There’s a lot of attention in the air right now...conferences, expos, new eyes everywhere... In today's newsletter, I broke down how to turn moments of visibility into something that actually lasts. Want strategy that works after the noise fades? Click here:

Me every time someone tells me they voted. Like… you’re so real for that. Daily votes for AVN awards are open and I appreciate you more than you know. 🙏 Mel: buff.ly/8YTkixz Pod: buff.ly/vJo6UyR

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Not all “support” is supportive. Sometimes the biggest drain on your business is the person you share your bed with. This blog breaks down how to spot the difference between real support and quiet sabotage:

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Literally me remembering how supportive you’ve been through this whole journey. Daily votes for AVN are open and if you want to vote for me and the podcast, I’m so grateful. 🥹🫶 Mel: buff.ly/8YTkixz Pod: buff.ly/vJo6UyR

SW Advocacy doesn’t always look like protest. Sometimes it looks like having one uncomfortable conversation that changes someone’s perspective.

I'm over here still SO pumped I got nominated for 2 AVNs. If you have a minute to vote today, I’d be so grateful. 🥹🙏 Mel: buff.ly/8YTkixz Pod: buff.ly/vJo6UyR

ngl these AVN votes are making me a lil excited! If my work or the podcast has ever meant something to you, thank you for voting. 🫶 Mel: buff.ly/8YTkixz Pod: buff.ly/vJo6UyR

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Creators who film in the car...what phone mounts actually hold up and stay stable during shoots?

Me popping in to remind you that daily AVN voting exists. I’m still shocked by these nominations and so grateful. If you vote today, thank you. 🙏 Mel: buff.ly/8YTkixz Pod: buff.ly/vJo6UyR

If you’re starting the year tired, you might take it as a sign you're already failing. It's not. You're just outgrowing the version of you who hustled to survive.

Healing doesn’t always look soft. Sometimes it looks like taking back control of the very thing that once disempowered you.

Normalize raising your prices because you got better and nothing else.

Every creator you admire had seasons where nothing made sense. If you think you're confusion is a sign to quit...you're wrong. It’s a sign you’re leveling up.

Have you ever attended or submitted work to an industry film festival? Curious what the experience is actually like for creators.

A lil reminder that daily votes for AVN are open and I’m still so grateful for the love behind these nominations. Thank you for showing up for me. 🙏 Mel: buff.ly/8YTkixz Pod: buff.ly/vJo6UyR

SWers only: What’s the most unserious thing you’ve had to act professional about this week?

It's mid-Jan and I'm reminding you (and myself) we are not running late. We're running a solo media company with one employee and too many platforms.

Let's agree to make January about creating better better systems and not just "post more content"

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I'm curious...If you're a femdom creator, what cam site has been the most profitable or best suited for your style?

Me just casually checking if voting is still open (it is) and wondering if you voted today (only if you want). Thank you for supporting me, always. 🫶 Mel: buff.ly/8YTkixz Pod: buff.ly/vJo6UyR

Sometimes the smartest business move is logging off before you post something you’ll regret.

At some point, every adult creator has to evolve beyond the box they were put in.

Nobody tells us how to network properly at conferences like XBIZ, AVN or Exxxotica. I’m sharing the exact approach I use so industry events finally lead somewhere for you. Watch the full course on YouTube: youtu.be/RSHrR68ulXM

You ever look at your to-do list and realize it’s just ten different ways of saying “market yourself harder”?

SW didn't teach me confidence. It taught me emotional regulation under pressure. What has SW taught you?

What’s your standard turnaround time for customs? Do you feel like your buyers expect too much, or are shorter waits part of good service?

I’m not saying I stalk their page like it’s a mood board for my dream life…but I’m also not not saying that. Drop the @ of your fave creator. We all need that kind of inspo.

Reminder cat has entered the chat to tell you voting is open and you can vote daily. If my work or the podcast has ever made you feel supported, I’d be so grateful for your vote. 🙏 Mel: buff.ly/8YTkixz Pod: buff.ly/vJo6UyR

If your boundaries make people uncomfortable, that’s proof they’re working.

In this week’s newsletter, I broke down why visibility in adult is a strategy (not a requirement) and what actually fuels long-term growth. If you’re choosing sustainability over noise, subscribe now: 📩

🚨 Quick heads up, Squad. There will be no Twitter Spaces today or Jan 20. I’m at XBIZ LA and AVN Awards those weeks. If you’re attending either, hope I get to see you in person!

The algorithm didn’t reset with the year. Your mindset did. Use that.

Think you need a manager? What you actually need is a system that stops you from managing chaos.

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How do you spot social media trends early enough to actually benefit from them? Any favorite tools or methods?

Me sniffing the air like… is that the smell of daily AVN votes? If my work or the podcast has ever helped you, I’d be so grateful for your vote today. 🙏 Mel: buff.ly/8YTkixz Pod: buff.ly/vJo6UyR

You don’t owe fans your trauma for their tips.

🚨 Creator news worth knowing right now: 1️⃣ New York passes immunity law so creators can report crimes without fear

The fansite model isn’t the only path. And it’s not always the right path. If you hate constant DMs, don't want to churn daily content, or crave clearer “on/off” hours, you might be using the wrong model..

30 minutes ‘til co-working. Still pretending you're gonna get to that to-do list on your own? Be so serious.

Who’s in LA for XBIZ this week? Time to pretend “content strategy” isn’t just code for “survive award season.”

The most “CEO” thing you can do this month is plan like you already hit your goals.

Just a cute lil reminder that you can vote every single day for your favorite AVN nominees. If you’ve ever enjoyed my content or listened to the podcast, your vote would mean the world. 🥹 Mel: buff.ly/8YTkixz Pod: buff.ly/vJo6UyR

Me still processing TWO AVN nominations. If anything I’ve shared has ever helped you in your journey, I’d be so grateful for your vote today. 🙏 Mel: buff.ly/8YTkixz Pod: buff.ly/vJo6UyR

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