Safe relationships are ones that include psychological safety. #BlackSky #BlackSkyOver30 #BlackSkyOver40 #BlackSkyOver50

Someone that makes you say “I wish I met you sooner.” >>>

This is dope!

Choose someone that makes you say, “I love the way you love me.”

Identity when someone chooses to learn the hard way and say no more. #Blacksky

I can’t stress enough how you vote with your dollars before you ever get to a ballot box.

There are people who will spend weeks, months, or years hurting you; and think 5 mins “acting” better should reset your feelings and be good enough. Keep those people out of your life. #BlackSky

You deserve what you tolerate. #Blacksky

Never allow someone to make you their punching bag. #Blacksky

Be with someone you don’t have to keep receipts for because they’re mature enough to take accountability.

Make sure the little things you do for them to make them smile is coming from your heart, because doing the little things for the wrong person—they won’t remember it down the road. #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40

Never let them use sex to distract you from their bad character. #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40

People will use manipulation to get you to do something for them because they know unless they trick you, you wouldn’t find who they are as a person appealing enough to want to do anything for them no manipulation involved.

Be with someone that doesn’t compare you to others.

Time gets us all.

Sometimes the exhaustion someone feels is from lying to themselves.

“Men lie. Women lie. Numbers don’t.”

Stop giving the wrong people access to you.

There are people who ask how you’re doing because they genuinely care about your well being; and then there are people who ask how you’re doing because the want to follow up with asking for something, or want information to better manipulate you. #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40

Constantly telling the wrong person you like, or love them, can lead to them using you for money, and favors, or whatever else because they expect you to want to please them. #BlackSky

If they wouldn’t lift a finger for you unless they get something out of it, but expect you to do a lot for them, and would rather jump at an instant for someone they deem worthy / does little to nothing for them—they’re playing in your face. #Blacksky

Being someone’s problem solver (money, favors, resolutions/answers etc.) is draining especially when they take you for granted. You deserve someone that doesn’t drain you. #Blacksky

Keeping to yourself is a lot better than being in the company of someone that’s only using you. #Blacksky

Did they change? Or did you choose to ignore the signs again, and see what you want to see? #Blacksky

When the person is not for you it’s going to feel exhausting. #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40

Freedom is the goal. #Blacksky

True love is a beautiful thing.

If they know you’re the type of person they can treat any kind of way, and get away with it, because you’ll always give them access to you — guess what they’re going to do? #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40 #Blackskyover50

Give someone space to show you what they’d rather do and move accordingly. #Blacksky

Ever removed someone from your life and suddenly stopped hearing “I need” and “I want” all the time? #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40 #Blackskyover50

Nothing built on lies will ever last, and even when you start out with the truth, every lie is just a crack in the structure. #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40

Sometimes the reason they come back is because they noticed you’re not as broken as they intended to leave you, and want to make sure they completely drain, and break you before they leave you alone for good. Never give them access to you again. #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40

Genuine love DOES exist. It’s rare, but it exists. #Blacksky

Today is for genuine love. #Valentinesday #Blacksky

Do they “like” you because of how they benefit from you? Or, do they genuinely like you for the beauty of your soul? #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40 #Blackskyover50

Most people are not intelligent with what they do with their negative energy. People tend to have a least one person they use to absorb their negativity; may it be a partner, child, friend, a random stranger—most people enjoy / feel entitled to treat at least one person any kind of way if they 1/2

People treat you how they feel about you. #Blacksky

Life’s too short to be spending it with someone that doesn’t genuinely like you. #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40

Make the best of the rest of your life. #Blacksky

Someone that feels good to hold and be held by >>> #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40

Reminder: When reading reviews, make sure you’re reading the “most recent” reviews; and not the “most popular” reviews from years ago. #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40 #Blackskyover50

Life is short. Judgement day is nearer than we think. Choosing to do someone dirty / wrong is a choice. #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40 #Blackskyover50

Someone that depends on their partner to make them happy and keep them “balanced”, is a threat to their partner and the people around them. They are mentally and emotionally unwell. #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40

You didn’t break the bridge. Don’t go trying to fix it. Sometimes the best revenge is letting life happen to them on the side where they broke the bridge. #Blacksky

If it’s one thing someone with money and a: • poor soul / broken soul • bad spirit, and • negative mind Gon’ do — is call others poor / broke! #Blacksky #Blackskyover30 #Blackskyover40 #Blackskyover50