Wonderful first-time chat with former SD District Attorney Mara Elliott at the CASD Holiday Party. 🎄 Excited to support her campaign for California State Senate District 40—strong leadership matters. #MaraElliott #SanDiego #CASD

The fastest way to get divorced in California—especially for San Diego parents—is through mediation. It keeps the process efficient, reduces conflict, and prioritizes stability for your kids. If you’re looking for a smoother path forward, I can help.

Co-parenting through the holidays doesn’t have to be stressful. A little planning, flexibility, and kindness go a long way. 🦃🧡 Sharing a few simple Thanksgiving co-parenting tips to help families navigate the season with more ease and connection.

Thrilled to see my article “Amicable Divorce: A Modern Approach to Peaceful Separation” featured in The Local Paper! At Aloha Divorce™, we believe that separation can be handled with grace, respect, and collaboration — not conflict.

Are you considering divorce or legal separation in San Diego? 🌿 This new blog post breaks down the differences under California family law, what each option means, and how to move forward with clarity and compassion. 📖 Read now: aloha-divorce.com/divorce-vs-l...

"Who gets the dog?" isn’t just a joke anymore — it’s a real legal question in California divorces. 🐶 Join this upcoming webinar to learn how courts and attorneys are approaching pet custody. It’s free for patron members. #PetCustody #AlohaDivorce #AlohaPrenup 🔗 www.sdcba.org?pg=events&ev...

A great evening in La Jolla with colleagues at the San Diego Bar Foundation. 💙 Their work expanding access to justice for communities impacted by poverty, abuse, and discrimination is inspiring and so needed. #AccessToJustice #SanDiegoBarFoundation

Big news 🌴✨ Aloha Divorce is now in Solana Beach / Del Mar! 📍 445 Marine View Ave, Suite 300, Del Mar, CA 92014 Learn more: www.Aloha-Divorce.com #DivorceWithDignity #Prenup #DelMar

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Grateful for kind words like these. Every step we take is about making the divorce process less stressful, more compassionate, and focused on moving forward with confidence. 💛 #DivorceWithAloha #FamilyLaw #PositiveReviews

Loving how Aloha Divorce sets the tone right from the name! 🌺 Cassandra Michel shares how her unique firm name helps attract the right clients. If you want to build a firm with heart and strategy, listen: tinyurl.com/yyumevhe @alohadivorce.bsky.social #lawyers #lawyerlife #newsolo #alpsinsurance

🚨 "I built this to be stress-free, collaborative, and client-focused—growing with more problems isn’t the goal. Growing the bank account is." 🎧 Listen on Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/n... 🎧 Listen on Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/1cLXcxz... @alohadivorce.bsky.social

💬 “She truly has heart and wants the best for each family.” Grateful for this kind review! At Aloha Divorce, we lead with empathy and clarity through every step of your family law journey. 🌺 #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #ClientLove #AmicableDivorce #PrenupSupport

Aloha Divorce turns 5 today! 🌺 Grateful for five years of helping clients navigate divorce, prenups, and co-parenting with clarity and compassion. Here's to peaceful transitions and empowered new beginnings. #AlohaDivorce #5YearsInBusiness #FamilyLawWithHeart #LegalMilestone #AmicableDivorce

Truly honored to receive a Certificate of Recognition from Senator Catherine Blakespear and the California State Senate for my work with Aloha Divorce. Thank you to the North San Diego Business Chamber for naming me a finalist for the Distinguished Leadership Award.

Mediation = less stress, lower cost, and more collaboration. Aloha Divorce supports families through peaceful, child-focused resolutions. Let’s talk options 🌺 #DivorceMediation #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #PeacefulDivorce

Celebrating freedom in all forms today 🇺🇸 Whether it’s a new chapter after divorce or clarity through a prenup, legal independence matters too. #IndependenceDay #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #LegalEmpowerment #Prenup #DivorceWithDignity

“10/10 recommend!” 💬 Big thanks to Joanne for the heartfelt review. At Aloha Divorce™, we lead with clarity, compassion & practical solutions — helping clients navigate family law with less conflict and more aloha. 🌴 #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #PeacefulDivorce #ClientLove

Aloha vibes at last night’s Celebration of Business at the Bahia Resort! 🌺 So proud to celebrate local leaders like Sanjiv, founder of BYTES, for his well-earned recognition. Grateful to be part of a community that uplifts growth, grace & new beginnings. #AlohaDivorce #NorthCountySanDiego

We’re excited to share that Cassandra S. Koenig, founder of Aloha Divorce, is a finalist for the San Diego Business Journal's 40 Next Top Business Leaders Under Forty 2025 ! 🌺 🎟 Info: lnkd.in/gWWbeR-h #AlohaDivorce #EmergingLeader #FamilyLawWithHeart #SanDiegoBusiness #CelebrationOfBusiness

How a Postnup Could Help You Avoid Capital Gains Taxes on Real Estate And What You Might Be Giving Up in Divorce At Aloha Divorce, we often work with clients who are entering a new marriage later in life with valuable real estate already in their name. If this sounds like you—or your spouse—you…

How a Marriage Legally Ends in California Understanding the Three Legal Paths to Ending a MarriageFamily Code § 310 At Aloha Divorce, we believe that navigating the end of a marriage should begin with clarity. While many people associate divorce with the end of a relationship, it's important to…

What Makes a Marriage Legally Valid in California? At Aloha Divorce, we believe in clarity before conflict. Whether you're planning your wedding or reviewing past events for legal purposes, it helps to understand what actually makes a marriage legally valid in California. Here’s a breakdown of…

Is an Uncontested Online Divorce Right for You? Here’s What You Need to Know At Aloha Divorce, we believe in keeping the legal process as stress-free and straightforward as possible—especially when both spouses are on the same page. If you and your partner are looking for a simple, amicable way to…

Are Prenups Helping Lower the Divorce Rate? A Closer Look at the Trend Prenuptial agreements have long carried a certain stigma—once viewed as a sign of mistrust or a predictor of divorce. But that perspective is changing fast. Today, more couples than ever are turning to prenups not out of fear,…

Honoring the brave this #MemorialDay. In memory of many, in honor of all. 🇺🇸 Aloha Divorce offers discounted prenups for CA military & veterans—thank you for your service. #MilitaryDiscount #AlohaPrenup #MemorialDay2025

Can your law firm be both professional and personal? Join us for the latest #NewSoloFirstFlight as we revisit an inspiring chat with Cassandra Koeing of 🌸 @alohadivorce.bsky.social! Learn how leaning into her personality & values straight out of law school led to success. 🎧 tinyurl.com/yyumevhe

🌺 Aloha means peace—especially in divorce. 🌈 We’re honored by this kind review! At Aloha Divorce, we believe in thoughtful solutions, clear communication, and compassion every step of the way. Because your next chapter deserves peace of mind. #AlohaDivorce

Great time at the Solo & Small Firm Mixer hosted by Bonnici Law Group! Always inspired by the community he creates for solo attorneys. Also loved reconnecting with my incredible bookkeeper Rainee Fend of Fend Bookkeeping—she truly gets solo law firm finances. Highly recommend!

Beyond the Obvious: Subtle Forces That Lead to Divorce—And How Prenups Can Help Inspired by the Southern California Mediation Association Webinar: “Unknown Factors That Lead Couples to Divorce” At Aloha Divorce, we believe that legal planning is most powerful when it’s paired with emotional…

Sometimes clients prefer to meet in person—and when they do, it’s a rare treat! Had to snap a photo at the actual office to mark the occasion. ☀️ At Aloha Divorce, we meet you where you’re most comfortable—Zoom, phone, or face-to-face. #AlohaDivorce #AmicableDivorce #PrenupAttorney

When Prenups Go Wrong: The Knapp v. Ginsberg Malpractice Case Explained In a landmark case decided on August 5, 2021, the California Court of Appeal tackled a complex intersection of family law, estate planning, and legal malpractice in Knapp v. Ginsberg (2021) 67 Cal.App.5th 504. The court's…

Meet the Aloha Divorce ‘action figure’—equipped with prenup drafts, co-parenting tools, and a whole lot of empathy. Because family law doesn’t have to be combative—it can be collaborative, calm, and even… a little fun. ⚖️🤙 #PrenupAndFamilyLawAttorney #AlohaDivorce #CollaborativeLaw

Great time at last night’s Regional Connect hosted by BCG & @sdchamber! Met Joey from @zero8hundred—an incredible nonprofit helping service members & families transition to civilian life. 🙌 #VeteranSupport #Networking #AlohaDivorce #Zero8Hundred

Marriage Counseling or Mediation? Choosing the Path That’s Right for You At Aloha Divorce™, we know that every relationship is unique—and so is every transition. Whether you’re working through challenges in your marriage or preparing for a peaceful separation, it’s important to choose the right…

Navigating a High-Conflict Divorce: How to Protect Your Peace and Your Kids Divorce is never easy. But when you’re separating from someone who exhibits high-conflict or narcissistic behaviors, it can feel like you’re stuck in an emotional hurricane. If you’re facing constant manipulation,…

🌺 We’d love your support! 🌺 We have been nominated—and we’d be honored to have your vote! 🗳️ Vote here: www.votenorthcounty.com (Scroll to “Family Law” and select Aloha Divorce!) #AlohaDivorce #VoteNorthCounty #BestOfNorthCounty

I recently joined the Lawyers in Blue Jeans podcast to talk about why prenups & postnups aren't about fear or distrust—they're about clarity, communication, and protecting what matters most. These are some of the most pro-love, pro-partnership documents out there. 🎧 : olasmedia.com/blogs/why-ev...

Grateful to be part of Red, White & Brew with Aloha Divorce + Lawyers Club of San Diego! 🍷⚖️ All in support of the Fund for Justice—208 grants & over $550K raised since 1999 to empower at-risk women. Proud to give back with this amazing community! 💪 #FundForJustice #LawyersClubSD

My Wedding Dream Team: A Trusted Vendor List from a Divorce Attorney Who Still Believes in Love As a collaborative divorce and prenup attorney, I help people navigate love’s transitions with grace. But before Aloha Divorce was born, I was a bride planning my own wedding—just like many of you might…

A modern prenup isn’t just legal protection—it’s relationship design. Here are five principles to keep in mind when creating a prenup that reflects your values, not just your fears. Inspired by The Prenup Prescription by Aaron Thomas and the real-life conversations we have every day at Aloha Divorce

Designing Your Premarital Agreement: What You Should Know About Prenups Inspired by The Prenup Prescription by Aaron Thomas At Aloha Divorce™, we believe a prenuptial agreement is more than just a legal document—it’s an opportunity to build your marriage on a foundation of clarity, communication,…

Why The Date of Separation Matters in Your California Prenup Let’s be real—separations aren’t always dramatic exits with someone storming out and slamming a door. In California, "separation" isn’t just about who’s sleeping on the couch or who moved out first. It has a very real legal…

Had a fantastic time speaking with the SDSU Pre-Law Society about law school, LSAT prep, and the realities of running a solo practice in family law. Loved the thoughtful questions from such a sharp group of future lawyers!

Excited to share my article, “Meaningful Connections: Career Insights with Justice Julia C. Kelety,” published in @LawyersClubSD Magazine! Insights on networking, integrity, and mentorship from one memorable evening. 🌟 lawyersclubsandiego.com/docDownload/...

Why Relying on Luck Isn’t a Sound Strategy: The Case for Prenuptial Agreements St. Patrick’s Day may be the time for shamrocks, parades, and a little Irish luck, but when it comes to your future financial and emotional well-being, luck alone isn’t enough. As romantic as the idea of a “happily ever…

Feeling lucky to be part of this year’s St. Patrick’s Day Golf Tournament as a sponsor! 🍀⛳ It’s always a joy to support our local community and spend the day on the green. Wishing everyone a fun-filled tournament and a very Happy St. Patrick’s Day! ☘️

Looking Back, Moving Forward: Finding Gratitude in Past Relationships

🎉 Exciting news! @alohadivorce.bsky.social is now a proud member of The Collaborative Practice of San Diego! Honored to join this network dedicated to resolving divorce & pre-marital agreements respectfully & collaboratively—without litigation. 🤝 Learn more:

🎨🍷 Had a fantastic time at the NCBA Paint & Sip Membership Social! A great mix of creativity, networking, and legal camaraderie. Big thanks to Assoc. for hosting such a fun and engaging event! Can’t wait for the next one. #AlohaDivorce #NCBA #PaintAndSip #LegalNetworking #DivorceWithAloha