My favorite thing is helping people find their power in front of my camera during their boudoir session. I've had manyyyyy subs find out they are actually switches that way 😜

The difference between boudoir and a mirror selfie? Support. Direction. And me screaming "FUCCKKKK NOW THAT IS A BOOTY, GODDAMN" in the corner. 🫣📣

“What should I wear to my boudoir session?” Something that feels like a secret. Or a protest. Or both. 👀

Book a boudoir session right now & give a big fuck you to skinny culture at the same time 💁🏻‍♀️ Not when you lose weight. Not when you feel more worthy. You are worthy right. now.

Reminder: Boudoir is inherently political. Taking spicy selfies is political. Both are all about reclaiming your power and ownership over your body, and refusing to shrink or hate yourself.

If you feel too awkward to take a spicy photo, you’re not doing it wrong. You’re probably doing it right! That awkwardness is the space between old shame and new power.

Gentle reminder: You don’t have to earn the right to be seen. 🖤

You know that no one else ever has to see that spicy selfie, right? It can be just for you, tucked away for whenever you need a reminder that you are powerful, gorgeous, and worthy of admiration.

Submission is choosing to stay with your body. Even when the critic is loud. Even when you want to run. Even when it feels really vulnerable. It's trusting in yourself. Showing yourself that you are worthy of love. Take that spicy selfie, not for anyone else. For you.

Sometimes the sexiest thing you can do is stay. With your body. With the photo. With the version of you who needs care. What is it that's keeping you from staying with them?

The "awkward" selfie you never post? Still powerful. Still a reclamation. Still yours 🖤

If you’ve been hiding your body out of fear or shame, taking a spicy selfie is an act of rebellion.

That spicy selfie pose tutorial of mine that you saved agessss ago on TikTok, but you’re scared to try? The one that makes you feel way too much? Yeah, that’s the one. I dare you to try it today.

A spicy selfie a day keeps the shame spiral away (mostly) 😘

The lighting wasn’t perfect. The pose felt weird. But you took the photo anyway? That’s hot.

Genderfluid clients are my fave as a boudoir photographer because we get to do feminine, masculine, and gender-ambiguous posing all in one session and my creativity just skyrockettttsss 😍

Actually, my hyper femininity is NOT for the male gaze. It's for me & MY gaze. 💁🏻‍♀️

Journaling prompt: What is one thing that you struggle to love about your body, but want and feel ready to see differently? What is one small way that you can show love to that part of you today?

A boudoir client once told me that I shouldn't talk about my own struggles with my body because it would make clients not trust me. I think that's bullshit. Why wouldn't you want a boudoir photographer who deeply, personally understands how delicate the relationship with your body can be?

Spicy photos taken from below eye level = dominant 😈 Spicy photos taken from above eye level = submissive 🥺👉🏻👈🏻

"What are you smiling about?" Oh, I'm just thinking about how the Catholic Church across the hall from my queer & kink boudoir studio can absolutely hear me through the walls while I scream, "YESSS GRAB THAT BOOTY OMG SO FUCKING HOT" during my boudoir sessions 🤭💅🏻

When you're a spicy content creator, you spend a lot of time thinking about what other people like about your body. I love photographing OF creators who booked their boudoir session *just* for themselves. I get to help them grow in their love for their own body. It's a special kind of session ❤️

Wait did you know that I offer monthly boudoir/spicy photo session subscriptions for SWers, OF creators, and other spicy content creators? AND it's a fraction of the price of my regular sessions?! 🔥 If you're local to NH, MA, ME, or VT, let's chat! I have 4 spots left for these types of sessions!

No, I do not have plus size poses. I simply have poses for ✨bodies✨

Look in the mirror & repeat after me: My body is a work of fucking art. My body deserves to be shown off. My body deserves to be embraced and loved exactly as it is. You may not believe it now, but I promise every word is true 💖

“Plus Size Poses” is code for “Poses to make someone look smaller.” And that's why I don't have plus size poses in my boudoir studio.

Taking the time to turn off your phone and pour love into yourself is an act of resistance. Remember that.

Reminder: Stepping into your power and unapologetically taking up space is an act of resistance.

As a boudoir photographer, I help people find the beauty in themselves so they can gain confidence and strength from that 😍💪🏻

Doms, your sub doesn't want chocolates for valentine's day. They want to see your forearms 🥵🤤 #kinktok #domme

The way the layest @bellyythebutton.bsky.social Substack piece brought me to tears. This level of comfort and safety is so important. I've never been in a boudoir shoot and I may never be, but I've been in intimate relationships with huge power imbalances, and just reading this makes me feel safe. +

Boudoir is political. Boudoir is political. Boudoir is political. Boudoir is political. Boudoir is political. Boudoir is political.

The best thing I ever did for my self confidence was cut off all the people in my life who made me feel like shit.

Helping queer folks feel empowered in their bodies is my favorite daily act of resistance 🏳️‍🌈💪🏻

Spicy selfies taken at .7x zoom 😘🤌🏻

If you're looking for... 🌶 Spicy posing ideas & tutorials 🏳️‍🌈 Queer joy & empowerment 💁‍♀️ Confidence tips 🔥 Constant reminders that you're hot AF 📸 A boudoir photographer who is a kinky audhd lesbian brat ...It's me. Hi 👋🏻😍 (You'll like all my socials, not just this one!)

I'm boudoir photographer for the queer, kinky, and neurodivergent folks who want to finally feel empowered in their bodies ✨️

SIZES ARE MADE UP. Stop letting the size on the tag determine your worth.

I'm a boudoir photographer who does not have plus size poses. Here's 3 reasons why.

📢📢 You do not need to hide the size of your body in order to look sexy.

As your boudoir photographer, I am not here to help you hide parts of yourself. I am not here to reinforce all the bullshit that society has fed you all of your life that your body is wrong.

As a queer person and photographer, my skin crawls at the phrase "same sex couple" used so often in the wedding industry. Anyone else? 🤷‍♀️

Published my first Substack post today 🥰 everyboudie.substack.com/p/spicy-self...

brb, helping queer and trans folks feel invincible and beautiful and fully in-love with themselves 💅🏻🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Waking up from the dead like 🔥👑

LOOK AT MY GORGEOUS CLIENT 😍 🔥🔥

Helping women and queer folks learn to love themselves and feel empowered is an act of resistance against a government who wants us to feel worthless and powerless. As a boudoir photographer, it is not lost on me that what I do isn't just about making pretty pictures.

Streaming the Eras Tour currently 🥰

boudoir photographers 📢 if you say you are LGBTQ+ friendly, you need to educate yourselves on posing masculine and androgynous presenting bodies. PLEASE stop posing everyone femininely by default.