"This is, admittedly, not a terribly sexy topic," Stephanie H. Murray writes, but it is an intriguing one: She dives into some striking data showing how commutes affect women's employment and earnings, especially after they have kids—and thus the gender wage gap. www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...

"The reality is that we’re all on the 'dead people' beat now." Devastating and true, from @juliettekayyem.bsky.social. www.theatlantic.com/ideas/2025/1...

“Instead of learning the textbook definitions of psychological disorders,” @olgakhazan.bsky.social writes, “laypeople are absorbing the oversimplified versions, then diagnosing their spouse.” Might this sound familiar? Then you need to read this good piece: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...

“An employer whose new hire ghosts before onboarding is inconvenienced; an applicant who’s ghosted by prospective employers over and over again can end up sleeping in their car.” Sharp analysis of the “job ghosting” phenomenon by Franklin Schneider: www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...

Some sprout recipes "involve individually pulling all the layers of leaves off each one, which sounds like some kind of boarding-school detention." Now seriously second-guessing my Thanksgiving choices thanks to this delightful piece by @giladedelman.bsky.social. www.theatlantic.com/ideas/2025/1...

Bless @sophiegilbert.bsky.social @theatlantic.com: "The past decade has been a gloomy lesson in how limited a proportion of men actually see women as equal human beings...The fish rots from the head. The pig is in the Oval Office." www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...

“The assumption behind Cluely is that letting an AI pull a Cyrano yields better interactions than relying on your own brain,” @julieebeck.bsky.social writes. Her verdict after testing it: It's horribly inefficient—and could in fact harm your relationships. www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...

Now you, too, can count down to Christmas, @elcush.bsky.social writes, by unboxing: tea, designer lipstick, wine, weed, chili crisp, cheese, knives, crystals...toys for children, toys for cats, toys for dogs, toys for sex (or a daily thong). www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...

“Without exposure to the normal variety of bodies, we may become less comfortable with our own.” A fun, fascinating @theatlantic.com piece by Jacob Beckert on the decline of mundane, everyday opportunities to get naked together: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...

"The political reality in 2025 is that our government is as stereotypically masculine as a dick-measuring contest in a weight room": @sophiegilbert.bsky.social @theatlantic.com wades into the "great feminization" debate and it is 🔥🔥🔥: www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...

Some beautiful advice from James Parker @theatlantic.com as he wraps up his “Dear James” column: “If we can stay connected to the miraculous and fleeting fact of being here at all, we’ll have at least a chance of being—eventually—okay.” www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...

"College is, among other things, an exercise in independence": I recommend this piece to any parents of rising freshmen who might be experiencing "an inability to let go, to allow children the gift of separation," as Russell Shaw writes: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...

Leni Riefenstahl’s 1938 film on the Berlin Olympics is dull in the way porn is, @sallyjenx.bsky.social writes: It has an obsession with "perfect" bodies; "monotony; repetitive floggings.” But a riveting new doc offers a better way to decipher her work—and Nazism: www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...

"Convenience is like sex: Once you’ve had it, it’s hard to forget how good it is to have it," @elcush.bsky.social writes. So it has gone with restaurants and delivery—and the results are...not great.

"How nice to read about a heist rather than a massacre"—especially when the article about that heist is by @caity.bsky.social: www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv...

Many people have claimed that wealthy moms are "the most miserable and stressed." But Stephanie H. Murray, after a deep dive into the research on parental well-being, finds that in many instances, the opposite is true: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...

Such a moving, powerful essay by Reem Kassis: "My grief from witnessing what has been done to my people is so vast, so relentless, that sadness over my grandmother’s death feels like something too indulgent. I am heartbroken, and I am ashamed of that heartbreak." www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...

Where the grandparents are willing: Would you pay them for child care? Marina Lopes makes a persuasive case for doing just that: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...

“I am absolutely terrified that they would take away what I do have…because they took away what I did have.” @nicolechung.bsky.social on birth mothers in open adoptions and what happens when their contact with their children is curtailed: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...

Parents and educators, please share with your schools: @theatlantic.com is offering U.S. public high schools FREE IP-based access to our journalism—an excellent way to improve news literacy and inspire a new generation of independent thinkers. For info, visit theatlantic.com/hsaccess.

As a person who doesn't get invitations to reunions (because: didn't do normal high school), I'm fascinated by other people's—and am loving this essay by Jordan Michelman (h/t my @theatlantic.com colleague Serena Dai for shepherding) www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

The inimitable @petridishes.bsky.social, saying it all out loud. www.theatlantic.com/newsletters/...

Excellent analysis from @katemanne.bsky.social katemanne.substack.com/p/why-marria...

Loving this advice from James Parker to a 19-year-old pining for romantic attention: “You do not need to be thinner, smarter, or better. I don’t mean to be glib about the effects of generations of patriarchal damage and...consumerism, but—you’ve got to get that stuff out of your head. It’s poison.”

A case against phones at school: Besides distracting kids from learning, phones are "a digital umbilical cord tethering students to their parents,” @gailcornwall.com writes—diminishing kids’ autonomy and setting an expectation that parents must always be on duty. www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

ICYMI: Fascinating piece by @faith-hill.bsky.social sky.social @theatlantic.com on single men choosing to become dads, and how this plays out in their personal relationships + affects their sense of self. A nuanced look at tangly territory: www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

“When women realized they couldn’t rely on the men in their life, they tried instead to rely on other women,” @faith-hill.bsky.social @theatlantic.com writes. “In the end, misogyny got in the way of that too.” www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

“I’ve experienced too many moments,” @jessicaslice.bsky.social writes @theatlantic.com, “trapped upstairs while my family laughs, argues, sings, or cries, just out of reach.” A beautiful, harrowing essay shepherded by @katecray.bsky.social. www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

A moving essay by Julie Kim, whose daughter is one of millions of students “at risk of losing access to the crucial support systems that enable them to participate in American classrooms and ordinary life." www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

“More than one in five Gen Z adults identify as LGBTQ,” @emmasarappo.bsky.social writes. This generation is often described as "entitled." But "personal liberty *is* an American entitlement, and these young people will not readily give it up." www.theatlantic.com/culture/arch...

+1 to this entire @nytopinion.nytimes.com project. "The financial strain of raising children is a contributing factor to lower birthrates around the world." / "Children are human beings; they shouldn’t be a luxury good." www.nytimes.com/2025/06/25/o...

"Pick up a novel," @jeremygordon.bsky.social @theatlantic.com writes, for the value in seeking "new mental frontiers beyond the accumulation of information...It may shock you, the worlds you end up exploring—and the feelings you will stir up from nothing at all." www.theatlantic.com/books/archiv...

"One man has consistently cheered and helped execute the funding cuts that have exacerbated suffering and death." And yet... Powerful reporting by @cwarzel.bsky.social and @hana-kiros.bsky.social @theatlantic.com www.theatlantic.com/technology/a...

"If I want to work at a place that is excited to publish a wide range of opinions about things that aren’t free speech and free markets, that won’t involve getting a different job at a different publication...” Welcome to @theatlantic.com @petridishes.bsky.social! www.theatlantic.com/newsletters/...

Victor Hugo "was suspicious of kings, and for good reason," Megan Garber writes @theatlantic.com. "That sound you keep hearing might be Hugo not just rolling in his tomb but protesting from it." www.theatlantic.com/culture/arch...

With dating apps, “the slow burn has become less common,” @faith-hill.bsky.social @theatlantic.com reports. Instead, we get more snap judgments about romantic prospects—and, apparently, an increase in a “dreamily romantic notion” about how people fall in love. www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

“We are all performing some identity, in some way, and I can live with being a ‘guy who loves his wife a lot,’ no matter what nicknames it brings.” It’s official: @jeremygordon.bsky.social @theatlantic.com is the sweetest. www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

Some moral clarity from @julieebeck.bsky.social @theatlantic.com www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

Coming to you on Day 4 out of 5 of my kids’ most recent school spirit week, all I have to say is: I feel so seen. Thank you, @julieebeck.bsky.social — and @lianafinck.bsky.social for the wonderful art!: www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

🧵The logic when he was a kid, Joshua Coleman writes, was that raising boys to be “tough” would help them “meet the toughness of the world.” That notion is resurgent today in American politics and culture—and deeply flawed, Coleman argues: www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

"Democracy, under the sway of lies, becomes a form of anarchy": Megan Garber @theatlantic.com on how Walter Lippmann's "Public Opinion," published a century ago, foresaw our current politics. www.theatlantic.com/culture/arch...

So: What kind of dishwasher person are *you*? Ellen Cushing @theatlantic.com shows once again that she can write about pretty much anything and hit on what's interesting, funny, and deeply true. www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

🧵Such a good piece by @faith-hill.bsky.social on the expectations and burdens placed on modern grandparents—especially grandmothers. www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

This, from @adamserwer.bsky.social, is what I keep coming back to: "whatever their constitutional status, all of these things should be morally intolerable to any decent human being." www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv...

Upon learning she was losing her pregnancy, @ashleyrparker.bsky.social walked to the office and filed 35 inches of copy on Biden’s State of the Union address, on deadline, amid intense grief. Yes, what women bear, every day, is incredible—as is this essay: www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

"He has three types," the wife writes: "the standard whistle, with lips pursed; the tongue-between-the-teeth whistle, which is more high-pitched; and a 'lazy' whistle, where he’s sort of blowing air with no real tune..." James Parker to the rescue: www.theatlantic.com/culture/arch...

"Gaps in educational experience among heterosexual couples are growing again," Stephanie Murray writes. "And this time? It’s women who are 'marrying down.'" www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

“This is exactly why you’re the Queen Bee,” a line uttered by Sarah Sherman, most likely alludes to the the book that “Mean Girls” was based on, Megan Garber writes—and nods to “the willingness that grown men have shown to serve the queen bee in the White House.” www.theatlantic.com/culture/arch...

“The ones who stayed married were ones that weren’t looking just to get laid. They were looking for someone to understand them.” —Bert Kreischer // What happens when the (very funny) @olgakhazan.bsky.social decides to ask (also funny) comics for marriage tips: www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...

SO many people complain they're sick of the dating apps. And then there's this guy... www.theatlantic.com/culture/arch...