This. If you haven't right-clicked to "View source…" on my website then have you really even tried flirting with me?

Working on some big `commit`ments. 👩🏻‍💻

Grl, wut.

Why do we call it "open source" when we could've called it "free use"? 👀

Stablecoins are the most vile, invasive financial surveillance and control power grab in all of history. But making it easier for clients to send me USDC without knowing they're using it is great. I'll have them send to my swap deposit address in @zodl.com. They think it's fiat. I pocket @z.cash.

Seems like a good time to remind my hotel-going frendz on here that no matter what an email says, the only safe way to act on it is to close your email client, manually navigate to the site claiming to have an urgent update for you, and logging in to it using your password manager's autofill button.

Did you know one reason I'm lucky enough to safely ignore tons of demeaning and sexually violent messages is because I run a small, independent consultancy teaching mostly sex workers how to get around these exact financial barriers? I also pay taxes on OnlyFans income. You can hire me for either.

I'm a little cocktail, short and stout. Here is my handle, here is my… 🤭 …spout. (My drink was the white, foamy one.)

It's wild watching Crypto Twitter and its (White Cis Male) Influencers discover what I've been teaching sex workers about private money for years now. I'm not exactly mad, I am happy it's getting recognized. I just think it's another example of why more people should listen to sex workers earlier.

You rejoice when Google Calendar goes down so you can play hooky from your work. I rejoice when work includes creating an iCalendar multi-day date itinerary for clients to review that includes event titles like "Dinner (with lots of ✨eye contact✨)" and "romantic kiss goodbye." We are not the same.

I get this question often from sex workers as well, so I want to remind folks that a journalist's threat model maps almost perfectly to a sex worker's. Apple's Lockdown Mode is great, but paired with Apple's Advanced Data Protection it's like enjoying a rich Cabernet Sauvignon with a juicy steak! 🤤

Quick update: I started this project but I'm not ready to share yet. In the meantime, here's a pretty good overview of one of the most frequently asked questions I'm getting about it: www.cape.co/blog/graphen... My guide will be more advice on practicalities for sex work, not propeller hat niches.

There's a new hot pic of my tits, tight tummy, and bulge in panties on my OnlyFans that I took while packing for this week's Boston-area tour and since it's Titty Tuesday today you should go look at it there. 💦🙂‍↔️ (I don't do any PPV posts, so a subscription gets you everything I've posted on there!)

I feel like a lot of writing about sex work mirrors a kind of platitudinous, self-help styled pulp fiction that can be fun but easy to ignore. So it's refreshing to read something short and sweet but that also feels invigorating, like a shot of nutrients. This piece by @lexcilust.com is excellent.

One of the best things about my job is that so many more of my Mondays are like everyone else's Sundays. Hope everyone's had a lovely long weekend. 🦢💘✨

I'm so glad it's finally sporty tank top season again.

Reading the Liberal Currents piece about interracial cuck porn and I guess I'm not really adding anything new to this but the degree to which everything boils down to incels driving themselves insane with fetish porn is genuinely depressing. But also pretty funny

This article is so good and the comments on its thread here are pretty great, too. TL;DR: Most of what the right wing (and SWERF intelligencia) calls pornography is just sexualized right-wing fear spirals based in real desire that they can't be normal about. Too bad, cuz it'd be hot if they could.

It's actually so easy to just be happy for trans people. And this image goes harder the more you learn about Bitcoin and @z.cash and trans people, by the way. Like this: bsky.app/profile/viol...

It's almost like if you treat people well and compensate them appreciatively for their labor they will like you back or something. HUGE IF TRUE. The implications here are very specifically beyond MIND blowing if you catch my meaning!

Just finished confirming the broad strokes of more upcoming travel dates: 🎓 Boston, MA: 5/25-31 🇩🇪 Berlin: 6/14-22 and 7/7-13 (yup!) ⛰️ Aspen, CO: 7/16-20 🐎 Denver, CO: 7/20-22 All other dates currently NYC with some shuttling to Boston, but I can also 🚆 or ✈️ for the plot. (It you. You're the plot.)

No lies here, guys!!

Let's have cappuccinos and discuss the intricacies of our niche hyperfixations while making the barista envious of the way we smile and gaze at each other.

We had a bit more ✨casual fun✨ at the Banksy Museum than was perhaps appropriate. (I think Banksy would have approved.)

If you think trans porn is hot, booking a trans escort will blow your…. 💅🏻 Curious how to do that? Here's a complete guide: VioletRollergirl.com/resources/fo... Wondering how to do that completely secretly? I got you: VioletRollergirl.com/resources/fo... #OurSky #DateNortheast #DateNYC #DateBoston

"I'ma break the law because I love you" is the only courtship I entertain. (The law is wrong. Decriminalize sex work. Because courting me should not be illegal.)

Omg, dream date destination, wow! 😍🌷That foggy skyline! I wanna wear a sundress and be just a little bit chilly except when your arms are around me in this field of flowers! 🌷🌷👩🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏻🌷🌷

A good way to fumble me is to reappear from nowhere after a long silence presuming I remember you, and solely to ask how I'm doing or to "reconnect" with no clear purpose/intention to book. Even if we had a lovely time, reintroducing yourself with a small tip is a sexier way to rebuild our rapport.

I'm generally fearless and have for years routinely visited places that my trans sisters outright refuse to go to and worry about my being in, ranging from certain local bars to foreign countries. But I've never in my life been to the United Kingdom and if the new EHRC guidance stands, I may never.

Sharing pirated media is an underappreciated way to flirt with your crush.

You already know @signal.org is my favorite way to communicate, but I'm far from a purist. To that end, I've added some updates to one of my client guides: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo... - Use a Private Space in Android for extra discretion. - If you insist on email, encrypt with my PGP key.

Curious about the ins and outs of keeping your financial life discreet? Learn from the pros whose income depends on discretion: luma.com/a-swers-guid... This is my next cryptocurrency privacy workshop! It'll be during Berlin Blockchain Week in June at the legendary Blockspäti, sponsored by @z.cash!

"Energetic younger girlfriend with the wisdom and sexual experience of an older woman" is at least half of my business. 💘😂

He noticed. He read. He acted. 🥰🥰🥰 Thank you for helping support my friends at @decrimny.bsky.social and helping me pay for my @tryst.link ad at the same time❣️ This makes it so much easier to have more of all the fun things we get to do together! Even a bit does a lot! tryst.link/tlc-donation...

The escorts who use booking forms do so because they make "first contact" actually useful. Most escorts use third-party providers to host their forms, which is inherently non-private. What's the alternative? Plain HTML and links like this from time immemorial: violetrollergirl.com/colophon/boo...

ways to actually stand with us: - contact your representatives & advocate for decriminalization - tip/pay SWers - donate to SW advocacy & aid organizations (see replies for links) - stand up for us irl - if you are a client and are able to, fight stigma by opening up to friends about seeing a SWer

Yes, some of our posts are advertisements. No one's saying you can't like them. But I bet none of the men accusing sex workers of Doing Advertising Wrong by not re-engaging with them are asking themselves why they don't expect similar personalized attention when replying to, say, a Nike commercial.

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Clients, when you do homework on a provider and sensibly go to a search engine like Google to check her out, please make sure your SafeSearch setting is set to OFF. You're looking for an adult service provider. Of course her stuff isn't going to show up when you filter adult stuff out. C'mon, now.

Awesome! Adding you. ✅ Also FYI, if you take crypto, then you can try #$ZEC even without your client or customer sending you any. They can "pay in Bitcoin" but you can actually receive @z.cash without them knowing. Practice doing a "swap deposit" described here: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...

I haven't tried ZEC yet, but I do take crypto and am trying to move away from using Venmo/Cashapp for deposits, so always happy to have more options for that. Also I love the stuff you write, it is very helpful!

with 1 million thanks to @violetrollergirl.com, 👸🏻princess of zcash👸🏻 for being such an incredible scholar/leader on digital security + crypto bc without her tutoring on this topic, this hot exchange would never have happened. (if you don't already follow her, fix that now duh!!!)

This is what I love to see! More providers accepting @z.cash. More admirers showing their appreciation for us by sending us #$ZEC! Lovelies, here's a list of providers who you can shower with ZECsy tokens this way: go.bsky.app/RXpNQMd And if you're a sex worker who accepts crypto and want in, hmu!

"If you can't do these things that might be disapproved by authority, but are actually perfectly ethical and the right thing to do because you fear the consequences, then that leads to a worse society." This is Daira-Emma Hopwood. Ze has been building @z.cash for over ten years. Don't cis-wash it.

There are only two kinds of men in the world: those who get roasted in the group chat, and those who get praised in it. Which one do you wanna be, hmm? 💋

I love you all but no this is not anywhere near a production setup. 😅 It's working, but be patient. 1. You must use Tor Browser. See: VioletRollergirl.com/colophon/#on... 2. It can take a while to connect. You might have a slow circuit. Or you might be the one waking my toy server up. The server:

The insane thing is this is exactly how conversations with lots of men go even when they reach out to paid companions on their own. They'll always be lonely because they aren't truly interested in companionship, they're interested in domination. And red flags are easier to see from a stable perch.

Have you tried visiting my website using @torproject.org's Tor Browser? (I refuse to believe that I'm taking this computer security thing too far. 🤣)

I'm pretty lenient but I'll admit this is one of those things that gets under my skin. If you ask for last-minute, I'm almost always going to tell you to pre-screen now so you can be prepared next time. But most of these kinds of guys won't do that. And so I eventually block those numbers. So sad.

O hai, hello, hey there! ☺️ Thanks for the mention. 🫶🏻 That link is for clients who're new to encrypted money and need a bit of hand-holding. If you're a provider, seller, or vendor, check out my companion guides, too: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo... They'll get you from 0 to 69 in no time. ;)