You don't need more sex tips, you need to heal the shame that you're still carrying in your body and spirit.

It’s called Snap Roulette: you open up Snapchat and your boyfriend picks one snap from your phone to open while sitting in the middle of the living room with family

Someone I’ve known for years inside the Queer Theology community is facing a really tough time. They’re a survivor of domestic abuse, living w complex chronic health conditions, and in the middle of being evicted. Can you join me in kicking in a few points to help: www.gofundme.com/f/continue-t...

You should also check out @thisisbgm.bsky.social’s new book, LOVE BEYOND MONOGAMY—it is FAB! bookshop.org/p/books/love...

If polyamorous people can figure out how, where, and with who to spend holidays when having 3 partners, I promise you and your parents and your in-laws can work it out.

“Waiting until marriage” Monogamy Chastity cages are all different flavors of power exchange play—just with varying levels of consent and coercion

Sorting out “do I not like this? or am I ashamed to like this?” is such a thorny task sometimes…

Sex and romance are not at odds. Neither are promiscuity and commitment. Nor autonomy and interdependence. You are big enough to hold it all.

one of my niche skills is regularly leaving one of the top 2 most liked comments on Instagram reels. the sense of creative accomplishment it gives me!

My friend @thisisbgm.bsky.social wrote a book! I just finished reading an ARC and it’s really good! Check out my review: www.goodreads.com/review/show/... And pre-order it for yourself!

When listening on AirPods Pro does music sound better with Apple Music vs Spotify? Or am I having auditory hallucinations?

It's difficult to estimate just how much pain this man caused, both directly and through others he infected with his hateful perversion of faith and spirituality.

What Law of the universe is it that all the guys on Grindr want to meet IMMEDIATELY after you give up and get off??

“We outlived James Dobson” is little comfort to me as I have a number of dear friends who didn’t outlive him. He’s not the only reason they’re gone, but he made this world a place where it was that much harder for them to survive. May we see the end of fundamentalism speedily & in our days.

This is how you do it. Troll tweeting is cute for a minute. Actual action and protection is better. Thanks, gov ❤️🏳️‍🌈

After I came out, there was a period where my dad and I were really struggling to talk about it. A few months in, he told he’d bought a book to try to understand better. I looked and saw it was endorsed by Focus On The Family. I told him it wasn’t to going to be helpful and to throw it away…

There’s a special kind of joy that comes with playing wingman for your husband

Live a life where people aren't happy when you die.

Two things can be true: - I want to believe no one is irredeemable - James Dobson made the world a worse place and we are better off without him May those of us still here work to undo all the harm he wrought upon us.

I would choose to be gay. Over and over and over again.

The Confederates never took DC and they’re still made about it. There’s always work to be done to build a more just world, but man oh man is Washington DC precious. My heart with the city whose shadow I grew up in 🫶

Do you love HIM or do you love what he does for you? How he makes you feel? How others perceive you? There’s a big distinction there.

i live in the burnt out husk of minneapolis and when i had hair, it was blue! I'm tougher than you snowflakes!

what if love is bigger, wider, deeper than we ever imagined? let's find out together.

I know Cuomo is trying to rehab his image post-primary defeat but honestly... every time he posts, he says something that makes me like him even less

What if all the ways we love—and lay 😉—were special? What if your relationships were expressions of your values? What if you could honor all the people & experiences that shaped you? What if believing in something bigger than yourself mattered? What if friends could be family?

yesterday was National Underwear Day (I know because we talked about it on the Poly Possibilities call last night 🤪) Since I find out about it until too late, here's a belated undie pic. Happy Day After National Underwear Day

Just found out that the cover of my book got sent to the printer today! Ahhhh! it's happening!

New video on sexual health when you've got multiple partners! Whether you're open, polyamorous, or simply dating around, this one is for you: youtu.be/kC5Ndq0vrQA?...

New video on sexual health when you've got multiple partners! Whether you're open, polyamorous, or simply dating around, this one is for you: youtu.be/kC5Ndq0vrQA?...

Happy Hump Day to all, and especially to everyone who is both an ethical slut AND a hopeless romantic 💙😈

I saw a TikTok today quoting the Buddha that said, "If you give me a gift and I do not receive, whose is it?" "It's still mine." "The same thing is true with your insults and anger" that's energy right there, folks.

you can appreciate science and you can also appreciate awe & wonder. i promise your life will be richer for it.

"We should not starve anyone to death" should not be a controversial take.

If the citizens of Sodom had acted more like LGBTQ & polyam people, the city might have been spared. The sin of Sodom is explicitly named as neglect of the poor and inhospitality to the stranger. LGBTQ ppl fund each others transitions and some of us regularly welcome strangers into our homes 😉😈

Through their work, Andrea helped me see the world with new eyes. Though they never knew me, they inspired me to pay attention to the small details of the people I cherish, to find beauty even in the hard times, and to make meaning with my words. May we all know loves like Andrea knew.

the way we queers do relationships and love that blurs lines is truly a gift and it's available to anyone who wants to learn from it

VERY NSWF - Himeros is running a Pride sale. $99 for the whole year. I snagged a similar deal years ago and have been paying for it ever since. My only recurring p0rn sub 😈 If you're a queer male, I highly recommend: bit.ly/40l9ElG (the models I know who worked with them speak very highly of it)

One of most frustrating parts of starting or restarting something new for me is that in the beginning… I’m just bad at it. So then it feels like a “waste” of time. I’m trying to get back into making videos about queer and nonmonogamous relationships and OMG it’s a slog

Words create reality. Tell the people you love them you love them more often. Try teasing them a little less. See what shifts.

The Tea Party protests in April 2009 had about a third of a million people involved, and the political media treated it like a game changer for the Obama presidency. The No Kings rallies were AT LEAST ten times bigger than the Tea Party protests. Will the press keep pretending Trump is popular?

Connections with caregivers are key for children’s wellbeing, but the prison system is designed to tear families apart.

🌲Ed Sheeran explains to Louis Theroux that he dislikes private jets and prefers trains because "I like the environment, I like trees." We know that this type of messaging from celebrities is hugely impactful. We need far more of this from more stars. As posted by @nowthisimpact.bsky.social

smiles by day smoulders by night

Evergreen reminder to keep connections with your friends even when you start dating someone new!

Per the NYTimes, a Disciples of Christ pastor confronted agents (presumably ICE) in front of her church as they detained a man. When the pastor shouted instructions in Spanish at the man as he was detained, an agent pointed a gun at her. Then, they laughed.

Want to be a better ally, but not sure you're doing it right? Educating yourself is always the answer! Here's a bunch of resources from Jessica Kingsley Publishers and the Reading Is Resistance campaign. us.jkp.com/collections/...