Today on NovaLandia: "Why is Wafrn Blocking Multiple Trans Fediverse Instances?" In early October, I stepped down from my moderator position over at app.wafrn.net, which also followed me deleting my accounts and moving onward with my own instance/s. I detailed that this was someth […]

[transmisogyny, a bit venty] so, what I'm gathering from the past day and change from Transmisogynist Queer Fedi is that transfems must not only accept our hypervisibility with an unflinchingly stoic face, but also stand bravely against the people who want to murder us, make ourselves loud and […]

["Minors DNI is Problematic" Discourse] okay, so. I saw this thread get boosted around quite a bit yesterday, including by a number of people whose politics I generally respect. and and I genuinely don't blame them for doing so, because the exact […] [Original post on social.treehouse.systems]

It is being normalized. Just not how they want us to believe.

rancid fucking "'minors DNI' is problematic" discourse on the TL. too sleepy to write now. expect Rachelposting tomorrow.

if you're going to have instance rules against "misandry" then you might as well just go the full mile and have rules against cisphobia and straightphobia too

[Transfeminine Hysteria: Pathologizing Transfeminism] one rancid take that I've increasingly seen seep out of the Fediverse Trans Manosphere - the loose collection of transmasculine people and allies who spend inordinate amounts of time engaging in […] [Original post on social.treehouse.systems]

a couple days ago, I wrote a little followers-only post about how, when I started transitioning, I only wanted to love and be loved as myself. and how, many years later, I want much more than that. trans women and transfeminine people harbor so much self-hatred as a whole. every day, I see […]

[_the doctor who assigned me male at birth wakes up with a start, forty years later_] _oh shit. I've made a terrible mistake._

By FAR the best feature of itch . io is the ability to define a custom noun for your project. Never gets old.

[_the doctor who assigned me male at birth wakes up with a start, forty years later_] _oh shit. I've made a terrible mistake._

toxic femininity (girlkissing)

i swear the most repressed bitches be the ones telling you to "go to therapy" as if therapy is a magic spell that makes you Normal

a couple days ago, I wrote a little followers-only post about how, when I started transitioning, I only wanted to love and be loved as myself. and how, many years later, I want much more than that. trans women and transfeminine people harbor so much self-hatred as a whole. every day, I see […]

House of Leaves, but it's been adapted for the fandom-anti audience and the footnote within the footnote is "personally, i, as the author, disapprove of my character's actions"

meow

phoenix wright: asexual attorney

oh hell yeah i found a new annoying thing to be https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ignosticism

I just finished watching Adolescence with my gf, and it was phenomenal. It also scratched an itch for me, the way every episode was shot in one, long, continuous take Does anyone have any suggestions for more stuff like that? the only things that come to mind as being even similar are movies […]

I'm reasonably sure that the hostile reaction that so many men have to the simple idea that all masculinity is toxic under patriarchy - or, that is, the concept that their participation in an oppressive ideology is, in fact, _oppressive_ - is due to the fact that so many men tie their very core […]

[food (non-veg)] few people know that, after the Smashing Pumpkins broke up at the turn of the millennium, Billy Corgan began to dabble in canned meat products alongside his music

remembering how, among the fucking wild accusations being thrown around today, fedi MRAs were accusing myself and other transfeminists of having been radicalized through notorious radical-feminist website 4chan

personal growth is realizing you'd rather have a lot of people hate you while remaining true to your values, than having those same people like an inauthentic version of you

Hey fellow trans people!! GET FUCKING CUDDLED!! ​:neocat_snuggle:​

among the other, frankly bizarre, permutations of oppositional sexism that I've seen come out of the periodic rounds of transmisogynist discourse on fedi, is the seemingly pervasive idea that transmasculine people have some special insight into both manhood _and_ womanhood - or into both […]

"Modern luxury is the ability to think clearly, sleep deeply, move slowly & live quietly in a society designed to prevent all four."

[Make Your Choice (transfeminist-posting)] when I see people discussing the Trans Community as a monolithic whole - generally in the vein of articulating their ideal paradigm of Queer Unity - I have to stop myself from responding with incredulity. the Trans Community alone is riddled with […]

don't be a dick to trans women and transfems

I just want to be clear that, if anything I say makes one or more men uncomfortable: **good.** I hope you sit with that discomfort and that doing so leads you to earnest self-criticism about your participation in male supremacy.

men declaring their masculinity isn't toxic is extremely "I've evaluated myself and judged myself free of wrongdoing" like, um, you don't get to decide that

men declaring their masculinity isn't toxic is extremely "I've evaluated myself and judged myself free of wrongdoing" like, um, you don't get to decide that

The puppygirl in your phone is real and is trapped inside. Smash your screen to set her free. #feditips

I remember seeing a post a bit back about "independent medical reviews" and some other recourse available when the usual methods fail - I think it was on fedi but I can't seem to find it, here or elsewhere does anyone remember? I know someone it could be really helpful for right now

[Rachel and Feminism: A FAQ] **Q: are you a radical feminist?** A: yep, sure am! **Q: what do you mean when you say you're a "radical feminist?"** A: I mean that I'm a feminist seeking an end to patriarchy and male supremacy, rather than a liberal feminist seeking explicit carve-outs […]

hades 2; or as we like to call it, the book of trans girl names

[Pluribus spoilers] I read a really bad take earlier today claiming that one can read this show as a metaphor for a post-COVID world, and I legit think this might be one of the worst moments of media illiteracy I've ever seen. Carol is an absolute piece of shit - selfish, reactive, and […]

[misgendering, sarcasm/humor] when a transfeminine person is even slightly rude to a man on the internet

FYI, I've been getting a steady trickle of new follows lately, and there may be folks out there whom I didn't follow back. if I didn't, then please don't be offended - my bimbo brain often only has headspace to do a cursory vibe check on people. that said, if you're trans, and _especially_ if […]

if benjamin button transitioned in reverse, that would make her the world's only perisex AFAB transfem

[misgendering, sarcasm/humor] when a transfeminine person is even slightly rude to a man on the internet

is there anything sadder than a trans girl who's internalized the "misandry" brainworms - who believes that people treated her rudely pre-transition because people are way too mean to men, and not because of AGAB and the heterosexual regime? who blames mean feminists instead of some doctor […]

ooooh, finally just got emailed an invitation to the Rancho Gordo Bean Club! pretty sure I got on this waitlist like two years ago. :blobfox3c: anyway, beans and rice are the closest thing I have to an autistic samefood, and I've never cooked with heirloom cultivars before - so I'm excited to […]

everyone on Queer Fedi deserves to learn what a context-collapse attack is, how it works, and why it's so prevalent across social media. I've personally received all sorts of wild accusations - from queerphobia, to gender essentialism, to participating in harassment campaigns, to outright […]

[A Short Play (transfeminist-posting)] [_SCENE: a small conference room with spartan decor - little more than a series of chairs situated around the table. on one side, AFAB ENBY, TRANSMASC, and CIS GAY sit, their hands folded, stern looks on their faces. on the other sits TRANSFEM, her […]

[rachel wobbles into the kitchen, meowing in a sing-song voice] Rachel: "oh, by the way, I---" *bursts out in a fit of giggles, unable to finish what was probably otherwise going to be a very normal sentence* me: [smirking] "...did you happen to forget to take your ADHD meds earlier?" Rachel […]

[uspol] the frustrating thing about the Dems caving is that the Trumpenreich was rapidly cocking up the narrative that they were trying to craft. news stories were everywhere of Trump all but literally taking food out of people's mouths. after that, they couldn't pretend that it was the […]

[A Short Play (transfeminist-posting)] [_SCENE: a small conference room with spartan decor - little more than a series of chairs situated around the table. on one side, AFAB ENBY, TRANSMASC, and CIS GAY sit, their hands folded, stern looks on their faces. on the other sits TRANSFEM, her […]

when other men inevitably step in to defend a male sex pest