One thing that makes 20-somethings leave me alone on the apps when I tell them I’m not interested in someone their age is answering their “why” with “because people in their 20s don’t understand that ‘I’m not interested’ should signal the end of the pursuit.”

If you wake up late do you still go to the gym as a matter of principle even if it’s a very short/bad workout to stay in the habit or do you skip?

RIP Miss Major Griffin-Gracy. Read about her life and legacy here: www.them.us/story/miss-m...

‘Griffin-Gracy’s work as an activist ranged from her work on behalf of people suffering with HIV and AIDS in the early 1980s, to launching San Francisco’s first mobile needle exchange, to her championing of the abolitionist movement, often prioritizing trans women.’

BREAKING: Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, Stonewall Veteran and Legendary Trans Activist, Has Died at 78

Very sad to have published this obituary tonight, but tried to do her legacy justice Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, Stonewall Veteran and Legendary Trans Activist, Has Died at 78 www.them.us/story/miss-m...

Think I may have intermittently fasted my way back to the body I wanted 😌😌😌

I want ice cream so bad 😔

I really should work all day, preparing for this upcoming week. But I want to go to the movies 😔

Forcing me, a Black man, to commute into the office for a job I could do just as well from home is slavery. In this essay I will …

I have returned to the chastity beat for Locktober. My work is never done. www.them.us/story/chasti...

@sinh.bsky.social if you don’t want to talk about wearing a cage get from behind there!

@jasperxreid.bsky.social hiii! I just realized you have a new Instagram and we don’t follow each other on the new one. Tried to send you a DM. Let me know if there’s a better way to reach out

@deniedumpling.bsky.social hi! I’m a journalist and I am working on a quick turn around story. Wondering the best way to be in touch with

Schizophrenic ass weather

Such a demented timeline we live in, you guys. FCC Chair Responds to Kevin McHale About If Kimmel Suspension Is Part of Project 2025 www.them.us/story/fcc-ch...

I’m back in my “gym at 6:30” bag and I just do not think this is what life is supposed to be like

So … Marjorie Taylor Green’s boyfriend told him to do this on Monday in the Oval Office ????????

🙃🙃🙃

Getting mad over on the other app because of the Kimmel news. Came here to see your butts.

Please don’t ever invite me to something at 7 Monday to Thursday below 14th street ever again

Returned to the gym this weekend after taking the last two weeks off because I think I rolled my ankle. I hate the gym.

rent free 🤣🤣🤣

Couldn’t decide if a guy was cruising me on the train so I didn’t look up because I didn’t want to be disappointed 😩😩 I was carrying my Eagle NYC bag and went both went to sit. He let me sit and then sat beside me. And then we were both reading (I’m still working on Gay New York.)

I forgot to post this on here but on another social media platform (maybe that some of you fled) one of the centers of gay discourse was the Probably This breakup video and the fist bump therein. Yeah. I interviewed those guys because no one else did! www.them.us/story/probab...

Be a journalist, they said. Write things that matter, they said www.them.us/story/differ...

Today I’m submitting a draft with a line that reads *clears throat* *checks notes* “???????? Please, be serious!”

Cleaning up my place and came across a Willie Norris t-shirt which reminded me when my neighbor’s kid got caught in the rain and his mom wasn’t home so he asked to sit on my couch. I gave him a shirt to change and color me surprised when he rounds the corner with PROMOTE HOMOSEXUALITY on his chest

Can’t remember if stair master is an ok active rest day activity but going to give it a go anyway (Unfortunately I’ve also become one of those people who reads a book while doing cardio and so I’ll be working on this.)

Also got to learn about Colton Underwood taking AlphaSperm in a sort of “sperm rehab.” The more you know www.them.us/story/colton...

I still believe that the purchase of a hardback book should come with a complimentary PDF!

New episode features Justin Simien on Men on Film. Loved it! podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/b...

Learning hard skills and being talented is really great and all but learning how to be charming and the person people want to be around/know about/be close to will win almost every time.

Are we watching All Stars over here

✨ some professional news ✨ Tomorrow @trevellanderson.bsky.social and I are launching the first episode of Black Queer Canon: The Podcast, which dives into Black LGBTQ+ characters on screen. Available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and most places podcasts are found. www.blackqueercanon.com

Are yall still over here?

I really want to go back to school for a Master’s and change careers but I really dont want to accrue insane amounts of debt as this country slides into another depression and/or fascist uprising, ya know? just let me be a productive member of society and pay more taxes 😡

Dragonball Z is basically "You can beat MY ass, but wait til that nigga Goku get here" 😤🤣

Several of the country’s largest LGBTQ Pride celebrations have lost major sponsors — including Anheuser-Busch, Comcast, Diageo and Nissan — to the tune of $200,000 to $350,000 per event. For @nbcnews.com: www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-...

🗣️🗣️ I HEARD YOUR HEARTS DANCING

Did gay boy drag race lip sync viewing to queer Passover dinner.

Bald with a full beard is 🤤🤤

Kori King was robbed #dragrace

STARBUCKS????

WHAT IN THE COLOR GUARD IS GOING ON TONIGHT

The Pom Pom streamers made it a touch easier

Joella babe 😔😔

Arietty looks 🤤🤤🤤

Oscar soon come

The writing of “G20” — Aaron Sorkin aspires