We started the year saying goodbye to a wonderful companion that grew up with each of our kids. Mayhem constantly looked out for and protected them. She was such a sweetheart and always offered a comforting snuggle. She’ll never be replaced in our hearts and memories.

this is no shade to johnna here. but i think it's important to mark a clear difference between writing to a purposefully narrow demo, & writing from an exclusionary lens that does not acknowledge and affirm the validity, goodness, beauty, wholeness, or even existence of every other demographic. 1/4

It was so good to be able to join this morning. My day was brighter because of the amazing people there

Do or Donut, there is now try

My favorite snake at the Dallas Zoo lights

I always feared literal quicksand growing up, not realizing it would actually look like white evangelical indoctrination

If anything, @cortland.me sharing his daily fit is bringing me joy. Give him a follow! ❤️

The more I process about the convo I had with my gaslighting and manipulative mother over Thanksgiving the more baffled I get

Talking to my mom about any kind of difficult topic this past weekend was like talking to an AI chatbot whose prompt was to spout off f*x news and white evangelical talking points while completely ignoring cognitive dissonance

CSI: Drury Lane

Talking to my mom about any kind of difficult topic this past weekend was like talking to an AI chatbot whose prompt was to spout off f*x news and white evangelical talking points while completely ignoring cognitive dissonance

i'm not serious on this account very often. but if you don't make it clear that you ride with trans users here, i will seriously campaign for you to be nuclear blocked into oblivion.

Not my mom telling me over Thanksgiving I was diagnosed as ADHD in grade school and they never told me and never got me meds because they were scared of the side effects and I got myself diagnosed at 40 years old and appreciate the meds now

Not my mom telling me over Thanksgiving I was diagnosed as ADHD in grade school and they never told me and never got me meds because they were scared of the side effects and I got myself diagnosed at 40 years old and appreciate the meds now

Having a very tense conversation with a conflict avoidant parent while I’m trying to heal/work on my own conflict avoidance was not fun

So people are using APIs to automatically like and follow people here based on keywords in posts? Cool cool cool…

Trickle down didn’t work for economics, but you expect it to work for washing your legs?!

Two vital pieces of info b4 Black Friday: 1. Price trackers have proven that Amazon has been slowly hiking prices so they can pretend to slash them on Black Friday/Cyber Monday. There are no actual deals. Just the appearance of them. 2. Amazon workers are on strike www.google.com/amp/s/amp.th...

Disassociate! During the holidays

It’s a donuts and Dutch Bros day. Wearing my ATL hat with the Content Warning event coming up on my mind. I’d love to see you there if you can make it!

In honor of all the new arrivals, I'm sharing one of my favorite videos. It shows 24 hours of Earth's rotation, with the camera locked to the sky instead of the ground. We're all hanging out on this spinning rock. Brilliant work by Bartosz Wojczyński. 🧪 artuniverse.eu/gallery/1907...

I just realized @flavorflav.bsky.social is on Bluesky because of course he is. My apologies for the misspelling of your name, kind sir 🫶🏼🕐

The community that we have almost every Tuesday morning in Deconstruction Coffee Hour is next level. Today we cried and listened to poetry and laughed too and swore and talked about Wicked and said all the things. Thank you. ☕️✨

It’s a donuts and Dutch Bros day. Wearing my ATL hat with the Content Warning event coming up on my mind. I’d love to see you there if you can make it!

Part a GIF of your comfort show

I’m very motivated by @cortland.me to go thrift shopping

Have I Got News For You got picked up for a second season and I’m so pumped! @amberruffin.bsky.social bringing some great energy with Tim Burchett on the show was worth the watch alone!

Maybe it’s the meds, but I marked up a Google image screenshot of a problematic intersection in our town and sent it to public works AND I called to cancel a $10 per month subscription I don’t use You could say things are going pretty well…

Hey, can I share one of my favorite pictures I ever took?

If y’all want…1 like for 1 Roscoe lore

Guess I’m gonna have to start a Google Doc for my drafts here

Guess I’m gonna have to start a Google Doc for my drafts here

If y’all want…1 like for 1 Roscoe lore

Hey, can I share one of my favorite pictures I ever took?

Blood work and lots of meds for the aging doggo on a Sunday before a holiday are not things I wanted to be doing…

I know people over in the yarn barn are tagging cities so they can connect online with people in their area, but I hesitate to comment because I live in the Dallas, TX area and so badly don’t want to associate with it

With the little bit of spirituality rattling around in me, I find less and less interest in tying myself to a holy book, even to criticize it

What level of deconstruction is bringing up the Thereafter podcast in therapy?

Guess what I’m brining up in my next therapy appointment?

🌌 Lakotaman is a horrendous scammer and should be blocked into the ground and never heard from again an actual scourge on our community

While I miss Colorado constantly, lately it’s been really strong

“It’s fine with me if Mom says ok” - the original two-step verification

What level of deconstruction is bringing up the Thereafter podcast in therapy?

With the little bit of spirituality rattling around in me, I find less and less interest in tying myself to a holy book, even to criticize it

I really want to build a banned book list for my kids, but I’m terrible at deciphering reading levels and what not. Google results are overhearing to my ADHD brain

Hey, I like y’all 🫶🏼

It cannot be understated how incredibly grateful I am to know @thepursuinglife.bsky.social and @cortland.me and call them friends. ❤️❤️❤️ I was reminded of that listening to the most recent episode of their Thereafter podcast

I meant “overstated”, but the sentiment is definitely strong there

It cannot be understated how incredibly grateful I am to know @thepursuinglife.bsky.social and @cortland.me and call them friends. ❤️❤️❤️ I was reminded of that listening to the most recent episode of their Thereafter podcast

I know I’ve said this a thousand times but I don’t care. I’ll say it again. I no longer have patience for Christian authors and speakers who have taken a non-stance on queer affirmation but are likely “privately affirming”. Take a fucking stance. “Privately affirming” isn’t a thing. 1/