Update on my idea to host a shoot house during AVN and general info on asking me to shoot. ❤️

Announcing this year's holiday card! A festive greenscreen pic of @valentinevonbettie.bsky.social @aprilflores.bsky.social @jizlee.bsky.social from Eva Wu's film RED LIGHT GREEN. Proceeds donated to Sex Worker Giving Circle! @thirdwavefund.bsky.social ❤️💚 Get one: www.jizlee.com/2025-holiday...

The time is coming for me to enjoy some personal winter travels. Getting excited for January and AVN. Shoots are being planned and I am still hoping to host a femme4femme/them shoot space with enough interest. We shall see! I’m not going to force anything. 💋

Hey I notice you never try to make small changes to our agreements until I find it exhausting to enforce any boundaries with you and slowly find myself unable to fight back so I GUESS YOURE NOT INTERESTED IN BEING IN LOVE.

This.

If your childhood is unpleasant enough, you're never really going to enjoy holiday stuff. There's this day coming and it's going to be super unpleasant, and none of the adults acknowledge how bad it always is, but you know it's coming, and the TV, and everything, keep counting down.

Malice is a cool ass person and this is horrible to hear. I loved working with her for the AltPorn awards every year. If you can help her, please do.

December 5 2025 #MutualAidThread! See image or it's alt text for the rules. 🚨Reply to this post to participate in the thread.🚨 Follow this account to reply. Mutual aid resources: docs.google.com/document/d/1... #HelpSky #MABoost #FundSky #MutualAid #HelpFolksLive2025 💕💸

Still at $19/$220 for three of my prescriptions and honestly, I would just really like to have enough of these that I don’t have to spend my birthday next month figuring out how I can afford to order more of them.

#MABoost #SignalBoost #MutualAid #HelpFolksLive2025 💕💸

WASHINGTON AND OREGON CARTOONISTS: Seattle's bus service is commissioning 6 artists for public art pieces, 2 each, of local stories, 16-32 pages, over 2026, for $54k per artist, to be freely distributed over their ridership. details here: www.4culture.org/grants/movin...

Okay, I know this is wild but after watching this new Diddy doc - I am thinking he definitely had a hand in the deaths of Tupac and Biggie due to insane jealously. Maybe I haven’t paid attention if this has been mentioned in the past but Google was like “they were friends…blah blah”

I’m so, so intrigued by people who DON’T actually want shorter work weeks with livable wages. Like damn what schemes are you using “work” to cover? Are you worried you’ll have too much time on your hands and be expected to sit with yourself? Why does it feel offensive to them?

Hey friends, Malice McMunn was recently diagnosed with breast cancer. She has stepped away from the industry which she has been a part of for many, many years - sharing her GFM for donations. This was created by her sister Christy. gofund.me/7a4ddd4f3 Please share ❤️

@dahliavonknight.bsky.social totally dominated me in our new scene, coming out Friday!

I don’t like being mean so don’t put me in the position to be mean…

Starter pack train 🚂 All the sex worker starter packs in one place so we can all find each other. I'll be adding them as I see them, so feel free to add your own Hot tip: click "follow all" at the top of the list to instantly connect with everyone 😉

What computers / laptops are you using if you’re doing video editing, video chats / streaming and heavy business admin? I need a new beefed up machine and taking notes 📝

Good morning from a sleepy babe ✨ Random question: I need to get my eyebrows done again - would you recommend micro blading (the ink fell out from the last time I got it done but maybe it was the person) or cosmetic tattoo? 🤔

Thank you all for 4k 🥹🥳❤️

Ooooo! Can I swing with u! 😍😍

My tippers haven't been tipping lately and I don't like that. 🙂‍↔️ #payBlacksexworkers

Dropping some new lovely photos from the incredible @rick-rl.bsky.social It’s been a while and I will be doing my best to make up for the lack of fresh looks this past year💋

December will be closed to any bookings outside of what I have planned. I will be out of town and traveling with my partner getting ready for the new year. AVN season is upon us and I will be ready to marathon shoot with all of those who I have talked to so far 🥵

It’s been a doozie of a day in the ol non profit sector - would love to order in ❤️ Treat me? Cash: $vonbettie PayPal: [email protected]

One thing about me is I move slowly and intentionally - long gone are the days of chomping at the bit to do anything and everything. So if I’m not “jumping” at every possible request it’s because it doesn’t match my current speed, intentions and doesn’t actually feel exciting.

I had SUCH a great photoshoot today and have really missed my flow in doing this regularly! The last shoot I had in NY this Oct felt like such a breath of fresh air. Very excited to update my website and my ad sites with them. As well as share with you fine people. 💋

#nsfw #art #photography

You were incredible, Alice Wong, and it was a blessing to have collaborated with you on projects, to have read your words and to have heard your voice, as full of life and passion and joy and rage as it was. You made a difference—so much of a difference. Rest always in peace, and always in power.

if you’re a journalist who wants to talk about how embarrassing this week has been for our profession (the michael wolff, landon thomas jr, nuzzi/bernstein of it all) message me on signal

Okay but are they completing the assigned tasks?

Whoops I was too honest and told a guy I wasn’t wearing makeup when he requested a video call and then he deleted the whole chat. Sorry for ruining the fantasy! 😂

Another place to put your media besides MV is @sextpanther.bsky.social - they have a media folder option and you can drip your content on the main feed which can be free or $ then chat, talk or video call those interested! Want to sign up? Here’s my link: www.sextpanther.com/apply?id=48352

I love my German tutor, he’s the sweetest and so patient as I get the sentence structure down outside of knowing the meaning of words. A great reference from a mutual SW 🥹✨ Starting my morning off with language and doing some light work / home tasks. How are you all today?

I mentioned this on the bird app due to MV fuckery. But some sites that are great alternatives to MV are that I have personally used: @realapclips.bsky.social @pinklabeltv.bsky.social @makelovenotporn.bsky.social

Life has been so abundant and good since moving to Vegas - I feel like I can breathe. Portland felt like clawing through quicksand in so many ways. This is your reminder you can start over whenever you want to. It may not be easy, it may downright be messy and painful. But you can do it. 💋

Anyone having or have had the issue on Tryst where they tell you, you can bump every two hours at the top tier…but are still only allowed to bump every 4 hours? What am I even paying for…? No response from them either and it’s been a week.

Birthday wishlist attached - I put some very yummy items on it that of course you will get to reap the benefits of by seeing me in or use them 🤭 Also, some larger ticket items for the ambitious buyer. And some camera equipment items to I can grow. amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls…

Time to hunker down - In addition to LA, I am also pulling my birthday trip to Portland off as well. I will be enjoying some much needed down time. I will be back to PDX for most of December as I will be co-hosting a D-17 event and my winter break from my other organization.

Sadly Los Angeles didn’t work out for @ashleypaigenyc.bsky.social and I this weekend after a series of personal and external events. We’re very disappointed and frustrated but alas those are the cards we are dealt at times.

Want to spend time with me in #losangeles this weekend? Book me here: darlingvalentine.me

Lashes and nails applied, first command of the army of sluts 💅 #spicysky #fuckdoll #nsfwsky #tgirl #femboyfriday #pink #bimbo #bimbofication

@ashleypaigenyc.bsky.social Los Angeles & NYC, I’m coming for you next. 📍LA: 11/8-10 Duo’s w/ @valentinevonbettie.bsky.social 📍NYC: 11/19-21 ✨Otherwise, available in Philly Books are open. Who’s ready to play? mistresspaigenyc.com

Out and about

Absolutely ADORE these photos @michamalvada.bsky.social took of me while visiting New York. 🥵❤️

For my birthday (Nov 15) I would love funds to finish my back tattoo on my next December Portland trip! I’m so excited it’s almost finished. He’s $200 an hour. Or new lingerie! I need to retire a number of my old sets. Please and thank you 🎁💐 I have many payment methods 🤭

This dancer was jumped by a group of people and viciously beaten in the dressing room while someone stole hers and other dancers belongings. The club of course is doing fuck all to support her. If you’d like the whole story she explains it on Instagram. She is in ROUGH shape ya’ll.

Some looks from this NY trip - I’m home in Vegas and ready to visit San Fran this weekend 🥰