Quote abridged to make it fit character limit. Y’all should read the whole thing! Wonderful interview and insight on asexuality and masculinity from @fluentlyaspec.bsky.social in this series by @codydo.bsky.social.

“I’ve always rejected the idea that virginity equates to immaturity and the concept of ‘becoming a man’ with sex as the gate. I’ve known plenty of people…who frankly disprove that theory…To be a man is to look out for others…you never stop learning, even if you’ve spent a lifetime teaching.” THIS!

It's Ace Week! I did this great One on One with fellow ace content creator Patrick Bex (@fluentlyaspec.bsky.social) about aspec masculinity.

For Pride this year, consider donating to Courage+ LGBTQIA youth facing homelessness and displacement. Also, give @fluentlyaspec.bsky.social ‘s video a watch and a like, and share with anyone you know.

New video! Yesterday I learned of a horrific bill that passed in the Tennessee state Senate forcing public schools to teach “success sequence” in life is high school, then college or career, then marriage, then children — in that order. Watch it here: youtu.be/ZSNtpvDAH_Y

Have you heard about SoulACE Day yet? SoulACE Day is a brand new observance taking place this Sunday, February 16 to celebrate African American Asexuals. Learn all about SoulACE Day with me as I sat down with cofounders Marshall & Kimberly for this new video! 🎥: youtu.be/-_EA3VfJNok

I'm about to do something l've NEVER done before... be a part of a YouTube livestream! Lynn Saga (@lynnsaga.bsky.social) is hosting me and Patrick Bex (@fluentlyaspec.bsky.social) for an event celebrating aspec poetry, in honor of Patrick's new book, Limitless! Tune in on Feb. 18, 7:30pm EST.

As an asexual myself, I have heard so many times people claiming they can "cure" me of being asexual. I've had people say "You just need to get laid right", "You just haven't had good sex", & "You've never been with me. And I've known many other aces who've heard the same.

I need to hear from some lithromantic folks if possible for something I’m working on. I want to ensure that what I’m working on is authentic and doesn’t misrepresent your experiences. Please DM me if you can help! Also if folks could repost this to get it out there, I would really appreciate it!

Dear algorithm, Please help me find an incredible ARC team who love to read LGBTQIA+ poetry ❤️ My debut Limitless: Poetry of an Aromantic & Asexual Journey, is looking for honest reviewers! I’ve created a sign-up if interested. forms.gle/ju6r7o4S5LiP...

suicide prevention is access to birth control. It’s HRT, for anyone who needs it. It’s accessible, safe abortion care. It’s comprehensive sex education that includes education about consent. No abstinence only. It’s resources for single parents. It’s resources for teen moms.

“Isn’t that just like everyone else?” “Do they just fall for their friends?” Demiromantic identities are far more complex than the one-track questions they’re often asked. Join me in exploring this diverse part of the #aromantic spectrum in this new video! youtu.be/ABXfybesYKY

Hi there! My debut book, Limitless: Poetry of an Aromantic & Asexual Journey, comes out in 2 months! I’m looking to build my ARC team & hopefully have some folks willing to leave reviews. I’m an author who appreciates honesty, & I send complimentary copies! Please DM if interested! #queerbooks

Hello everyone! I’m here with two quick requests for two of the most incredible and dedicated aspec creators out there. Firstly, I ask that you watch, like, comment, and share the following video by @lynnsaga.bsky.social Lynn is moving and needs your help! youtube.com/shorts/-Jarn...

I have some fantastic news regarding my book's preorder! Many independent bookstores use a program called Bookmanager allowing you to order through the bookstore online. Limitless is now available to many bookstores through this program now! #indieauthor #indiepoet #lgbtqbooks #asexual #aromantic

Feeling left out during cuffing season? Let’s redefine it together. 💙 In my latest video, I share tips for thriving as aroace this winter—celebrating platonic joy, finding meaningful hobbies, and embracing the little things that make the season special. ❄️ Check it out here: youtu.be/j6hIPXYQIoE

Also to help make it easier to find and order Limitless, to organize all of my work that I do into one place, and to prepare for whatever lies ahead with social media, I’ve created my own website! www.fluentlyaspec.com

I have literally waited over 25 years to make this announcement… I’m publishing a book! This has been my lifelong dream, and on February 18, 2025, my poetry collection will be available! It is up for preorder on Amazon now for Kindle and will soon be available through IngramSpark.

Just got my windshield replaced after a rock cracked it on the freeway earlier this week. Thankfully my insurance covered the whole thing 🥹 I’ve been so anxious about this all week. The cold weather and all the freeway driving I have to do for work really did a number on it. Stretch the whole way.

Hello Bluesky! I'm your friendly neighborhood Asexuality and Aromanticism Educator! Questions are welcome!

Yesterday was rough… but a quiet day in, working on a handful of projects, and watching football on the side has been helping ❤️ sometimes it’s the little things

If you are an asexual content creator and are looking to gain recognition in a world where asexual topics and issues hardly ever get talked about, please message me, and I will put you in my starter pack I'm creating to highlight all asexual content creators.

Hi! I'm Tyger Songbird. I'm an aromantic asexual writer and journalist who also writes and hosts trivia online. I'm looking to meet all trivia lovers, fellow aces and aros, and anyone who's just interested in learning more about both. Nice to meet you. #asexual #aromantic —Songbird 💜♠️🏹🂡

I don’t usually share what I’m doing in my classroom (if you don’t know, I teach middle school English), but right now my students are reading Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson. Yesterday was the 64th anniversary of Ruby Bridges attending William Frantz Elementary for the first time. 1/

🎆 #URGENT 🎆 I need $2180 in 🎇16 DAYS🎇to stay housed.🚨don’t ignore.🚨I’m #queer, #disabled, #nonbinary, #demisexual and in a red state. even $1 helps me stay housed andshares helps this get seen! (gif to #boost ) #HelpSky #crowdfund 🌟cA/v- secretladyspider 💫pp- [email protected]

There's an asexual spectrum starter pack! ♠️ If you would like your name added, reply below so Elise can keep track of who wants to be added. Repost so other people can find this! go.bsky.app/QaW4ED4

Hi everyone! If you haven’t seen me before, my name is Patrick, and I’m an #aromantic and #asexual content creator, activist, and writer. I make videos on TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. Would love to connect with fellow #aroace and #aspec folks and the #LGBTQIA community as a whole!