I always enjoy chatting with my executive job coach (restart scheme). He’s such a knowledgeable guy but super easy going with it, and super positive. I always come away lifted and feeling better about myself and my prospects. It’s so easy to get down on yourself in isolation 😅

I don’t know why I’m suddenly having/remembering dreams after decades of not, but last night I dreaned I realised the entire universe is borne of a single wave function which explained both why the speed of light is constant and why the universe is expanding.. on waking I’m not sure it’s not true 😅

Being both trans and autistic is a fucking wild ride right now.

I really wish I could help you all. Like, I can’t, because I’m barely able to help myself right now, but I wish I could. If I had a million dollars, you know..

Ok so I’m going to need to move by the end of October and have no prospects or savings or social circles.

Just $53 left to raise now! With each donation, I can breathe a little deeper. (I also have Venmo: @kalinichta and PayPal: [email protected] for those who may prefer to give that way.) #HelpSky #MABoost #FundSky #MutualAid #HelpFolksLive2025 💕💸

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Today’s theme: angry music in a sexy dress.

“Bitch."

I’m just so ashamed and disappointed in myself. I haven’t broken anything in frustration or anger in well over a decade. I don’t like what this situation is doing to me at all 😔

I thought I was OK. Turns out I am not OK.

So many cars out of position this start is gonna be nuts 🫣 Love this track though, it doesn’t take prisoners 😅 🏎️💨 F1 obviously

“You seem to know a lot about [topic]” Ah yes, you’re referring to “the ghost of special interest past”

In other news the latest Deftones album is a banger 🤘

Apropos of nothing (and ‘cause I need to think about something else) the more I use macOS 26 the more I'm convinced Apple have finally lost the plot on UI/UX. It’s actually shocking how many good and solid principles they’ve thrown out in this iteration..

Omg my lil guy is so huggy today and I’m loving it 🥺

Have some good news on your timeline! 💖

My lil guy is protecting me in Minecraft, running after mobs shouting “GET AWAY FROM MY FRIEND!” 😂🥰

Mind goblin.. fucking lol

Join Her Party 😆

😆 FYI my little guy just called these rainbow blankets 🏳️‍🌈

Lazy morning lying in bed with my lil guy watching cartoons 😊

I was almost asleep and my brain went “mind goblin” and I fucken laughed myself awake again 😂

So I’m standing in the shower with soap in my hands and as I snap the bottle shut - before I can even react - a good glob of soap flies from the cap and hits me square in the eyeball. Right in the fricken pupil. I just laughed, then cried a bit, then laughed so fucking hard I got a stitch.

Made the mistake of singing my lil guy an impromptu super hero theme song while putting him to bed and now it’s all I can hear 😆

Got my UC today of ~£960 which includes rent, bills and food, and the moment it hit my account £270 went straight out to the energy company. Rent for the house I’m stuck in ’til I can find another is £1150. So I’m already ~£460 down before I’ve even started. I just don’t know how long I can do this.

If you have a Ruby Central membership, please consider cancelling it and investing in Ruby conferences and gem maintainers instead.

A time honoured tradition still going strong in 2025.

On the (non-sarcastic) plus side I have to walk a few miles and back in an hour or so for my in-person UC appt. I genuinely don’t mind being forced out of the house and into different scenery. It’ll do me good 😅

My kettle just broke and I most definitely can’t afford a new one with the ~£2.50 I have to my name.. hahaha

Oh my I needed this today 😆

LinkedIn nailing it. I know this beacuse I don’t know one single person it’s told me "You may know..” 😅

TFW you type out a post in one go and it’s exactly 300 characters.

The fuck 🫣

I shit you not I saw a job advert today that *literally* said that your use of AI will be part of your periodic performance review process and if you’re not using it enough they’ll let you go.

The gaul of folks writing technical articles about AI with AI then monetizing them behind paywalls 🙃

Fuck this day already lol 😂

I might sound like an angry woman shouting at clouds now, but we’re already seeing the massively detrimental ecological impacts of the expansion of our technology and this is barely even the tip of the iceberg, and in 10 years we’ll all be wishing we’d have been shouting about it sooner. A mini 🧵

I got an absolute grilling in my UC appt yesterday and I’m still quite raw and struggling to not feel worthless today 😅

Fuck the truth hurts 😅😅

Discovered a new term today that apparently winds up the vibe coders on LinkedIn: “expert beginners"

Honestly this kid’s humour is top tier. When we finished up I said to him “hey thanks for playing with me, that was fun!” and he smirks at me and says “if you enjoyed your day, don’t forget to like and subscribe!” 😂

It’s minecraft with kiddo time wish me luck 😆

Dish soap and washing detergent being sold in 2x and 4x strength variants is a really good example of physical enshittification.

You’re not lazy, you’re just anti-inefficiency.

Seems my inner bitch is rearing her head today, and I don’t mind a bit.

Right AuDHD fam, it’s time to get our asses in gear and get on with it. C’mon, you can do it. Get on your feet (proverbial if appropriate) and take the first step. We got this!

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had a joke with a lady in the women's bathrooms last night. I was a bit tipsy and nearly walked straight through a mirror thinking it was another stall and she joined in the bants when I was giggling about it and telling my wife. The EHRC, SC, etc. None of it matters. Live your life freely.