Quite a difference 2 years and 9 months makes

Deadnaming me doesn’t hurt me. I literally still use that as my middle name. What it does do is give me a red flag that you’re asshole I don’t need to waste time on.

So, that’s me on the front page of misfile today. That’s what I look like now. Anyway, happy transgender day of visibility, even if, like me, you live in a country that refuses to acknowledge it.

Just going to put this out here because the finished version of my trans memoir is now available: haleygrey0.gumroad.com/l/fbwhmz

Please help fix my heater. My fingers are too cold to draw properly www.ebay.com/itm/25735282...

Well. It took about 25 hours for insurance to say that my gender affirming surgery that is specifically covered under my policy isn’t covered. Now I have to appeal to get a service I was already told by that same company is covered. Fuck insurance and this country.

I don’t know why I have become the person of choice to call when other trans folks are on the cusp of suicide but that’s 4 this year as of last night. I’m so mentally and emotionally exhausted. This year has been devastating to my community and I don’t see an end to it

They put vulnerable minority in quotation marks in reference to trans women implying that they think trans women are not vulnerable meanwhile the trump administration is planning to end prison rape protections for trans and intersex people

I hate that the American flag in my mind has become a trigger that was “you are not safe or welcome here/with this person.” It took less than a year for it to go from something I defended to something that inspires anxiety.

I’m sick sick of “how am I supposed to explain this to my children” as a conservative go to. If you didn’t want to have have conversations you personally find uncomfortable you shouldn’t have had children

What if we all just start carrying these. ICE shows up. Everyone pops them and scatters. ICE won’t even know who is who

Just sitting in my living room stressed out and dysphoric as shit today. Fun…

Trump should be glad he didn’t win the Nobel peace prize. It’s probably the only thing he has in common with most Americans

Well, the senate just caved and voted “yes” on the defense spending bill containing every anti trans rider the gop wanted. 26 voted “yes”. I await the same fate for the budget bill’s anti trans riders. Spineless fucking dems. Should i just lay down and die. Would that make it easier for you.

Meanwhile tech companies are like sOrY we know you need that water to live but we've decided its much more important to be able to make ai Generated images of cats robbing banks while dressed like Santa claus.

Well…… getting pretty late on the day and I still haven’t seen any of my neighbors flying up to heaven… ;)

If they can’t find a feeble justification to blame trans people for the shooting, they’ll make one up and go for it anyway. In a post truth society the impact will still be largely the same. Watching my back even more than usual this week. Like right wing strangers didn’t hate me enough already

It’s just going to be this over and over for the next four years. I’m so god damn tired. www.erininthemorning.com/p/house-hhs-...

"We have ai" is is the current equivalent of "we have a website" in 1999 and the bubble will crash just as hard once investors realize just having ai doesn't really mean anything.

www.cnn.com/2025/09/04/p... Fuck…

The rise of Gavin Newsom terrifies me. He’s made is so clear he does not understand or support trans people and is willing to throw us under turn us to win.

I’m tired of “the algorithm”. I’m trans and it knows and every moment I spend on mine I’m fed articles by hateful people, videos by people who don’t want me to exist. I just want to be anonymous and ignored so I can browse without being fed hate and getting depressed

Not like I didn’t see this coming, but… www.reddit.com/r/transgende...

When I was a cis white guy and another in a long line of cis white guys shit up a school I didn’t have to worry about angry white men taking out their wrath on me for being another white man. Yesterdays shooter was trans and I am afraid to exist in public today.

I hate living in a world where only willful ignorance of world events keeps me in a sane state of mind

Why can’t I feel like the woman in my selfies. She’s cute, confident, sexy even. I feel like she only exists in the eyes of the camera and out here in this malformed, oversized, poorly proportioned husk with a shitty voice and no one sees that other woman, not even me, not even in the mirror.

I swear. If Jesus DID come back Trump would have him deported and MAGA would cheer while he did it

Im tired of having to be the stronger better person while justifying my right to exist.

Anyone else find it ironic that the manosphere whose core belief is “women aren’t people” are suddenly up in arms and painting themselves as protectors over the Epstein list? Like, I’m surprised they’re not all on it.

Washington DC: Trans girl housed in male unit has jaw broken in fight at DC juvenile detention www.nbcwashington.co... #transgender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA

NEW: Metadata from the “raw” Epstein prison video shows approximately 2 minutes and 53 seconds were removed from one of two stitched-together clips. The cut starts right at the “missing minute.”

That Jeffrey Epstein evidence isn't missing — there's more than you can imagine.

I keep thinking about how Gov Abbott had plenty of funds to fly and bus migrants all across the country but couldn't come up with a million for a flood warning system.

Well I’ve spent the last week and a half avoiding the news and social media and feeling happy. I’ve been here two minutes and I’m sad frustrated and angry already >:(

I have a message for our elected representatives... Stop telling your constituents that everything is going to be okay. Unless you ever had to choose between Groceries or filling a Prescription for an important Medication before, you don't know what okay means. Help us or shut up! Action, not words!

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Am I right ladies?

Trump only cares about one thing that isn’t Donald Trump. He doesn’t care about you or me. He doesn’t care about children or America. He doesn’t even care about being wrong as he will go to the grave claiming he was right hit either way. The only other thing he cares about is being obeyed.

Important to know that these cuts kick in right after the 2026 midterms. That’s how you know they know it’s bad.

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Everyone who follows me should call their Senator this morning to urge them to vote in favor of Wyden’s point of order and remove the Medicaid funding ban for transgender care from Trump’s horror bill.