I’m writing about my job as independent rogue caregiver for people with dementia

I’m sorry but I need them to at least show up naked on horseback with scythes

I used to love to tweet about gross things happening on the airplane but I need to report that this Detroit to SF flight is full of nice people being unusually kind to one another. I fly a fair amount and something feels different. Keep it up, people!

Thanks, Heidi! It’s 20 years old this year. So cool to see this…

Keep the internet archive alive by donating. This is such important work as government websites get changed

When the swimming hole looks like dessert

Pulled off the bark of my firewood and uncovered this beauty. A true metaphor. Think how gorgeous we would all be if we skinned ourselves and walked around displaying our raw bloody tissue for the world to see what’s really inside!

My friend’s multi-generational family in Altadena lost everything in the Eaton fire. They are one of the many Black families whose fundraisers are not getting the momentum more resourced people are getting in a matter of days! Let’s help!! gofund.me/6239f543

The Ashokan Reservoir right now. The ice floes are making a cool rumble underneath the surface. 13 degrees!

Hello! Not seeing enough Bishop Mariann Edgar Buddle in my timeline

Prudence, who has Alzheimer’s dementia, describes it like this: “It’s like you have a hole in the sole of your shoe and you’re trying to walk so that you don’t step on anything that hurts, but you’re still trying to fool the world into thinking you don’t have a hole in the sole of your shoe.”

Talking about extraterrestrial life with my dementia client today and he said “I’m losing my mind but it’s nice to know that I know nothing and I believe in everything”