“Men act and women appear.” Berger warned us about the gaze. He never imagined the woman would turn it into a living. It's time to shake the stigma.

But it reinforces the same hierarchy: the woman who sells to women is “empowering.”
The woman who sells to men is “too much.” We sell to men—but we own it. That’s not too much. That’s modern. Both are showgirls. We just run the show.

Swift is selling—just not to men. She’s selling power, polish, and inspiro to women.
It’s performance feminism with merch. And that’s fine—brilliant even.

There’s the showgirl you (women) love—the one with sequins and stadium lights. And the showgirl you (women) ignore—the one with ring lights and receipts. Both are selling something, but to different audiences. Only one gets shadowbanned for it. #taylorswitft #lifeofashowgirl

But here’s the irony:
The real showgirls—the online performers, the self-made models, the ones selling presence, intimacy, and image—massively outnumber the ones on Vegas stages or pop tours. We’re the majority.
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I’m trying to put words to why “The Life of a Showgirl” hits weird for those of us who actually live it. It’s not that I don’t love the feathers, the flash, the power play—I do.
It’s that it’s not our showgirl. It’s the mainstream one—the sanitized kind.

Every so often the term “sex worker” pops up. But it’s not really a durable progressive concept. If prostitutes are just workers then men who pay them for sex are just consumers.

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Today’s lesson: the camera’s my mirror, not my master. I coach women to flip the gaze—profit from your power, not permission.

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