When polyamory is framed as an identity rather than a relational practice, questions about asymmetry, emotional labor, and who accommodates whom become harder to pose. These questions belong to the ordinary ethics of relationships, not the politics of recognition. open.substack.com/pub/erinrwil...

🚨 erin williams on lindy west 🚨 @erinrwilliams.bsky.social on lindy west 🚨 erinrwilliams.substack.com/p/when-does-...

jonny you are a darling for giving me this opportunity to self promote. passing that opportunity along to newsletter authors whose stuff i read EVERY time: @nikostratis.com , @erinrwilliams.bsky.social , @lukeoneil47.bsky.social , @ellomelissa.bsky.social , and the beautiful devin kelly

repair your sanity and piss off the fascists with this one weird trick

This is the biggest attack on free speech since the McCarthy era but it also has significantly less popular consensus behind it than the second Red Scare. It's being done on behalf of a minority faction led by the most unpopular president in modern history. Organizing against this can win.

"It's just the science." They said. "It's just the science." They continue to say.

we weren’t lovers; we were coauthors of a failed experiment in asynchronous intimacy open.substack.com/pub/erinrwil...

new comic up on substack about some lesser known miracles. open.substack.com/pub/erinrwil...

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things are starting to calm down but the basic act of feeding ourselves will remain a challenge for the foreseeable future so our friend megan made us a meal train page — if you can contribute a meal for us, either in person or via gift cards, it would be a MASSIVE help mealtrain.com/yrddwe