My most problematic opinion: most of the world doesn't deserve all the good things specifically trans women were instrumental in creating, chief among them being, of course, trans women. I'll not apologize for this belief and I want it known that everything I do for the world, I do for trans women.

We did it! Thanks for an incredible EXXXOTICA, Chicago! Thanks to @z.cash Community Grants for believing in our mission to inform sex workers about the power of shielded ZEC and the Zodl app! Thanks to @mylo-ryn.com, @biancastone.bsky.social, and @thedommekat.com for being the greatest team ever!

Finally off my feet after 3 long days at @exxxotica.bsky.social Chicago with @mylo-ryn.com (pictured), @biancastone.bsky.social, and @thedommekat.com! We also had the absolute best booth neighbors in The Twix Twins! (They gave us candy!) I saw @gitsie.bsky.social again! And talked to other vendors!

Lmao! "Let me know." As if. 🤣 Dudes, if someone else books at that exact same time it means he put down a deposit and the absolute last thing I'm doing is going through my inbox to find your messages to let you know? What I'm actually going to do is open my calendar to confirm his date+time. Duh.

Exxxotica Chicago "lunch break." 👄🌭😄 We've met such an inspiring cross section of the industry, from buyers curious about private purchases to creators who feel a deep sense of resignation around being kicked off sites or payment apps, to sex worker advocates excited about what we're bringing here.

Best compliment my team got at #Exxxotica yesterday was from a man who almost walked by our booth without stopping but who looked curious enough that I called to him and then ended up staying to talk for almost an hour. "I can get ass anywhere," he said, "but you folks are unexpected, and amazing!"

Erotic streamer @atlasgrey.bsky.social was banned off X/Twitter! And Twitch! He still has CashApp but he's nervous about possibly getting banned off that app, too. So he came by to learn his customers can use their existing pay app accounts to send him @z.cash: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...

Booth 427 at #Exxxotica Chicago, the @z.cash Kitchen. Get safety kits for your body AND your wallet. Try Zodl.com & CipherPay.app! For fans: Buy direct from creators without banks knowing! For creators: Sell to anyone using apps that CAN'T ban you. Learn more: VioletRollergirl.com/resources/fo...

Look who stopped by the @z.cash booth! Would you take both of us on? 💪🤼‍♀️ With @mrosette.bsky.social #wrestlers #wrestling @exxxotica.bsky.social #Chicago (booth 427)

Day one - @exxxotica.bsky.social Chicago at the @z.cash booth (number 427). Great location! We’re close to the @realloyalfans.bsky.social booth, the bathrooms and the workshop area. Come on over and see us 💋💪 With @violetrollergirl.com @mylo-ryn.com @biancastone.bsky.social the dream team ✨

Crypto corner crew. See us at Mamma’s @z.cash Kitchen at Exxxotica Chicago and learn about using crypto for adult payment and billing purposes. We are here Saturday through Sunday to answer your questions and get you on board! @thedommekat.com @violetrollergirl.com @mylo-ryn.com

Oh hello ZECsy, are you looking for a bandaid or perhaps a payment app that CAN'T ban you? Booth 427 @exxxotica.bsky.social, all weekend long! @z.cash has you covered.

Turning myself on by thinking about the moment he quoted the caption I wrote to one of my lewds on here back to me as I was doing that very same lewd thing to him. 🥵

*Bernie Sanders voice* I am once again begging men to stop listening to this manosphere manoslop, book the girl, and spend some time together just chilling, omfg. To Netflix 'n' Chill you actually gotta do the chill part, too. None of this gender trope grift is even coming from sources with bodies.

Byeeee, Albany! Suuuuch a good time! Spent breakfast replying to sweet but slow suitors requesting dates with me this week reminding them that clients who book ahead get more head. 😘 This tour has been fully booked for weeks. But if you pre-screen, you can get on my shortlist now for my next time.

Date 'fit. 😘

Packing now! Can’t wait to see you

Using @z.cash just got even more important. Iran wants toll fees for passage through the previously free Strait of Hormuz in BTC because they think that can't be traced. But it can. Payments in BTC can be denied due to past transactions having nothing to do with you. De-paywalled: archive.is/A5Tvh

Sex work stigma is absolutely wild. Raise your hand if you're a sex worker who knows things about financial privacy, or @z.cash specifically, or read my crypto guides for adult industry pros: VioletRollergirl.com/resources/fo... Meet me at Exxxotica Chicago this weekend for free 1:1 consultations!

I send cis women to @katie.bzky.team's pghrt.diy website when they have estrogen/progesterone questions and it's often more helpful than their doctor. It's 2026 and we still can't play sports but trans girls are the de facto experts for cis women's hormone therapies, actually. Sisterhood is real. 🫡

Getting looks—smiles and sneers alike—for touching up my nail polish on the floor of Moynihan Train Hall on my way to Albany, and I just do not care. 😂 I'm not one of those pretentious girlies. I'll use any surface to do basically whatever I want whenever I want if it's not hurting someone else. 👸🏻💅🏻

I promise you, every estimated number of sex workers is very, VERY low. On more than one occasion, I promised sex to tradesmen if they could fix broken electrical or plumbing for me. That's (legal!) sex work and yet those men don't think of me as a sex worker. Unpaywalled version: archive.is/dpalg

Definitely gonna need to start a blog. Here's me talking about sex work as a trans provider, the importance of/inherent tension between private growth and public celebration for social beings, and encryption technology. (Re-posting because this audio is way better than the first version I posted!)

Jfc, I just got wet. 😮‍💨 The way it hits when they do this level of research and are thoughtful isn't just a compliment, it's a motherfucking flex. This is the only way to go from "some client" to "omg I get to see him again he is the best and I LOVE him!" And I don't know why this needs explaining!

Good Lord in heaven, I absolutely need a t-shirt that reads: "Men who text me after finding my number via my website sure do ask a lot of questions already answered by my website."

I'm continuously tweaking my website and ads, I just don't announce it because that'd get tedious. But, if you haven't perused my site this year, I posted updates to my crypto articles, new guides for clients seeking maximum discretion, a streamlined links page, and new photos sprinkled throughout.

He is risen, indeed. 💜 (The video this still was taken from and many more like it are all on my OF under the "blowjob" label, among others. You're welcome!)

Happy Easter. Go touch (gr)ass today. ❇️ 🩷🤍🩵 #outdoors #ass #denim #shorts #DateNYC #GFE #fssw #transgirl #BubbleButt #trans #mtf 🐇

Hey creators! If you need anything at Exxxotica Chicago next weekend from mouthwash, stain remover, vanity kits, to, I dunno, perfectly private, untraceable electronic cash that's easier to use than Venmo but doesn't need to see your ID, visit the @z.cash booth! We'll blow your mind. Respectfully.

Another way to say this would have been "these days, I'm finding I more often have to explain certain jokes by letting some people in the conversation know that I have a penis." 🤣 But also, at this rate, I'm gonna need to get new jokes soon.

When someone urges you to "become ungovernable," what they are asking is to imagine accomplishing something for yourself without asking for permission. That's it. "But we need the government—" Stop right there. The point is to IMAGINE. We may need cooperation, but DO we need the government? Do we?

Back home in NYC but traveling in a few days again! Friendly reminders: - My tour+travel calendar is on my website; there's no need to ask me where I'll be when. - I usually book ~2 DAYS, not hours, ahead. Spending time with me in Chicago or in/around Boston after that starts at my booking form.

After Cannes, next up is Exxxotica Chicago (Apr 10-12), where I'll help you use perfectly private digital money in your business. 😎 Fellow @z.cash expert @mylo-ryn.com, Sex Work Survival Guide founder @thedommekat.com, and OnlyBanned.com brand ambassador @biancastone.bsky.social are all joining me!

Bye, Cannes. 👋🏻🇫🇷☺️ You were such a delight and I'd love to be in you again soon! And shout-out to the rideshare driver who spoke absolutely no English and still decided to punch in what must have been his "idk, she tried to speak French but is probably American" playlist for my ride to the airport! 😂

"Those who do not move, do not notice their chains." —Rosa Luxemburg I've loved Android (and @grapheneos.org) for the freedoms it offers. But tonight I hit an issue I can't fix because of upcoming changes Google is making that will kill alternative app stores, like F-Droid.org. keepandroidopen.org

Confession time: I'm actually not a biological woman. 😞 I'm a lesbian vampyre from outer space: www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_Jo... But! This does mean I am still a biological being, so excluding a trans woman from the set of "biological women" is just farcical for what should be very obvious reasons.

I truly love the food, the wine, the views, the beach clubs, and so much more here…but there aren't enough pool tables in France! 😉

Despite all that, I am an incredibly lucky woman and, yes, I absolutely do know this and I appreciate everyone who has helped me make this life my life. 🥰 Like…wow. 🥹 One more day in Cannes before I return to the States, into the arms of a very special someone, and then the Exxxotica Chicago expo!

Hey, event organizers. Please, for the love of God, train your door/registration/greeting staff to stop interrogating women who use a name on her registration that doesn't match her legal ID. Come. The. Fuck. On. Already. Must I enumerate all the reasons this is a completely normal thing? Really?

Beginning to realize that many of my jokes were tragically a lot funnier back when I didn't pass as well. 🥲

This panel went really, REALLY well, by the way. ☺️💜🙇🏻‍♀️ Thank you to Hana, Jan, and the rest of the Oak Security team for inviting me to participate. The conversation went beyond just the how of privacy and into some very personal territory for the why, too! There's full video we may post soon, too!

Everything in this thread! 💯‼️ I'd also add it's not enough to speak up. Please also ACT up. - Make a fuss when clients or passers-by treat marginalized workers worse than they treat you. - Switch to safer tools like @signal.org for your inquiries or booking forms so these become the industry norm.

It may be April 1st, but this stacked panel lineup is no joke! We hit capacity days ago and the wait-list keeps growing! 😳 Meanwhile, I've been having an incredible time at #EthCC in Cannes and if you're wondering what I'll be speaking on, just go peep my site: VioletRollergirl.com/resources/fo...

Shoutout to @violetrollergirl.com today and all days for doing the deeply important work educating us on digital safety and crypto. Knowledge is protection, autonomy, and power. Now go tip her, preferably via ZEC.

Not since MintStars' crypto moves have I been excited about a new content platform but OnlyBanned is ticking many of the same boxes! You'll be able to find my hard fetish, extreme #bondage b/g, and some solo content there when they launch tonight at 5pm Eastern: violetrollergirl.com#links-onlyba...

*leans in close, whispers in trans* Those who make peaceful visibility impossible make violent vengeance inevitable. Happy #TDOV.

I'm not a pedant. I won't (outwardly) judge or belittle you for these mistakes. But as someone who enjoys the art of precise communication, I notice these mistakes every time. I also notice: - "discrete" when you mean "discreet" - "dominate" when you mean "dominant" - "female" when you mean "woman"

Hi, Cannes. 🇫🇷☺️💜 If you're at #EthCC this year, come by the OakSecurity.io cocktail hour and panel on Wednesday at 5pm where I'll be speaking alongside some amazing technologists and privacy advocates! luma.com/by5hcste Hosted by two of the most fun folks I got to meet last year in Buenos Aires! 💕

Cannes just got more trans by exactly one me. 😄🏳️‍⚧️ I made it to France safely and with minimal border fuss, which is quite a relief. I'm excited to go explore in the city, but not before getting some much-needed rest. I'm here all week, including to speak on a panel about how I use @z.cash for work.

I feel this! 😄 I have an ever-expanding set of Google Maps lists for all kinds of types of stuff I wanna do and places I wanna go, so I'm not afraid of planning a fun date. But when he shows up with initiative and an invitation and lets me passenger princess with intention, oh lordy, that's hot. 🥵