Militant survivor led anarcha feminism for me but not for thee

One thing that is important to remember is that trans women are evil because they are hot and you want to fuck them. This is something they do *to* you just by existing

Me when my partner has a conflicting need

Had to explain to my mom again that antifa isn't a group or something you do, it's an identity that you claim

If someone believes you having boundaries for where *you* will go or situations *you* will be there in are controlling of *who* that means they feel like they might be entitled to you & your something or other. You are always allowed to decide what something regards to what you will be a part of.

Lord above I'm so glad I no longer have someone in my ear constantly reminding me that my actions affect others and have consequences I might need to think through. I didn't ask and I do what I want!

A Cis Girl's Guide To Picking Up Trans Girls gabe dunn eat your heart out substack.com/@halimedemf/...

I'm glad my survivor uses they/them pronouns, because I can just post about anyone anywhere, real or imagined, and imply it was all my ex 🥰

Without thousands of dollars to throw around I could never have accepted the comforting lies that make my life possible

Journaling hits different when people can like and fav your entries

Every trans woman is a precious innocent angel baby who must be protected and championed by me personally. Except of course my ex who I abused who's trans womanhood I ignore because it's inconvenient for my narrative

I can tell a fake anarchist from a mile away, but I don't know what anarcho-communists, primitivists, syndicalists, mutualists, egoists, black anarchists or insurrectionists believe

Late summer night, riding home on my bike. No helmet, no lights, tipsy, taking up the lane. This is the life

I love looking ripped I love being strong

I would never let a trans call herself a "bitch" I would teach her that her femininity is something too sacred to be denigrated

I have run cover for a few rapists and abusers, but I've done so much more survivor support

Someone: minding their own business Me: "Boytits clubs baby seals to death"

Anarchists got mad at me because I believe disabled people are allowed to mace people in the park for not masking

When people set the bar for how much power it's ok to have over people at or around the amount they currently have it's so obvious what they're doing. I will freely admit on the other hand that it's unethical to have as much power over people as I do

I say so much about my ethics, but there are exceptions for me. I would never let someone else behave this way though, and that has to count for something

Morning.

I bring a sort of "you don't know better for me than I do" to my life that people who describe things they concretely witnessed and experienced extremely dislike. Sorry I have I want to make your life choices for you disease

Look, seeing my ex hold hands with a trans woman was really traumatic because it reminded me of seeing kink at pride, and now I flinch everytime queers hold hands in public

Your heart is a muscle the size of your fist, and I am going to devour it

Speaking my truth may have wrecked a space for survivor support, ended most of my friendships, and caused myself and everyone near me pain, but it was all worth it

I'm so thankful to have people in my life now that I can beat at 4D chess

Look, seeing my ex hold hands with a trans woman was really traumatic because it reminded me of seeing kink at pride, and now I flinch everytime queers hold hands in public

I'm very emotionally vulnerable rn if any trans women want to come feed me grapes on the chaise lounge

I'm sorry that transfems feel scared around me. I'm really not a scary person though, just outspoken. They are like prey animals, naturally predisposed to fear, I suppose

Why does everyone abandon me?

Might need extra long acrylics to claw my way out of this mess

I wish I was as good at poly as my Barbies, but working through that stuff is really what play is all about

I dream of a world where people believe me and not the big accounts