week so I can finally make a decision if we're going with the cruise plan or if I need to start planning something else 😭 aaahhh 😭 I'm really just praying it goes well and I can have what I want 😭

Make up girlies!! Do you have any recommendations on where to start for tutorials? I think I'm going to need to do my own wedding make up and I only ever use mascara 🥲 I need to start practicing ASAP and don't know where to start or who to watch on YouTube. SUPER beginner stuff needed!

Me posting on a photography group asking if anyone would be interested in shooting my wedding in exchange for going on a cruise and instantly getting too many DMs

I've been having crazy dreams lately and it only just clicked that it's because I stopped smoking weed 😅😅 I do miss the peaceful sleep 😭

I'm in such a bad mood already today and then just saw the Elizabeth Taylor RSD vinyl and I'm already scheduled to work on RSD!!!! 🤗🤗🤗 fuuuuuuuuck me.

So my company shut down two days last week because of snow and didn't offer anyone to work from home or anything. Now I'm being forced to use sick time to get to 30 hours or else I'll have to pay full price for the health benefits. What the actual fuck dude.

I really hope I can get everyone (including the groom) on board (haha) enough to have my cruise wedding. It's really the only option that actually excites me. I know my fiance wants to get married on a cruise too but idk about him getting the time off so soon (October)

If anyone's curious, it's now been six weeks! 🥹 I just wanted to give an update because there was once a time where I didn't believe this to be possible. I thought I was pretty much trapped in my own cycle forever. But I've been doing so good and am really proud of myself 🥹

hi. as you can see, i’m extremely overdrawn at the moment. i also got an email from chase saying that they may close my account if no action is taken asap so 😬 i’m hoping to make $400 just so that i can be over zero…please consider helping me out/reposting?? vmno: jessica-tames pp: jessicaitames

In the past two hours, I've become damn-near set that this is what I'm doing. I'm so tired of trying to plan a wedding that caters to everyone else and not me. Come or don't, I don't care 🤪 I'll have a legal ceremony and lunch here for people that don't want to cruise! Done 🤪

Hypothetical: If your immediate family member (sister/daughter) was getting married on a cruise (which is only a symbolic ceremony) and you did not want to go on a cruise. Would being invited to the local legal ceremony be a sufficient compromise? Or would you expect them to change their plans?

Back to thinking of doing a cruise wedding instead of a normal wedding but I don't think I'll be able to get my family onto a cruise ship. It's really my sister and my mom that I'm worried about, but I'm going to offer to pay for their whole vacation so maybe that'll help.

When are we, as a society, going to accept that all working hours cannot be the same? We need to start staggering work times. How am I supposed to make appointments when my working hours are the same as theirs?? 😡

It's funny, the more wedding venues I look at, the less I want to have a wedding 🤗🤗

My fiance and I are going to look at a castle wedding venue this weekend 🥹 It's a little out of our budget but could be worth it potentially. It's so hard to plan a small wedding though because they have a 50 guest minimum and I don't like that many people 🥲

One of the supervisors at work told me I could work from home if I started to feel worse and then he brought it up again and I said "if you're telling me it's okay, I'm going to go" and then he said "well you have to tell so-and-so and see what he says" Why did you say anything then 😭

Suuuper sick but convinced myself to come to work anyways aaaannnnd I left my lunchbox at home which also had my cough drops and stuff inside. Quietly crying at my desk currently.

The only way to remove ourselves from this horrific timeline is to avenge Harambe by someone pure kidnapping Punch and loving him properly

Okay thanks to @thefalsebolter.bsky.social that was a lot faster than expected!!! If I unfollowed you by accident, let me know!!! I am also now on the hunt for more active swiftie accounts, are there any lists???

I've been spending my free time trying to go through my following list and unfollow all the inactive accounts. If I accidentally unfollow you or if you're active and I don't currently follow you, lmk!!!

I'm finally getting the sickness that my fiance has had for a week and I want to die 🥲

Company is closed tomorrow too 🥴 paycheck next week is officially fucked 🤗

The impending blizzard has closed my company tomorrow. I'd so much rather work than lose the pay/work Saturday 🥲

My wedding budget is turning into a real "fuck it this only happens once" situation. Every single venue is expensive as fuck? I might as well spend the "little" extra and get married at a god damn castle

If I keep seeing videos of Punch the monkey getting bullied, some zookeepers in Japan better sleep with one eye open

Your social media is YOUR social media!!! Make it what you want!!!

Okay he seems more optimistic than I was??? He thinks he can get the time off???

I hate hearing (older) parents talk about "the new generation needing participation trophies." I grew up in the age of participation trophies. They meant nothing. We didn't want or need them, we knew they meant nothing. YOUR generation started handing them out, blame yourselves 🙄🙄🙄

So the deal with me working on vacation was that if the last one went well, I could go on more this year (I told them April and October). Well it seems like they're going to be approving it... But I can no longer go on another bc of my fiancés new job 😅

just because it’s been a while: my name is manda and my favourite album is [the tortured poets department] and my favourite song is [peter]

I was awake all night with nightmares that I was going to get pulled for the random drug tests today and I was going to fail 🥲 I'm so fucking tired 🥲

I'm looking at wedding venues and the first one says "Swifties, take note. June 13, 2026 is available" ??? Is that Taylor's wedding date??? Was that confirmed??? Is it just because it's the 13th???

being from one of the most educated part of the country 🤗 living amongst coastal elite style college kids 🤧

I bought at home drug tests so I could relieve some of my anxiety regarding random drug tests at work and tell me why the opioid line has the faintest negative line 🤔 I know for a fact that should be negative, it's making me doubt the test 😖 pretty sure it still means negative but why so faint 😭

(pls don't crucify me for this but I don't understand why people care about pancake day... am I missing something... do y'all really enjoy pancakes this much... why do we care so much about pancake day but no other food themed day...)

I just avoided getting into an accident on the highway that I am 100% certain would've killed me if I hadn't reacted the way I did. That level of fear while driving doesn't happen often to me, I'm still shaking.

First day back from vacation. My bosses made such a huuuge deal about me being gone because "invoicing can't wait that long." So I took my laptop and posted the billing throughout my vacation. They never processed the billing so there was literally no reason for me to work on vacation. 🤗

Gambling makes me so anxious 😭 I accidentally hit max bet and wasted $100

Our boat is finally pulling out of port 🥳 we were supposed to leave an hour ago but pretty sure we got frozen to the port and had to be broken free. Cruise time!!! 💃🕺

Ever since I saw the Our Song music video like 17 years ago, I've had this idea that painting your toenails should be pretty easy. It's not. Taylor lied to me.

I feel like things are going too good for this cruise... what am I forgetting...

no such thing as "right person wrong time." if they were the right person, time wouldn't matter